How do you handle a kid who is violent in nature? That is scratched and beat you suddenly. Have held her hands and talk to her many x but nothing seems to work

My friend just shared this article: http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2016/03/no-spanking-no-time-out-no-problems/475440/?utm_source=atlfb The approach is very interesting. Do have a read. Perhaps you can give the tantrum game a try and see if it works for your little one. No harm trying I would say.