Sơ đồ trang Bé Yêu - Các bài viết của năm Tháng 4 2022
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- 2022-04-04Hi everyone, please advise me the below, i am really helpless to this situation.
My 11th month baby fell down from bed 4days ago, the next day i saw him he looks ok just the nose and mouth abit swollen and we have bring him to kk for a check up and the doc say he dun have any bone fracture symptom. No vomiting, no less active, been eating his porridge and milk.
From the night he fell down till 4 days later, every night he is not sleeping well. He will scream or cry loud suddenly like having bad nightmare for every 2-3hrs 1 time. Not sure is it traumatised? He seems like cannot sleep in the dark now, he will cry and wake up in the middle of the night. Does anyone have this after baby fell down from bed? is he scared? how long does it take to recover? What can i do to make him feel better to sleep at night? what are the things i need to take note?
#pleasehelp
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#worryingmom
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- 2022-04-04My EDD is mid June. Planning to hire a confinement nanny for 14 days only. What's the market rate for stay-in and stay-out nanny? What are the considerations that I need to watch out before selecting one? Thanks! #1stimemom #advicepls
- 2022-04-04Anyone can share?
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- 2022-04-04Has anyone experience similar situation?
I have missed period for 2 days and tested with a very faint line on early detection pregnancy kit but i also took my basal temperature this morning and it dropped. #advicepls
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- 2022-04-04Hi mummies, any of you suffered from brust hemorrhoid? Mine brust it yesterday but still swollen when walk, sleep and stand.
May I know how long will the hemorrhoid shrink and cause no pain after it has brust?
TIA.
#sufferingfordays #pleasehelp
- 2022-04-04Hi mommies, just needed a place to rant.
I am currently 39 weeks pregnant and still working. For your info, I'm under subsidised route in KKH. So I don't see a fixed gynae.
I work in the education industry, so I do not have annual leave. Taking leave means I short-change my students and colleagues, which I hate to do. I also do not want to spend my maternity leave for prenatal and prefer to save them to spend time caring for my baby.
A "friend" who gave birth recently had taken 2 months worth of Hospitalisation Leave straight before her dleivery despite not having any issue with her pregnancy or health. Her private gynae gives in to her requests and her workplace does not question her.
So yesterday she contacted me and asked me why I am still working. I said I'm still well and not given HL so I'll just go to work. Plus staying active should help in the delivery. She laughed at me about the staying active part (she believes pregnant woman should not do anything at all) and for taking a bus to work instead of taxi, then called me stupid for going to a public hospital as they are stricter when issuing HLs.
I'm not saying one cannot take HL to rest, but I'm just annoyed that I'm being called stupid and looked down on for saving money and going to a public hospital by someone who abuses the system and the kindness of her workplace/colleagues.
Sorry just needed to rant.
- 2022-04-04Hi, Any mummies using Quinny Zap Xtra for newborn? I just wanna know if the 3 wheel is smooth when using it, how about folding is it hard?
Thank you
- 2022-04-04hi mummies, need advice. my husband just tested positive. my baby is only a week old, i'm worried for him. my husband felt unwell couple days back but only positive on 3rd day. he is isolating inside the other room but i feel it's not sufficient.
is it possible for him to check in at facility, or can he isolate at his parents' plc instead? i'm considering going to my parents' for the time being, but also concerned i might be positive later and spread to them. appreciate your thoughts!
- 2022-04-04Hi guys, can i ask have yall heard about this equipment or tool called epi-no? Its smth to pump the vagina and stretch. Doc say its birth training device. Err it sounds abit scary tryna stretch below slowly from 3cm to 10cm
- 2022-04-04Anyone experience no tender breasts at 10week? And don't feel pregnant. #pleasehelp
- 2022-04-04Hi mommies, I'm currently in week 6 + 3days. But my fluctuating symptoms are driving me crazy.. I don't have v sore boobs to begin with but the soreness comes and go.. same as my bloatedness, I can hv bad bloating and food adversion but suddenly gone the next day. Is this normal?
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- 2022-04-04Hi mummies, may I know anyone did home pregnancy test before you missed your period? What is the chances of having positive result?
- 2022-04-04I am reaching 15 weeks but I feel so sleepy and tired. Is it normal since they say you will be having more energy when you reach second trimester.
- 2022-04-04Any good reviews/recommendations on gym classes for 2/3yo pls, thank you!!
- 2022-04-04Any math (not worksheet kind, but fun engaging activities) and gym class recommendations for age 3? Thank you!! :))
- 2022-04-04What would be a good formula for my baby who is gassy? I am breastfeeding and would like to do mixed feeding. #pleasehelp #1stimemom #1stimemom
- 2022-04-04Can anyone tell the gender of my baby. Just for fun! 😃Scan at 11weeks 4 days.
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- 2022-04-04It's been very challenging getting my 4mth coming 5mth to drink recently. He used to drink 150ml every 3.5hrs.
Now we feed at 5hrs sometimes he still fuss and makes alot of noise when bottle is near. For a start, he bites on the teat, suck for awhile then he pushes the bottle away w his hands and tongue. We changed teat size also and it doesn't seem to help much.
Thought is a leap, but his leap 4 is somewhat ending. Can I start him on puree?
Anyone has same experiences and able to share? It's getting so exhausting.
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- 2022-04-04Hi.
I'm currently 6 weeks pregnant. Is it okay for me to fast for ramadhan?
