Just between you and me

If you can support your daughter, then you should be the one taking care of her if that's what you want. It's hard to have a family that's far apart, but the most important thing is that you make an effort to keep your family together. And if you think that taking your daughter with you would be a good idea, then you should definitely do so.

Hello mate. Would your daughter be comfortable staying away from her mum? Also, think about how you will manage with your daughter around. Meals, baths, school (if she is old enough). Your wife is doing this, so would you be able to do it. Just arrange for everything before you get her.

well talk to your wife first before taking any action and don't forget to have your daughter's will.

if you can care and look for her it will be a good move to get your daughter from her grandparents