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Sy baru 2 bulan lps bersalin. Sy ibu y bkerja, dan sy cuti bsalin slma 3 bulan. 2 bulan ni sy bpantang mak mertua y jga. Sy xsuka. Kerana sy bkn mnantu pilihan dia.dlu masa anak ptma slps 1 bulan bpntang,sy tgl bsma dia. Sy letih mental dan fizikal.emosi sy xstabil.hubungan sy dan suami pun dlm keadaan y x baik.dlu dia jaga anak sulung sy,dia byk komplen kata dirinya letih. Tp sy xpnh srh dia y jaga. Dan skrg sy xnak benda tu terulang lg. Sy sperti penat d ruangan rumah sndr. Bpura² suka.suami slu tnya bila dia nak balik kampung, dia kata blm lg. Anak dia kat kampung pun bahagia bila dia ada dgn kami. Sy mau trend anak sy sblm sy start kerja balik spya nanti dia sdh tbiasa dgn rutin bila sy dh start kerja.tp dia ni x fhm2.sy nak bonding bsama anak tu ckp slma 3 bulan cuti.sy x rasa pun ini cuti bsalin. Anak sy jrg dgn sy. Mandi dia,bg baju dia, kasi tidur dia.tp bila anak mlalak, dia xtau mau pujuk. Hmm.bkn sy y jahat. Tp dia y mulakan dlu.

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Ahhh sayang, I totally get it, confinement with in-laws when things aren't smooth is really draining, and it's so frustrating when your maternity leave doesn't feel like yours at all. A few of us mums went through similar, and honestly the tension with hubby during this time makes everything 10x heavier, so maybe sit down with him when you're both calm and tell him you need actual space with baby during these last weeks, and maybe also talk about when his mum heads home so you can reset as a couple? You're not being unfair, you need that bonding time and mental space before work starts, and your feelings are valid, but do consider getting some professional support too (marriage counselor or therapist) because postpartum emotions + family tension + relationship strain is a lot to carry alone, and you deserve help sorting this out.

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Home Birthclub: Disember 2024 sy baru 2 bulan lps bersalin sy ibu y bkerja dan sy cuti bsalin slma 3 bulan