Thanks in advance. 😊
#pregnancy #advicepls #firstbaby
- 2022-04-04#help Should my LO be napping longer? I rock and pat her to sleep. If she wakes up, I'll pop in a pacifier but she's playing with it & ended up giggling and shows no interest in sleeping.
Yet, 15mins later she'll start yawning & whining but she still doesnt want to sleep. So I'll carry her around the house & entertaining her. Only after her next feed, then she goes down easier.
Is anyone going through the same? How do you cope?
- 2022-04-04Hi mummies!
The doctor has told me that Ms is gonna be worst during its peak from week 9 onwards.
Am currently experiencing both vomiting profusely and diarrhoea the past few days. Been feeling feverish too.
Is this normal or do I have gastrics/stomach bug? Lost a total of 3kgs in total already 😭
- 2022-04-04hi mommies
how can I increase milk supply before baby is born?
also when should i start eating milk boosting supplements? legendairy and red date drink did help me out previously but my supply was still low and i managed to latch baby for 6 months only and mix feed all the way before it totally dropped so I want to try to prep early as I really want to give my 2nd baby as much breastmilk as possible.
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- 2022-04-04I'm 5 weeks pregnant according to my first day of last menses. But docs are still unable to see any gestation sac or yolk sac during my scan. Wasn't able to see anything through vaginal scan too. I'm worried! Is it normal? Please help.
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- 2022-04-04My wife cannot swallow big pills. Is there mini version of multivitamin pills?
- 2022-04-04Hi! Is it ok to take maxolon/dicletin everyday? Cnt seem to eat/drink anything without taking it.
- 2022-04-04Hi, im currently 37 weeks 5 days pregnant. I just realised that i had brown + white mucus when i went to the toilet just now. Is this normal? Ive been having severe back pain which comes and goes since early this week but it intensifies recently. And also menses-like cramps which comes and goes as well. My next appt would be on my 39 weeks. Should i just go to the doctor and get it check?
- 2022-04-04Hi ladies, I am a new mum, 5 weeks preg… could you pls share w me the medicines prescribed and the vitamins/supplements necessary for the first trimester. I am given progynova, duphaston, aspirin & 5md folic acid. On top of that I bought and am taking vit D,Folic Acid and Iberet Folic 500… is this ok? Is there any others I should take? Thx…
- 2022-04-04Hi mummies, any recommendations for sterilizer and dryer for hegen milk bottles ? Can Philips avent sterilizer fit in hegen milk bottles?
- 2022-04-04Hi, is it normal that i have not had any symptoms at all and am currently at 11 weeks…
- 2022-04-04I'm getting more labour signs at 38+6 weeks, keep checking my hospital bag again and again. Aside from mine and baby's going home clothes, I'm not quite sure what's necessary and what's provided by KKH though.
•the usual toiletries
•Breast pump
•Nursing bras
•maternity underwear (should I buy disposable underwears?)
•nipple cream
•milk bags?
•breast pads?
•baby's onesie, hat, mittens, booties
•baby's swaddle
#1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2022-04-04pre pregnancy weight 70.5kg.
now i'm weighing at 80.3kg. isit too much weight gain? been eating normally, lesser than before i got pregnant tho.
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- 2022-04-04How much coffee is too much coffee? Read on to find out. 😱
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- 2022-04-04I used to be constipated during my 1st trimester and it got back to normal. Currently 25weeks pregnant and got constipated again. This time its worst, it is so hard to pass motion. I had to force else i'll be in pain. Blood came out and im worried about the baby. Anyone experience the same?Sorry too much info and might gross you out.
- 2022-04-0410 weeks + pregnant do you guys feel backache and lower left abdomen starts to ache and cramp? Mine is always happening at the evening and when i sleep #pleasehelp
- 2022-04-05im 25 weeks and I tested positive, what should I do?
- 2022-04-05Hello! May I ask if there’s any mummies-to-be who has engaged tingkat services? Any good ones to recommend? Is it ok to consume as I understand some dishes contains alcohol (花雕酒) and the tingkat vendors won’t be able to customised to no alcohol requirement? Thank you so much in advance!
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- 2022-04-05Hello mummies 🤍 Can recommend what are the things that i should buy for my baby? I’m a first time mummy here & might missed out the things. And also, can recommend me what kind of stroller should i get? Thank you! #1stimemom #firstbaby #advicepls
- 2022-04-05Anyone experienced crazy itch rashes all over legs and arms during 34 weeks of pregnancy? Going crazy over the itch here! Need some remedy asap! Help a mum to be 🙏🏼#pleasehelp #pregnancy #1stimemom #advicepls #firstbaby #worryingmom #itchrash #rashes #itchy
- 2022-04-05Hi! My baby can eat solid soon. I have a slow cooker which I can cook porridge. Do you think if I should get a 2in1 steam and blender food processor ? Is it useful or necessary ?
Thank you!
- 2022-04-05Hi mummies. Anyone with large fibroids during pregnancy? Mine is 10cm. I was given painkillers by gynae. It really hurts when I walk and move and try to sleep. Anyone with similar experience? Can share how long did the pain last for you guys?
- 2022-04-05Hello mummies,
Had anyone experienced lightheaded or constant headache from seeing gadget screen- like your phone, laptop?
I never had this but quite recently, as I got to know I am pregnant, seeing those screens just gave me lightheadedness and headache, to the extent that I puked and made work less productive.
