kena paksa expose pregnancy

currently 22weeks, mak paksa reveal pregnancy dekat public (social media etc) sebab dia cakap nanti tiba2 anak keluar orang ingat anak angkat sebab tak penah hebahkan pun pregnant, bgi saya macam tak logik alasan tu stressnya fikir dia asyik push suruh expose saya xnak sebab pernah miscarried sebelum ni jadi saya takut haih tension fikir… xtahu dah nak jawab apa kat mak tiap kali isu ni timbul

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Mama, aku faham benar lah, after miscarriage, that fear is legit, especially at 22 weeks lagi tu. Mak tu mungkin stress jugak takut orang confuse nanti, but your mental peace and comfort throughout pregnancy ni more important daripada what people think, honestly. Boleh ko try explain sama mak macam ni: "Mak, pregnancy announcement timing tu personal choice masing-masing. Aku prefer tunggu pas trimester kedua ni stable sikit, baru cerita. Bukan pasal anak angkat, siapa ingat like that anyway? Orang tau lah dari physical changes aku pun." If she keeps pushing, set yang boundary dengan loving, "Mak, I appreciate your concern, tapi aku kena manage my stress level, especially after what happened sebelum ni. Kita buat announcement lepas aku siap je, boleh?" Sometimes moms just need reassurance yang they'll get their chance to celebrate nanti, bukan sekarang je. And if she still tension, better talk sama suami or trusted family member yang boleh back you up, you're not being difficult, you're just protecting yourself. Hang in there ye, mama.

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nanti dah masuk wad tggu nk bersalin, awk selfie je dgn baju polkadot tu if gov..dah dapat baby, husb snapkan picture awk dgn baby waktu pakai baju hospital lagi. tu pun dh ckup bukti anak kandung awk klu ada mulut jahat nk mngata 🤭

xpayah pening" sis , sis kekalkan je pendirian sis . nanti baby dah keluar baru lah expose masa kat hospital ke , masa baby bump ke apa lah yang buat orang tau sis mengandung bukan ambik anak angkat . jangan stres" sis sian baby

Hahaha zaman sekarang dah takde maknanya orang nak kata gitu. Awak abaikan je. Setiap kali mak cakap camtu, awak cakap je suami tak izinkan