Berpantang

Aiyah mama, hang jangan worry sangat, memang berpantang dengan second child ni lain cerita, especially kalau ada pelvis pain dan jaraknya dengan kakak masih kecil! A few of my mum friends in the same situation said the same thing, mereka pun tak boleh fully rest macam first time, tapi yang penting is exactly what you're doing, jaga wound, makan, and be there for the kids. Emosi overwhelm tu very normal, especially when you're tired dan lagi ada toddler demand attention, your body jugak still recovering, so hormones lagi kacau. Honestly, managing kids + recovery IS the pantang, never mind all the extra rules kalau tak mampu. But please check dengan your gynae about the pelvis pain tu sebab berjalan pun susah, might need proper support or physio nak accelerate healing so you boleh move around better with the little ones.