HIDDEN SEXUALITY

Question

Any advice po regarding a partner na tinatago ang sexuality niya? I’ve caught my partner several times looking at sexy photos of the same gender. Some hindi na talaga appropriate. I’ve confronted my partner previous times already, but parang stuck lang kami sa grey area. Walang maayos na resolution.We have a 2 year old daughter, and I’m honestly lost if I should just shrug it off. Sometimes, nakakatakot what if one day ma realize niya ayaw na niya saamin? My partner tells me na mahal niya ako, and mahal niya anak niya. Ginagawa niya din ang lahat to provide. But is this enough reason para mag bulagbulagan? No bashing po sana..Thank you po.

Franchesca Paras · Answer

Sis, this is such a heavy thing to carry alone, and I get why you're torn kasi love and provision are real, pero your peace of mind matters too. Honestly, the issue here isn't really about your partner's sexuality itself, it's that there's no honesty between you two, and that grey area you're stuck in will just eat you up over time, especially with a little one watching how relationships work. I think before you decide to just accept it as-is, you both need to have one more real conversation, maybe with a couples counselor (maraming affordable options na ngayon), kasi you deserve to know what your partner actually wants and needs, and your partner deserves space to be honest instead of sneaking around, na parang mas toxic for everyone, including your daughter in the long run. It's not about bashing; it's about building something real and secure para sa family ninyo, whether that ends up being together or apart.

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