I am currently on 2 weeks of hospitalisation leave, but replying work emails and texts from home. Is that even right?
#advicepls
- 2022-04-05If baby kena positive , how many days need baby to guilt recovery turn to Negative ?
- 2022-04-05#pleasehelp #pregnancy #advicepls #recommend
- 2022-04-05I'm so worried my LO just turn 1 yesterday. For the past few days her intake of milk and water are lesser to soild in ifc is good.. before that she will drink alot of water whenever we give it to her... milk is from usual 210ml now drop to 180ml sometimes not even finish but there is meal in between I monitor her pee from night 8pm to morning 630am is very little not heavy but she still very active no dehydrated symptoms.. What should I do now? Keep monitor or is just phase of changes? 🥺
- 2022-04-05Hi! How do you differentiate them? Can anyone advice me? This is my first time and we are ttc. #pleasehelp
- 2022-04-05Hi mommies! When do y’all announce pregnancy to friends and families? After week 12 or after week 20? #advicepls
- 2022-04-05Hi mums, i got yeast infection today (i knew it's yeast cause i got it once a few years ago). May i know if it's common in pregnancy and how long does it last? Also is it because of wet underwear/wet after shower never wipe? Cause i'm on 10 weeks day 5, been feeling extremely tired so sometimes i have no energy to wipe after shower and immediately wear my underwear😅😐
- 2022-04-05Hi mummies..im reaching 39 wks tomorrow. So anxious.. no signs of labour yet.. :(
- 2022-04-05Hi mummies...I went for transvaginal ultrasound when I'm about 5 weeks pregnant. All was OK we could hear the heartbeat. But when I went for another ultrascan at about 8 weeks, they discovered that I'm with twins. Went for another ultrasound again on week 9 and my twins are sharing a sac and placenta. I'm so worried. Is there anyone who face the same experience? Is everything OK for the babies?
- 2022-04-05Will there be another fetal scan at 27 weeks too along with glucose test?
- 2022-04-05Just tested positive for COVID and I’m 33 weeks pregnant! Have some sore throat and fever but currently really worried if baby is safe! I’ve taken my booster but seems like the symptoms doesn’t get any better. Any experiences?
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- 2022-04-05My baby is 3 months old and has started to look at her fists. She seem to be trying hard to put her fist into her mouth but don’t succeed yet. Is this normal for her age?
Update: Baby started to suck her hands already. Babies develop at different rates and we just got to have faith and not worry too much. Unnecessary comparisons like “oh my baby can do that at xx number of months and so do other mummies” does nothing but exacerbates other mummies’ worries.
Let’s all have faith and spread kindness.
- 2022-04-05I am on my 8th wk of pregnancy. I had my transvaginal ultrasound this morning. There was 2 gestational sac, but one if it is empty. The other one has heartbeat already. The doctor asked me to have my ultrasound again after two weeks. Is there a possibility that the embryo will still develop? #emptygestationalsac #pleasehelp #advicepls
- 2022-04-05anyone has reviews or had previously engaged postnatal massage for nuova vita sg?
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- 2022-04-05Share your experience in the comment below. https://sg.theasianparent.com/best-nursing-covers
- 2022-04-05Could you share which you chose and why? #above35 #firstbaby #pregnancy
- 2022-04-05Hi, which maternity insurance would you all recommend? Has anyone actually had the need for the coverage/claimed it for any treatments after the baby was born? And if so, was it hassle free? #1stimemom #firstbaby
- 2022-04-05Anyone got prescribed vaginal pessary in first trimester due to bacterial infection? Any risks?
- 2022-04-05Anyone tried fertility treatment with pulse tcm? Any reviews?
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- 2022-04-05Hello Mummies!
Any recommendation for halal confinement meals that doesnt break the bank? :(
Most I asked around are way too expensive. I'm looking into 10 days first as most crucial days in my opinion.
Thanks mummies!
#advicepls
- 2022-04-05Don't give up just yet, mum! There are ways to get over your baby's nursing strike. TAP now.
https://sg.theasianparent.com/my-baby-refuses-to-breastfeed-but-will-take-a-bottle/
- 2022-04-05Hi, this is my first pregnancy and I’m week 5 today. Just got covid with symptoms like mild fever (37.8c), stuffed nose and ears and a very sore throat. Any medicine that I should avoid? Can I drink herbal tea for sore throat?
Worried about my bb. :(
#advicepls #firstbaby #covid19
- 2022-04-05Hello mummies, may I check if anybody is having period while still breastfeeding? I'm exclusively pumping out milk for my LO but my period came in Feb and Mar...wondering if this is normal.
- 2022-04-05I had faint line two days ago then negative yesterday then faint line again today.. Is this possible?
- 2022-04-05I am abt 7 weeks pregnant. I have been experiencing abdominal tenderness. Like when I press gently anywhere below my tummy area I feel like a tenderness and sore feeling. Even when I don't press I can still feel soreness in the area. Has anyone experienced this? Is this normal?
- 2022-04-05Hello parents, any recommendations for double strollers? Best is that it could act as a car seat as well. Look forward for replies!
- 2022-04-05Every time I swallow my saliva or talk my throat will feel pain. Comes with itchy ear too. Its been a month or so already. Next gynae appointment is next week. Anyone the same too? How to relieve the pain? Its been getting on my nerves. Don't dare to eat medicine from gp as I Google the medicine provided and says is harmful for pregnant mom.
