Work - out of town for 4 days

Question

Hello mga mi, good evening sa inyo. Sino po rito mga working moms? Kasi Im a working mom, too. Malayo pa ang assignment, overnight ang byahe and 4 days duty every week po. As of now, Im currently on my maternity leave. Balik work na ko last week of July. Ngayon pa lang na iniisip kong iiwan ko si baby ko for 4 days every week, nanghihina na ko. Parang gusto kong mag resign na lang kaya? (Im a single parent and a breadwinner ng family ko, by the way 🥺) Meron ba dito with same or almost the same experience na kailangan talagang humiwalay kay baby ng ganyan kadalas? Please enlighten me. I honestly dont have anyone to talk to about this and its really driving me insane. 😭 #FTM #ebf

Isolde Quirante · Answer

Uy mama, I feel you so much, ang heavy talaga ng ganyan, lalo na pag EBF pa ang baby mo. Honestly, a few of us working moms in my circle have similar setups (traveling, overnights), at the first few months talaga ang pinakamahirap emotionally, but it does get easier once baby adjusts and you find your rhythm with expressing milk and a trusted caregiver. The guilt is real and valid, pero remember na providing for your family IS also showing love, you're not choosing work over baby, you're choosing to keep your family stable, and baby will understand that someday. Kaya mo yan, mama, but please talk to your OB or a therapist din about these feelings kasi the postpartum emotions are legit, and you deserve support through this transition. Rooting for you

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