WORKING MOM

Question

Ako lang ba gusto nalang mag stay sa bahay para magpahinga? Nakakapagod, 8hours na trabaho tagtag kapa sa araw araw na byahe, dagdag pa pahirap kapag umuulan, isama mo pa toxic na boss at katrabaho. Nalulungkot nalang ako minsan kasi gusto ko na mag resign kaso iniisip ko rin yong benefits na makukuha ko. Atsaka ayaw din ako patigilin magtrabaho ng partner ko kasi sayang daw yong sahod. Nagrant lang ako mga momshie, nakakapagod kasi talaga Im 20weeks more to go! #pregnancy #firstbaby

Maria Reyes Garcia · Answer

Uy, totally valid yan na nafeel mo, 20 weeks pa lang, exhausted ka na with work and commute, kaya understandable na gusto mo mag-rest! A few of us mums actually went through the same thing, some pushed through hanggang delivery kasi ng benefits talaga, iba naman nag-adjust ng arrangement with boss or nag-negotiate ng work-from-home para ma-ease ang stress. Siguro worth it to talk honestly with your partner about what you're feeling, hindi lang money ang importante, kailangan mo rin healthy pregnancy at peace of mind, kaya dapat partner mo makaintindi. If the toxic work environment is really getting to you, maybe check with your OB din kung may options like maternity leave earlier o adjustments na kaya mong gawin without sacrificing baby's health? Hang in there, momshie, this phase will pass, but your wellbeing now really matters.

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