- 2022-04-05Does it work for infant less than 1 month?
- 2022-04-05I try a lot ways but my infant don’t burp
- 2022-04-05My 3 months plus baby has just started IFC. The IFC has advised us that it would be better to pick my baby up early like 430pm during the first month as baby may still be adapting. I can do so for 2 weeks, after which I will need to go back to work and as my working hours is till 6 plus, I won’t be able to fetch my baby at 4 plus.
Is it really bad for my baby if I leave my baby at the IFC the whole day till 6 plus 7? I feel so guilty that I am putting her at ifc and now, won’t be able to fetch her home earlier as suggested as me and my hubby both need to work.
Any experiences? Thank you.
#worryingmom #1stimemom
- 2022-04-06The cot is big and empty, my newborn would fidget in his swaddle, make noises and ultimately cry. Any mummies had similar experience and can share what did you do to improve the situation? Thank you 🙏
#1stimemom
- 2022-04-06If termination of pregnancy is never an option, is there any importance to go through this screening?
Did you do yours? And your reasons for doing it?
Thanks!
- 2022-04-06Currently on my very last lap of pregnancy. But feeling so restless & tired. Feeling sleepy after every meal. Is this normal? Anyone gone thru the same thing? #advicepls
- 2022-04-06Hello any babies or infants were enrolled in this school? Any feedback to share? My baby, 4 months old, is going in there and I'm feeling anxious about it. The type of activities, sleep quality that he will get. Thank you!
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- 2022-04-06I had miscarriage before so I am a bit worried
- 2022-04-0612 weeks 3 days pregnant no bump is it normal? I'm not that skinny..my height was 147cm current weight after first pregnancy was 58kg. I keep on checking my weight but i don't gain any weight ony my 2nd pregnancy..Kind of worried..my first appointment with NUH will only be on the 20th april #worryingmom
- 2022-04-06Hi mommy!
Isit normal to have diarrhea and starting to feel like puking at 28 weeks?
#pleasehelp
- 2022-04-06Hi, any mummy had delivery package with Dr Tony Tan whose clinic is in Mount A. Could you share your general experience and how much did it cost? TIA!
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When do you let your toddler starts eating outside food?
Thanks
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- 2022-04-06Hi, mommies.
May I know is there any way to get a 1yo to eat/drink by himself? When we teach him he will simply get annoyed by it and cry. So, until now we are still feeding him to drink milk and feeding him to eat solid. TIA~#1stimemom #pleasehelp #firstbaby
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- 2022-04-06Hi all! I’m ending my ML really soon and have currently placed LO in infant care. However, I am anxious about heading back to work as LO still wakes up twice for feedings and that disrupts sleep (I cannot fall back asleep very easily). Hubby is helping with night feedings at times too.
How do you working mums cope with sleep deprivation and how do you handle taking care baby at night and working?
Thanks!
#1stimemom #advicepls
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- 2022-04-06Hi, i am 32 weeks pregnant. Just visited the gynae & she told me my baby is small. My baby need more nutrients. What are the type of food for my baby to be bigger?
Another issue is that, i sleep at 1am very night and need to wake up at 4.45am to make coffee for my hubby. When i go to sleep i dont fall asleep very fast. Then at 7am my eldest daughter go to school. When i sleep after that, i dont eat on time.
How am l to have enough sleep?...my nights are spoiling my daytime. And how to eat on time?
- 2022-04-06hi anyone havinq the same like im havinq ..everytime i eat something its seem like the food does not digest properly.. start hhaving bloated and so painful ..
- 2022-04-06Anybody had cervical polyp during pregnancy? Is there a way to get rid of it naturally? Is it going to harm my baby?
- 2022-04-06Hi mommies,
Im 33 weeks pregnant but my baby still havent turn. My gynae says just have to w8. But bcoz my baby is in breech position my maternity insurance application is rejected coz they are scared. 😭 Any tips on what should i do to have higher chance my baby turn before i gave birth. I dont want to go for CS 😭
- 2022-04-06Can i use muscle ache pain patches for my lower back ache? Some say salonpas is not recommended why is that so? Then how to relieve the back pain?
- 2022-04-06My basal body temperature increase during evening and am in the 4th week. Is this a sign for confirming my pregnancy?
- 2022-04-06Is it normal if my baby does not suck her hands? She sucks her pacifier instead.
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- 2022-04-06Previously I posted about this friend who gave birth few months later den me..she likes to boast about how clever her son is each time we have conversation(mostly whatsapp) as I seldom meet her too(more distressing to hear her praise her son in my face). I've always maintained a positive attitude or simply just a word or two and ignore after that.. however I feel quite sick about it. She always boast about her son at 1year old plus can scoot already, can ownself bathe, can speak how many words etc. However one time she came my house and boasted says her son can sit swing independently however when we go playground downstairs he can't and she says oh this swing is shaped differently. Says her son attend school for the first time and doesnt cry and teacher praise her son for being smart at his age..even says that her PD assess her son brain to be 3yo..is there even such assessment? As she has a 5yo niece who stays with her, her son learns everything from her niece whereas my son is the only child at home. Every toddler develops at different phase and have their own strength and weaknesses. For my toddler, he knows the full abc and numbers 1 to 20 and more at 18months, have good memory and can point correctly of whatever we asked, just that he doesn't want to speak yet. Since my friend likes to boast about her son, I tried to boast mine too (but I'm not the type who likes to boast). However she ignores me but expects me to react whenever she says her son is clever. So recently I've decided to stay away from her and did not reply her msges. She msged me again and asked how am I? Should I reply or ignore? #pleasehelp
- 2022-04-06Any mummy experienced this before? Doc said the blood flow in the umbilical cord is slow and sorta restricted hence baby abit too small in size for 20weeks. Not sure the reason but further testing has been done. Im waiting for that results. Meantime, I’m not sure what i can do.. kinda worried!
