Mama, aku faham benar lah, after miscarriage, that fear is legit, especially at 22 weeks lagi tu. Mak tu mungkin stress jugak takut orang confuse nanti, but your mental peace and comfort throughout pregnancy ni more important daripada what people think, honestly.
Boleh ko try explain sama mak macam ni: "Mak, pregnancy announcement timing tu personal choice masing-masing. Aku prefer tunggu pas trimester kedua ni stable sikit, baru cerita. Bukan pasal anak angkat, siapa ingat like that anyway? Orang tau lah dari physical changes aku pun." If she keeps pushing, set yang boundary dengan loving, "Mak, I appreciate your concern, tapi aku kena manage my stress level, especially after what happened sebelum ni. Kita buat announcement lepas aku siap je, boleh?"
Sometimes moms just need reassurance yang they'll get their chance to celebrate nanti, bukan sekarang je. And if she still tension, better talk sama suami or trusted family member yang boleh back you up, you're not being difficult, you're just protecting yourself. Hang in there ye, mama.
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