My son ask me to go away and prefers dad over me.

I just feel like I'm such a failure. Whenever he cry or throw tantrum , he will prefer his dad and whenever he sees me ard, he will ask me to go away. Am I really such a bad parent ? And my husband will just ask me to go away too cos he doesn't want me to agitate him. It just hurts me alot. Like I'm a nobody on this household. I know its stupid, but I'm under so much stress that I have suicidal thoughts.

Vô danh

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hi dear! my 3y.o. also prefers his dad over me, since he was a baby.. initially I felt hurt and epic fail that I couldn't bond with my son.. it bothered me so much at times I couldn't sleep and would tear silently.. I still feel hurt now and then, but I also learnt to see the lighter side of things: I am 33 weeks preggers and when he wakes up in the middle of the night, his dad needs to rush to him and I can continue to snooze 😂 in short, dun beat yourself up about it okays? about your unsupportive husband, I think you may want a word with him.. we are our children's role models, so if he asks you to go away in front of your son too often, your son will just continue his behaviour, or worsen... just my 2 cents worth 😊

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