- 2022-04-06Hi all, thinking of starting a family soon. Any parents have recommendations of clinics offer fertility screening for couples? Thanks!!
- 2022-04-06Hi, do you need to wake a 5 months old for night feed? Or do you wait for baby to cue, ie. if they stir or wake in the middle of the night for feed, and if they do not wake, it is alright to just let baby sleep through from 7pm-8am?
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- 2022-04-06hi, mom's to be, just curious when u guys start to drink maternity milk and can share which brand u all been taking??#pregnancy
- 2022-04-06I just found out that I'm pregnant. When should I go and see the doctor?
- 2022-04-06Hi mummies!! My 2 months old baby have these white patches on his cheek. Any idea what is it?? Will it gonaway on its own…? #worryingmom #advicepls #firstbaby
- 2022-04-06how to stop my coming 3y.o toddler from milk bottle?
day time she drank 2 bottles night time 3 bottles. shpuld i let her wean off by herself ?
- 2022-04-06I am a ftm and I would like to hear your experiences. I’m currently in my 36 weeks and baby is still in a breech position and might need to do an e- csect. I am very keen about breastfeeding my LO once she’s out. But, i heard that csect recovery is longer and painful and I’m worried about BF my baby. I’m scared it might be too painful and difficult for me to commit.
1) Would it be better to do EP instead of DL? Do you do mix feeding?
2) How do you cope with the pain of recovering and BF at the same time? Any tips of how to manage pain?
3) How’s your EP schedule like?
Thanks mummies and appreciate your inputs!!🥺
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- 2022-04-07As part of my morning routine, I’ve been dissolving one tablet of the Guardian multivitamin (passionfruit flavor) effervescence in a cup of water every morning to drink. Apart from that, I take a 5mg folic acid every evening.
I read an article from Asianparent that pregnant woman should avoid taking too many vitamins. Should I stop my daily morning routine of the multivitamin effervescent?
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- 2022-04-07Where can I purchase this online or retail shop? Snugly fit swim diaper.
Thanks!!
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- 2022-04-07My 3.5mo LO had been gaining weight steadily since birth and just recently (for almost a month) she went from 6.2kg to 6.02kg. She's not fussing and has been fed on demand, typically every 2hrs so it's either she's not drinking enough (direct latch) or I'm not producing enough milk to satisfy her needs. Is this normal?
FYI she has been rejecting FM and the bottle, so as per my MIL's advice, we've been trying to train her to accept the bottle. Worried that the stress has been causing her to lose weight.#advicepls #1stimemom #firstbaby #worryingmom #pleasehelp
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- 2022-04-07Anyone using Wafood Made sake kasu and Uji Matcha mask pack for skincare during pregnancy? Can't find whether if its safe to use.
- 2022-04-07#advicepls any one have been given the friso stage 4.my daughter can't drink full scoops.i been reducing her scoops to 2 scoops because is too heavy for her.it can cause her warm body.#worryingmom #pleasehelp
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- 2022-04-07Don't forget to mention your gynae's names.
- 2022-04-07Hi guys, I’m currently at 21 weeks and having on and off pain when going for long walks. When I wipe this morning, I had a stretchy long discharge? Is it normal? Recently, I also notice I have more wet discharge.#1stimemom
- 2022-04-07Hi I don't have any morning sickness for almost 2 week? Izit any issue?
- 2022-04-07hey has any mummies encounter this ;during their first trimester ? giddy/ migranes . don't really feel like going for workouts because of yr symptoms 😔🤷🏻♀️
- 2022-04-07I am turning 38 weeks in 2 days time, is it ok for me to drink coconut water?
- 2022-04-07My morning (all day) sickness is so soo bad. I've been on diclectin and it has been making me sleep throughout. I can't even eat proper food. Can't even have protein (white/red meat or fish). Only carb. I feel so guilty for not giving enough nutrition for my baby. And within 2 weeks, I've lost 2kg. Im at my 9weeks now. Is this even normal? 😢
- 2022-04-07My baby 4.5 months and show signs of readiness for solid food. Can baby try or must wait till 6 months? #1stimemom
- 2022-04-07Does anyone know why I haven’t got my result for the 60 min? I got my results for 0 and 120 min.. does it longer to report the 60 min?
- 2022-04-07hi anyone went for their glucose blood test already?
hosp just called me and scheduled an appt next week with the doctor. they said there is a problem with the blood so i would have to see the diabetes doctor or something like that.
what to expect? what should i do?
- 2022-04-07Yesterday was 6 apr, 8DPO n i had slight cramps. Today is 7 apr, 9DPO. My discharge looks like it was mixed. Having pink tinge.
Could the above be implantation?
My menses is 13 apr. And always regular. Never irregular before. Even after mc (mc in Jan '22). My menses still 28 day cycle.
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Any similar experience and got positive? I still not testing yet as it is too early for the stick to show anything.
