Kak, you're definitely not alone in this, ramai mums around me pun share the same experience, it's unfortunately quite common for grandparents to naturally gravitate more towards the youngest one, maybe because baby needs more attention and interaction. But the concern is real too, because the older one can sense the difference even at 2 years old, and it can affect how she feels about herself over time. What some mums suggest is to gently have a private conversation with your ayah, reminding him that your kakak also still needs his affection and special time, sometimes grandparents don't even realise they're doing it. Ideally, every grandchild should feel like the favourite when they're with their atuk, kan, that's the beautiful part of being a grandparent.
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