Unplanned Pregnancy: Can the difficult choice of not keeping the baby scar my wife for life?

Talk it through and discuss the issue calmly. Remember that your wife’s mood may be affected by hormonal changes in the body right now. Try to remain rational and logical when approaching the issue. Think about the considerations that you and your wife may have. Here’s an article on some common concerns that a woman: http://sg.theasianparent.com/coping-with-an-unexpected-pregnancy/ Talk about the available options. If terminating the pregnancy is one of the options you are thinking about, find out about the process and what are the potential risks and concerns. http://sg.theasianparent.com/abortion_in_singapore/ http://www.aware.org.sg/abortion/ Both of you can also consider contacting Pregnancy Crisis Service (PCS) for a range of services (including counseling, pregnancy tests, financial planning, collaborations with schools, collaborations with adoption agencies, legal advice etc) to gather more information before making any decision. Approaching a professional counselor may also help. A third party may sometimes better facilitate discussions. http://pregnancycrisis.sg/ Ultimately, both of you have to be comfortable with your next course of action. Terminating a pregnancy may be traumatic but could be managed if handled properly (support from loved ones). However, there could be other complications (physically) so the decision must be well thought through. That being said, keeping the baby will also require commitment and dedication. At the end of the day, what matters the most is that both of you have to agree and accept the decision made.

Yes, your wife will feel regret for life for not insisting to keep the baby. Imagine, whenever she sees relatives or friends or stranger carrying a baby in their hands and she will start to ask 'what if' I keep the baby.. Do you want her to live in regret? Unless there is any health condition of your wife to consider, abortion is not the last solution. Try to list out and discuss with your wife, what are the reasons that made you to decide not to keep the baby. If it is due to financial reason, you can try to work out a money plan e.g. reduce spending on unnecessary things; If it is due to no one to take care of baby after baby is here, you can consider to engage a nanny/maid/send baby to infant child care. If it is due to you are not ready to be a dad, you will not be ready at all until the baby is out to this world. We learn to be parent along the way, no one knows how to be a parent until we really become one.

Yes, it definitely will. Ultimately it is a life afterall and abortion would definitely bringing about guilt for the rest of her life. Sit down and have a good heart to heart talk about the consequences of both keeping and not keeping the baby before making any decisions.

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