Today my 12-year-old son asked me how much daddy makes. How do I have this convo with him? How much do I disclose?

Don't let yourself, or your child define value as the same as making money. You have a great opportunity with this question to talk about the non-monetary value that Dad brings to the family. Unconditionally loving and supportive are what a daddy 'makes' . A healthy mindset towards money, is one that has it in correct perspective to all the other things parents bring.