Czer vs normal

Ahhh this is such a big decision! I did C-section with my first (emergency situation) then VBAC with my second, and honestly both ada pros and cons lah. Czer recovery was rough, maybe 4-6 weeks baru boleh gerak betul-betul, can't lift heavy things, tapi at least you know timing and dapat plan childcare better. Normal/VBAC lagi cepat bounce back, boleh gerak the next day, but the labor pain itself quite intense and honestly unpredictable, i went 20 hours with my second. A few of my mum friends who did czer first then normal said they preferred normal because recovery faster and tak payah worry about the surgical scar, but some says nope, czer is more controlled and less messy. Sebenarnya best thing is to sit down with your OB and discuss based on YOUR health history, because everyone's body different. What matters is the baby comes out safe and you pun okay! Have you spoken to your doctor about your options yet?