Missed Miscarriage

Mid May 2022 found out that I was pregnant, 8weeks. First scan, no heartbeat detected. Doctor said there are 2 possibilities, either it’s no longer developing or it could be too early (as it says foetus size was only 6weeks). But i was still hoping because i had nausea, my appetite increases and few other symptoms. 2 weeks later, went for a 2nd scan and this time my heart broke into pieces seeing my baby was still the same size, no growth, no heartbeat, shrinking sac. It was even more sad when doctor confirmed that my baby did not make it. I was positive and had hope for a while that my baby could make it but Allah knows better. I can feel my body change, a tiny bump was already showing and that was the only bond i had with my first unborn baby. To all mothers who experience the same, my heart and thoughts are with you. We are strong and Allah will replace this loss with something better. In sha Allah.

Missed Miscarriage
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Oh sayang, I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. Missed miscarriage adalah sangat painful, especially when you've already started bonding with your baby, that tiny bump, the symptoms, the hope semuanya ada. Your feelings are completely valid, dan it's okay to grieve. A few of my mum friends went through something similar and they said the hardest part is that your body is still "pregnant" even though baby isn't growing anymore, which makes it even more confusing emotionally. Please be gentle with yourself during this time, whether you decide untuk medical management, natural, or surgical, make sure you have proper support from your doctor and people around you, ya. Your body and heart need time to heal, and that's perfectly okay. Sending you so much strength, and I truly believe better days will come.

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