Stop menyusu ibu

Ohh mommy, I really feel for you, melecet sampai berdarah tu memang sangat menyakitkan, you've already done so well for 11 months! The most important thing I've heard is to wean gradually rather than all at once, because stopping suddenly can cause engorgement and it can be quite emotional for both you and baby. Someone in my mum group mentioned replacing the feed your baby seems least fussy about first, maybe the daytime one, with formula in a bottle, then slowly reduce from there night by night, so your body and baby both adjust more gently. Since your little one already takes formula fine with the nanny, that's actually a really positive sign, so perhaps try having the nanny or your partner do the nighttime settling with a bottle so baby slowly unlearns the association between nursing and sleep, it may take a week or two of fussing but many mums find it does work with consistency. Do offer extra cuddles and comfort during this transition, as baby will still need that closeness even without the breast. That said, since your nipples are already injured, it's really worth checking in with your doctor or a lactation consultant just to make sure everything heals properly and to get guidance suited to your specific situation.