Hi. This isnt totally a question i just wouldn't want to post something like this on any social media which i cant post anonymously or else they might judge my husband poorly right away . I just need to share. I got married to a man that I really love. The thing is i came from a little well off fam. I go to FEU, while my husband isn't that much. His mom is a sari sari store owner, and his dad is a rice farmer. I dont mind that at all, my family doesn't either. I live with them embracing the kind of life he can give to me and our 2 month old daughter. My sentiment is that, it is my birthday today... and we are in my sisters house weve been here for over a couple of weeks now because a relative just passed away, so we are almost running out of money, i know that he couldnt do anything here in my sisters house to earn money, because if we were home theres a possibility he could from vulcanizing and we have this billiard table. Its just that, he knows that my birthday is coming, and just told me that he's sorry if he hasnt got anything for me when its my first birthday together. Yes, we got in a relationship and i got pregnant and gave birth in less than a year, but he's been courting me since 2015. I just dont know... i feel sad, and i am actually crying in the bathroom because i dont know if its okay to tell him that i am hurt because he doesnt have anything for me for my birthday it sounds so childish but i dont know i really am so sad. This isnt quite a question i just need to share this out. Thank you.

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Ur still lucky 🤗 because his still there for u no matter what ... the important is , he's not buying ur lOVe just to love him 🥰 ... the best gift ever u wish from him is to not cheating on you💍🎭

Been there, done that. It doesn't hurt me anymore! Valentines, xmas day, mother's day. Name it, he doesn't have anything for me. Expectation hurts the most, so stop expecting something from him.

I think it’s a normal reaction that you felt that way. But if you know that he is responsible and a loving father and husband, I believe that it’s a blessing that can cheer you up every day.

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Mommy its ok atleast he say sorry for not giving you anything on your special day.,anyways belated happy birthday count the blessings that money can't buy God bless you😊

Thanks for sharing. I feel the same way too. If my husband is not preparing something for my birthday, I feel bad and I feel he doesn't care for me at all. It's normal I would say.

gift?or something else it doesnt matter as long as ur husband do his responsibities to you and to ur baby.and his love is still der.no matter what

Kausapin mo asawa mo at sabhin mo lahat ng sentiments mo. Minsan need ng arguments para ma explain ang side ng isa

Happy birthday sis. Your husband himself is the best gift you've ever had.

Happy Birthday, mam. Let us wait, hbka naman gusto ka lang supresahin.

Big hugs mommy. I just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone.