2 kids under 2yrs old

Hi mums can you pls help me out, I am so stressed out with putting them both to sleep its been almost a week, my toddler have been sleeping with my mil and my parents, but soon they cant help me out anymore, and ofc its not gonna be forver sooner or later i have to figure it out, my toddler is super active and my newborn kept on wanting to be with me, and my toddler is so used to someone putting her to sleep like acting like we sleep so she will sleep too now I have a newborn, i tried once but end up she cry2 and sleep so late at 2am (her usual sleep time is 9am) any advice or tips mummies?

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Omg the 2 under 2 bedtime phase is REALLY survival mode 😭 You’re not failing mama. Honestly many of us just do whatever works during the newborn stage. Maybe don’t pressure yourself to handle both alone immediately first. Slowly transition your toddler back bit by bit 😅 Like lie beside toddler while carrying/feeding baby, or let toddler sleep later temporarily while baby settles first. And sleeping at 2am after crying sounds like overtired toddler already 🥺 This phase is super hard but usually gets better once newborn becomes less clingy and routines settle a bit

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