Miscarriage 9+ weeks

Hi. Did a transvaginal scan at 7+ weeks and saw small foetus and flickering heartbeat, although abdominal scan didn't show any foetus. Today at 9+ weeks did abdominal scan saw that sac and yolk grew much bigger but no foetus. SGH gynae said it's a miscarriage and was given the usual two options DC or pill, but we chose to wait till next week then decide, and also going to a private gynae on Thur to scan and confirm. Pregnancy symptoms decreased a couple of days ago. Hubby and I are devastated. Been through 3 IVF rounds, it's exhausting financially and emotionally draining. How to comfort myself and hubby..