Too close to mommy

Question

We have 1 child who is turning 4 soon. She has problem adjusting to friends at school. Her social skill is very poor. One of the reason is she never play with other children before she started school. Her surrounding is only with adults. So we are going to bring her to see therapist next week. My mil said that she is too attach to me (Im SAHM and the main caregiver - fully breastfeed/direct latch until 3.5 yo). We usually bring her to see my mil once a week. Now her comment is you need to let go meaning she wants me to put my kid at her place 2-3 hours a day.Ok my emotion is I dont want to let her taking care of my kid because I dont trust her. And Im sahm so i can take care of her myself.My question: does this attachment to mother really effect the kids social skill?

Vô danh · Answer

Attachment to mom doesnt affect a kid but u have to engage with her well . Reading story books or religious books to her,  pretend play with her and talk to her about everyday lives .It enable your kid to have better development