Update: 10dpo 8 apr. I tested fmu. I have a faint positive line. Will confirm again in a few days.
Update: tested with clear blue too.
- 2022-04-07Hello! Need your advice. I have a 1 year 7 months old todder and a newborn coming up. Currently have a stroller but dont know for the second one which one should i buy? Thank you for the advices!
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- 2022-04-07Too busy to hand wash all the dishes? You will find out which dishwasher is best suited to your needs here in this list.
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- 2022-04-07Anyone has taken dostinex before? And how long did the meds help until the engorgement go away? Feel like dying here!!
- 2022-04-07Hello everyone, I'm just wondering is prune juice safe during pregnancy? I'm constipated.
- 2022-04-07Simple and easy to use. Kids do figure out how to take out when they get older, but it is still useful as it deters them from playing with the socket and sticking things in. My child knows how to take it out now but he doesn't bother to. Without it he might be tempted to stick things in I reckon.
- 2022-04-07My 2.5 month old sleeps at 8pm and wakes up at 8am. She'll wake up for night feed either once or twice.
Any who dream feeds baby? Is it necessary & does it help LO to sleep till morning?
- 2022-04-07Hi guys
Anybody experience itchy feet and hands? I'm going to my 3rd trimester already 😪
- 2022-04-07Hello mummies! Does anyone go to your gynae for special request in removing the perineal stitches earlier before it dissolves?
I am a first-time mum, who went through a vaginal birth. Episiotomy was done and my baby came out healthy at 3kg.
But the problem is even after 12 days postpartum, I can tell my wounds are completely healed, lesser blood discharge but the stitches just doesn't want to dissolve... I can only describe this feeling as 'Gao wei' in dialect or uncomfortable. I can't sit or walk properly and even sitting on a float doesn't help. Furthermore, I can't even burp my newborn because sitting down was a hassle. Have been sleeping on my side as well and there will be slight pain only at night.
Please advise and also I deliver in KK hospital (Private package), do state which hospital are you in as well, thank you :)
- 2022-04-07My son who is 14 months old is not responding to his name, but he is responding to a rhyme or his favourite song when ever we sing even when we are across the hall. Is it normal or do I need to check with my paediatrician.
- 2022-04-07I have a family member whom often washes the floor cloth (the cat has a litterbox yet still pees anyhow) that the cats often urinates on daily, despite washing or rinsing the floor cloth in a pail, the action my family member would be washed it in the washing machine afterwards. can anyone tell me is it a safe despite me using anti dust mites pods and sending them to the dryer after or unhygienic or does it contaminate the following wash?? pls help i have my little ones laundry too that are being washed by the same machine
- 2022-04-07Any mommies facing insomnia or used to, during week 30 and above? What did you do?
I have one kid which I need to look after in the day and it’s so tiring to be going through insomnia and especially during fasting month.
- 2022-04-07I have a 21 months old boy, who would tap his fingers when he hears loud 'scary' noises like when people are grass-cutting or something similar. He cries for abit, and when i hug him to tell him its okay, he would tap his fingers, softly, not the aggressive kind.
Other occasions, when he is concentrating on his cartoon shows, he would do the same.
Is there any cause for this, or should i be alarmed?
Please advise. TIA.
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- 2022-04-07Hi all! I'm now 22 weeks pregnant and I am really dry down there such that it hurts when I engage in any sexual activity with my hubs :(( tried using KY jelly but it wasn't great either, any good lubricant recommedations? TIA!
- 2022-04-08Hi mummies, I’m currently in very early pregnancy. My company is moving office. Now my office doing renovation/drilling. Should i avoid it?
- 2022-04-08Hello! Wonder weekdays or weekends better to visit the zoo? Are some attractions/feedings for toddlers closed during weekdays though less crowded? Is zoo enough or possible to cover river wonders too? Are there still free birthday entrance for adults?
Finally planning a trip with the near 3yo but dunno where to start haha. Thanks!!
- 2022-04-08Any of the mummy here having trouble feeding baby at 7mth? My boy don’t like solid. Is this normal? My first born have no problem with that.
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- 2022-04-08Hi mummies. Please let me know if this is true of PEM.
1. Nanny’s pay will be deducted ($50) by company if no review is written about nanny on their fb page/google?
2. We pay for their transportation back to company on their final day of assignment?
- 2022-04-08Hi ladies,
I previously went to Mount E for my gynae but husband and I cannot tolerate the rude receptionist and we decided to go back to NUH Dr Steven Chew. Unfortunately he is taken and so are the other gynaes as well. Dr Citra is only free in Oct (it's April now). My only option at the NUH private clinic is Dr Arundathi but its very strange, there are no reviews of her online but she is very active on research on fetal medicine.
Please share if you encountered Dr Aundathi. Also please recommend a gynae (KKH/SGH) with decent waiting time and good at stitching (natural delivery)
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- 2022-04-08Hi mummies! I just entered in week 7.. previously I was on duphaston for 1 week which intensified my nausea, food adversion n bloating. Currently I'm off, and my symptoms are much manageable. But am experiencing loss of appetite, alittle nausea and faigue. Anyone experiencing the same?
- 2022-04-08Hi I am about 7 weeks pregnant. I was sitting down on the sofa and suddenly a felt a sudden painful cramp. Does it mean anything? There’s no bleeding and etc.
