My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.

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Pls this is not right, she isnt the only pregnant woman in the world. So why abuse u like that without any atom of respect. She is lucky she married such a calm nd descent man, if not she would have been taught a lesson.

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It is not normal and if she does love you, she wouldn't physically abuse you, vice versa with men who abuse women. You can talk to her calmly that she might need professional help so that the marriage will work better.

I think she have to see a specialist I feel she is too stressful. Need someones to help her or thing go worse. she hits you next what she will do to you. Only a doctor or police will help you to solve your problem.

bro, may i suggest u bring her to a specialist on this issue. my worries is ur wife may start abusing ur kid when u are not around to let her vent her anger. please seek professional help.

Strayjacket. And it's good that you dont lash back. But all joking aside this isnt normal and she needs help. Stand your ground let her know shes over stepping herself.

I would say that you are doing a great job. Have u tried giving her a real tight hug? Maybe it could help to calm her down. I also suggest for her to seek treatment.

There are two sides to every story but if she is violent after an argument then talk to her that you don't like it and if she does it again then she doesn't respect you and it is time to leave

This is unacceptable at any stage of your life and is akin to domestic abuse. Time to talk to her about how you feel, and visit counselling if things don't improve.

First of all, she cannot control her emotion. In fact nobody can. When she is relaxed, was you able to talk to her about her concerns? This is the thing you got to do first.