Venting out

Ganito pala kasakit yung feeling mga miii... Masakit pa sa masakit. Malaman mong nag iindulge pala yung asawa mo sa mga twirker sa bar. I know nasama sya mag night out . I let him para mag enjoy. Purely tiwala ako na walang halong ganon. Is it just me fighting with my pride kaya d ko ma open up sknya. Hindi ko maopen up kahit knno dahil feeling ko sampal sakin to . Pasensya na kayo andaming masasakit sakin ngayon 34 weeks nko pero may mas isasakit pa pala . Ni hindi ko alam paano ko to iiiyak.

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Ay mama, I'm so sorry you're going through this, lalo na 34 weeks ka pa lang, that's already physically and emotionally exhausting without this kind of hurt on top. A few of us mums have been in similar situations, and honestly, the wound goes deeper when you're pregnant kasi you're already vulnerable and hormonal, so what might feel manageable on a normal day feels like the end of the world. It's not your pride getting in the way, it's the betrayal and the hurt, and those are real, valid feelings na deserve to be expressed, not bottled up. I think you need to have that conversation with him, kahit it's gonna be painful, kasi kung hindi mo sinasabi ngayon, this will eat you alive postpartum pa. Maybe ask a trusted friend or family member to help you find the right time and words, or honestly, couples counseling might help you both talk it through properly. Take care of yourself muna, and please don't hesitate to reach out to someone you trust, whether it's a friend, family, or even a professional, because you deserve support right now, di lang kayo dalawa ang dapat mag-figure this out.

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