- 2022-04-08Did you know that when women get pregnant, their microbiome changes? Learn more by participating in our study! Sign up here: https://bit.ly/3r7Jph2 to get a FREE test kit and gut health insight!
- 2022-04-086 weeks preggy, spotting for few days now. Went to gynae, given an injection and meds for 2 weeks. How long will the spotting last? No cramps, no nausea..nothing. Is this mormal?
- 2022-04-08Hi! Is it normal for 18 months old baby don't want to eat?
- 2022-04-08Hi all mummies out there!
Can anyone share if their little one who is around 3.5 - 4 years is so attached to her that she will keep for her.
She has been crying and wanting to go back to my MIL. I feel so useless that she missed her more than she misses me.
Can anyone advise on this? Thanks.
- 2022-04-08Our baby is turning 1 year old soon, and my husband feels we should do a birthday party for her with his family because she is the first and only grandchild in the family. However, his entire family has been very distant all this while during pregnancy and after baby is born.
In-laws didn't bother giving tonics (the usuals like soup/bird nest/chic essence that all my friends received from their in-laws) when I was pregnant and after my c-sec surgery. They have never helped with taking care of our baby, or offered help. They only ask for baby's photos and videos so they can forward to their chat groups. Oh and they made very insensitive and unnecessary comments on baby. Things like "Wah so skinny", "Skin so dark", "Not a lot of hair like your siblings last time", "Don't look like girl, look like boy." URGHHH. 🙄
Two of his siblings haven't even seen our baby even though one of them stays nearby. Just simply can't be bothered. When my husband texted to say my c-sec surgery was the next morning, NONE of his siblings even responded to wish us well or anything. Just blue ticks. They knew the time of the surgery but also didnt text anything after. 😅
We still try to do our part to involve them by sending baby's cute photos and funny videos in the family group chat since we don't meet much, but they often just blue-tick without responding.
Interestingly we are not on bad terms, we just seldom talk and hardly meet. The last we met was 2+ months ago for CNY reunion eve dinner. That's just their family dynamics somehow.
Tbh I totally don't feel like spending my time and energy planning a birthday party inviting them when they have been so distant, just because of this so called immediate family obligation, when they have never felt obligated to care for us and baby. It has only been my husband and I taking full care of myself during my not-so-easy pregnancy and of baby after she is born.
Sigh. Would you bother...?
- 2022-04-083 nights ago , I used spray in order to kill an intruder cockroaches at my kitchen. I then left kitchen, closed the door and waited awhile before I donning n95 mask to clear the mess.
Now I'm getting abit paranoid whether will this affect my baby or not. I'm 6w 3 days now.
Update: thank you for your kind assurance. :)
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- 2022-04-08Hi mummies. Wondering for babies do they teeth at 4.5months? My baby has been drooling and digging gums... baby also has a low grade fever now 37.5 range and once 38.1. There's no other symptoms. Is it usual or need to see a dr? Thanks!
- 2022-04-08I saw a notification about a free bump goodie bag but when I click on open in app, the link is gone and I can't find it anywhere in the app. Anyone care to help please?
- 2022-04-08Hi mummies , at what age to stop wearing hat mittens socks for infant? Even when sleeping in air con room. Thanks!
- 2022-04-08Hi mummies!
Do you follow your cravings if you have during your first trimester? Or do you play safe and eat only what you can?
I’ve been eating what I’ve been craving for, but sometimes everything comes out.
Should I do a meal plan to eat healthily or just eat whatever my body accepts at the moment?
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- 2022-04-08Hi mummies, how do y’all not get angry or upset during pregnancy? And not raise your voices.
- 2022-04-08Hi mummies, anyone experienced more watery vaginal discharge in 2nd trimester? Like clear odorless liquid. How do I know if it’s normal and not amniotic fluid leakage? I’m at week 19 now.
Thanks!
- 2022-04-08Can share experience and fees for NIPT/iGene test taken under subsidised?
I had my first visit tdy and doc seems unsure even to use the machine and no proper explanation on igene test (procedure, risk, fees etc).
- 2022-04-08Hi mums, can recommend me a good moisturizer or lotion for sensitive skin? For face and body/hands/legs
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- 2022-04-08Hi, just like to check if anyone did FA test in week 13? We chose to do the Paranoma test in week 11 but our Gynae also scheduled us for NT+FA scan 2 weeks later. Should I be concerned that the doctor wants me to do the test so early?
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- 2022-04-08#1stimemom #advicepls I am feeling tightness on my pelvis area when I sit or lie down. Is it normal?
- 2022-04-08https://sg.theasianparent.com/best-stretch-mark-prevention-cream-during-pregnancy-7-top-brands-to-try
- 2022-04-08Hi we had head ultrasound of our going to be 4 months baby. The report says anterior fontanelle is small and is 5mm.
Conclusion says: Small anterior fontanelle with relative premature fusion of sagittal and coronal sutures.
So there has to be a small opening around 2cm on the top of the head which usually closes after 18 months of birth until then there is a soft spot there. But my baby is having it very small and is having a flat head problem as well. For which doctor has recommended to see neurologist and mostly we will be asked to go for a surgery to increase the space. I am really tense. May I know if anyone has undergone this kind of situation and how did surgery went? #1stimemom #firstbaby #worryingmom #advicepls #pleasehelp #babybrain
- 2022-04-08Hi moms!
