Sekadar perkongsian Untuk 1st time prgncy,premature bby

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Due date melahirkan 1.7.23 tapi telah melahirkan pada 3.4.23, pada 27w2d, bby lahir dengan berat 1.08kg, tetapi Tuhan lebih sygkn dia, bby ditahan d.nicu selama 14hri, bby ada masalah usus bocor dn itu merupakan pnyebab kematian bby, ini merupakan 1st bby, dn bnyk prkara yg sa tidak tahu, semasa sakit perut hari tu, ingatkn sakit perut biasa, tdk terus ke hosp tp disbbkn brterusan dn sakit melarat ke belakang, jd sa segara ke hosp rupanya tu merupakan tanda2 bby nak keluar, sa mempunya masalah fibroid in prgncy, salah satu pnyebab risiko bby lahir pramatang, tp semasa sa msih mgndung sa trlalu strss dn penat berkerja, jd nurse ada ckp tu pn salah satu pnyebab kelahiran pramatang, ntk next prgncy nurse kata, risiko kelahiran pramatang mmg ada, ni myebabkn sa sngt down, lebih2 lagi dgn khilngn sorg byi yg sangat sa nanti2 kn,, ada tak ibu2 yg brpengalamn kelahiran byi pramatang prtama, tp next da okay? #firstbaby #firstmom #pramaturebaby

Soraya Rayboot · Answer

Sayang, my heart goes out to you, losing a baby is one of the hardest things a mum can go through, and your feelings are so valid. A few of the mums in my circle have had premature births and losses too, and many of them did go on to have healthy pregnancies after, though I won't lie, the anxiety is real and never fully goes away. For your next pregnancy, it's really important you work closely with a maternal-fetal medicine specialist or high-risk OB who knows about your fibroids and history, they can monitor you much more carefully, help manage stress (which is huge), and catch any warning signs early like you did with that back pain. Please also talk to a counsellor about processing this loss, because the grief and guilt (even when it's not your fault) can really weigh on you during the next pregnancy. You did everything right that day by going to the hospital, that shows how much you love your baby. Sending you so much strength, mama.

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