I am wondering why my wife keeps saying that being a stay at home mum is such hard work. I am not trolling here - but i frankly dont understand. Seems simple enough to me. I have taken care of my kids and home all weekend before and it's definitely no where as stressful as having a job. Our kid is 11 months and is formula fed. We live in a 4 rm flat.

Doing a one weekend stint and being a full time stay at home dad is very different. It’s like your wife saying my husband’s job is a piece of cake after subbing for you for a day. Your job is a day time job with a clear start and end time. Stay at home mums work continuously fir 24 hours. She can’t clock out at 6pm and say her shift has ended. Who will take care of the baby then? Does your work require go keep awake on and off throughout the night to feed your baby or to answer your phone throughout the night non-stop e every time it rings? So see your wife’s plight from a different perspective. One that is more understanding.