Help! Kid has habit of tearing and destroying delicate items

My almost 3yr old boy has recently started to destory and tear of items like books,his own craft items, sometimes precious pictures,I am looking for suggestion how to train him to not do it ans understand the value of his belongings

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Super Mom

Every action is a form of communication, it might not be possible to teach him the value of things this early on but you should try to figure out what he's trying to communicate. Is he doing it out of curiosity and shows interest in tearing stuff? Give him a book you don't care about for tearing. Is he doing it when he's frustrated? Teach him to voice out his feelings (say "I am frustrated") instead of destroying things.

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4y trước

Yes I tried mutiple times when he was in good mood,he would tear the book in and out then repeat what I saw to him, " bad habit" "dont do it"