anak pertama sukar adapt

nak meluah.. first born baru msuk 2thun. skg anak kedua bru 16hari. anak ptama ni jdnya tdr tak teratur, makan tak teratur. tak tahu ni sbb rutin tak teratur ka skg dy tak nk makan.. biasa tdr keadaan gelap dan sunyi. skg da ada adik, sy pakai lampuh malap, ni buat dy susah tdr. bila dah tdr, baby nangis je mesti dy ikut bangun sekali pastu susah nk tdr balik. kdg2 tu smpi jm6 pagi bru dpt tdr. timing dy mkn semua skg jd timing tuk tidur..

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Aah, ini normal lah sikit-sikit untuk firstborn, yang dulu anak tunggal tiba-tiba ada adik, memang adjustment yang besar untuk dia, terutama timing makan tidur jadi chaos. A few of my mum friends went through the same, dan yang paling tolong is kalau boleh maintain mínimum routine untuk firstborn, maybe his bedtime punya lampu malap boleh keep pakai, dan try set a fixed dinner time for him before your newborn's night feeds start, so his body expects it lah. Bila dia bangun sebab baby nangis, jangan langsung engage dia; try keep things calm dan dark, tenang je beside him sambil handle the baby, so dia rasa aman but understands it's still sleep time. Memang seminggu-dua jadi rough, tapi kalau ada consistent anchor (even one meal or one sleep routine yang steady), dia settle faster. If this carries on beyond a month or if you're worried about his eating, worth checking dengan pediatrician just to make sure dia okay.

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