Just want to share my journey.

laging masakit likod, laging masakit puson, balakang, laging hilo, masakit ulo, daming iniicp. my anxiety at depression na ko before mabuntis but lumala nung naging pregnant ako, ganing insecure sa iba, at kung ano ano pa. and alam nyo ba pinaka masakit dun. ung sasabihan ka ng asawa mo na, "napapagod na sya, pagod na sya sa trabaho pati skn, WAG KO DW IRASON ANG PAGBUBUNTIS KO DAHIL HND DW YUN RASON, lagi nya nalang dw naririnig skn na puro masakit sakin, wag ko dw irason na buntis ako dahil wla dw kinalaman ang pag bubuntis ko at hindi dw totoo ang pag lilihi," masakit lang kc hnd nya nararamdamn ung nararamdaman ko, almost 10 years ko sya pinag silbihan d nya ko pinag trabaho, uuwi sya sa trabaho kakain at mag cecellphone at matutulog nalng almost 10 years na ganun lang. ngayun na sya namn sana ung kailangan ko kung kelan na buntis ako after 5 yrs ng operation ko dhl natanggalan ako ng ovary at miracle baby meron kami, ganyan lang maririnig ko. Kaya cmula ngayun kaht nahihirapan ako kakayanin ko mag isa nalang. akala ko kung kelan sya naman ang need ko sabi ko tulungan nya lang ako kaht 10 months after nun balik ulit ako na ulit mag sisilbi at magiging katulong pero ganun pala. 🥺🥺🥺

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Uy, mama, ang daming pinagdadaan mo, physically at emotionally, at hindi ka naman naririnig. That's heartbreaking, talaga. Listen, what you're feeling (the back pain, stomach pain, dizziness, headaches, anxiety, depression), lahat yan deserve ng proper medical attention from your OB or doctor, especially with your anxiety and depression getting worse. Please don't wait on this, see your doctor soon, ha? You need real support, not dismissal. But beyond that, the hurt you're carrying from your partner, ang loneliness ng pakiramdam na wala kang partner sa pinakamahirap na panahon mo, especially after everything you've sacrificed, that's real, and you deserve to feel heard. A few of my mum friends have been through similar, at nagsabi sila na sometimes couples counseling or even just a calm conversation with someone you trust (like your doctor, or a trusted elder) helped the partner understand na ang pregnancy complications at emotional struggles ay not "excuses", they're real. You're carrying so much alone, mama. After your check-up with your doctor, maybe think about talking to someone, a counselor or a trusted friend, about what you need from your marriage right now, ha? You're not alone in this.

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