Pagiging Clingy

Question

Hi mga mi.. ask q lang po kung meron din dito na super clingy s hubby while preggy. Ever since kc na preggy aq, d ko mapigilan maging clingy to the point na wala n s lugar. Kahit simpleng papasok siya s work, d q mapigilan ang umiyak. Sobrang nasstress aq at nadedepress kahit ung thought palang na paalis siya. Though mas gusto ko nga syang pumasok para may kitain siya at masaya aq na motivated syang pumasok pero di ko mapigilan ung iyak q. Hindi naman po aq ganito before. Madalas nga nagsasabi lang c hubby s ganap nia and most of the time wla nmn saken dn kahit maginom pa sila s labas. Ngayon lang po nangyari na ayaw q xa mahiwalay saken kahit segundo. Meron din po ba dto? Ano po ginagawa niyo pag ganito? Salamat po sa sasagot 😊

Maria · Answer

Ay kami rin, mama! Ganyan ako ng sobra during my first pregnancy, nawala na ako sa sarili ko, umiiyak pag umalis ang hubby kahit sure lang pumasok sa office haha. A few of us moms talked about it and realized it's super common during pregnancy kasi hormones talaga ang galing, plus ang anxiety na lumaki naturally pag buntis ka na. What helped me was being honest with my husband about what I was feeling (not blaming him, just explaining), at nag-start kaming mag-video call even for 5 minutes during his break, parang something small pero nakakatulong mentally knowing he's thinking of me. Siguro worth checking in din with your OB about how you're feeling emotionally kasi importante ma-rule out kung may postpartum anxiety coming, pero mostly alam ko na after delivery it gets better, hindi na ganyan. Hang in there, mama, you're not alone sa feeling na ito!

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