My marriage is OK.. Not great, not exciting, but nothing to complain about. I miss having butterflies in my tummy, that electric feeling of falling enough and first kisses. Is OK good enough? I know it is selfish to think this way but I can't live the rest of my life with a boring OK.

I think OK is wonderful! Remember you got married and became a couple, spending days and nights with each other. You now know the other one better than themselves. There are lesser surprises and more routines. And then, there are life struggles, household finances and kids to take care of. Obviously while combating everything with the feeling of a team, there is less room for butterflies and goosebumps. Like they say, it's perfectly average. :)