I read another person posted asking who would you save first - mine is slightly different. Who would you save first, your Wife or your Mother. No child in the picture. So choice between Mother of Wife ;)

I'm not a man but I've seen how the dynamics between man, wife and mother play out between my parents and now, in my relationship with my partner. As much as it's important to respect your mom, I wish sometimes my dad would place more loyalty with my mom. He chose to spend his life with her and for him to always side with my grandmother despite her being obviously unreasonable is not fair at all. But that's just my opinion.