Just want to seek some advice, my baby is currently turning 3 months and everyone around me is bugging me to stop breastfeeding and just pumping. Reason being im going back to work soon and it’ll ease everyone’s job- infant care and family members. My baby currently won’t sleep till she latches, not sure out of comfort or milk.
I work as a teacher and for 6 hours straight, I teach. I have no breaks in between so I’m worried I can’t pump at work. My baby will be in infant care for half day, thankfully, since I work for a short time.
I don’t want to stop breastfeeding her because of the bond I have with her but if I have to, how do I do it? She has yet been able to sleep on her own without me, and she seeks my nipples for comfort too :(
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- 2022-04-08Im currently at 29 weeks however my baby seems abit small 😔#pleasehelp #advicepls #worryingmom
- 2022-04-08Wonder how I should handle my mil… she keep want to compete with me over my baby. Previously when she was temporarily staying with us, she was unhappy that baby sticks to me and even say it’s my fault and cause I have longer maternity leave.
Now she has moved back but we visit her every weekend. Even my husband sees she will carry baby away and give me a look like compete with me. My hubby just jokes about it but it really makes me very uncomfortable.
When it’s time to go back home, she also very reluctant to pass him back. Just makes me very uncomfortable. I even saw her kiss his lips once.
When baby cries for me she also refused to pass him back. I really don’t like her but also don’t want to destroy the harmony in the family. But I really cannot stand her. She will let baby play with grapes and also put his hands in drawers. I am going crazy…#1stimemom #firstbaby
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- 2022-04-08Dear mommies,
I was preparing for bed then suddenly i felt this gush of liquid flowing out from my vagina, you know the feeling you get when you are having menses. I went to check its brownish in color, palm size amount. Im 7 weeks pregnant, should i be concern?
- 2022-04-08I went to private doctor which is located at tampines blk 821 when I just found out I was pregnant . I have issue going to work with my heels as my work attire need to wear heels soo my manager at my workplace ask me to get a letter of memo for me to use a flat shoes to work as I’m doing kitchen duties also and it’s Soo slippery and may be danger for me and baby . Soo I ask the doctor to write the memo for me to wear flat shoe to work due to pregnancy , u know what he say “ U PREGNANT ON YOUR WOMB , what’s got to do with your leg ?” Omg I was Soo angry at that point why do gyna dr say that . This is my first pregnancy , he should talk to me nicely . And I explain to him again . He sounded way sarcastic again . After that we pay the bill and we saw $30 additional for a memo !
After that I didn’t come to my next appointment . I don’t want to go to that gyna who is sarcastic . It’s a male chinese btw … Soo me and my husband decided to go KKH for our next appointment chcekup . WHAT A BAD EXPERIENCE!! 🥺😡😡😡
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Tell me am I wrong ?? 😭
- 2022-04-08Hi! Due to a lack of space, i have been using my avent sterilizer & dryer to dry my baby’s food weaning utensils & freezer trays etc, and sterilize it at the same time. Am just thinking, is it safe to do so though? Will it cause the materials to degrade etc? Most of the utensils I use have said that it is dishwasher friendly….
- 2022-04-08Hi mummies! My LO is turning 7 months but is still unable to flip on his own. Is it a concern? :( he can sit (assisted) though and can also do a mini pushup during tummy time.
- 2022-04-08Hi mummies! My LO is turning 7 months and I will be leaving my job to take care of my LO full time. I was wondering what kind of schedule do you have for your LO?
He has been waking up frequently through the night and Im worried he is very understimulated currently. Any tips for activities (esp montessori based) or websites to read up on will be greatly appreciated :)
- 2022-04-08Hi mummies! My LO is 7 months and has trouble sleeping through the night. He has reflux, so he tends to drink lesser per feed but more feeds through the day, hence he still wakes up 3x for motn feeds.
Recently he has also been waking up/fussing when it is not yet time to drink. Im worried he is understimulated or i am not catching his wake windows properly in the day. How do I go on calculating his wake windows? Is there also any sleep trainer or courses who can help me understand how to calculate wake windows and how to adjust timings?
I dont mind sleep training but i believe in attachment parenting and dont want to use the CIO method.
- 2022-04-09Hi Mummies, i just started my morning sickness and i am going to be 6 weeks now. I have been having diarrhoea for the past 2 days and been vomiting everything out. I have yet to see my gynae (1st appt will be on may) and not able to ask for an advice. Should i be worried? Should i see GP dr? #pleasehelp #firstbaby
- 2022-04-09My 2 year old is having chesty cough and runny nose. Started him on zytec and Rhinathiol. What would be the red flags to see the doc?
- 2022-04-09Which stretch mark cream or oil is good to prevent stretch mark during pregnancy? Bio oil, palmers stretch mark cream. Or palmers skin therapy oil?
- 2022-04-09Parents, it may be time to stop giving cros to your kids. TAP to know why. 😱
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- 2022-04-09We have the best alternatives you need for a smooth transition. ✅
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- 2022-04-09Hello! Anyone experienced stomach ache and diarrhoea for days when 39 weeks pregnant? I've been having on and off stomach ache after I eat for about 3 to 4 days now.
- 2022-04-09Hi any body has polyps during pregnancy and have some spotting a on off even during second trimester? Thanks.
- 2022-04-09First time mum here
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- 2022-04-09My wife is 25 week pregnant now and is in a dilemma of getting booster shot. She is wondering if she should take it, even though gynae said ok to go for it
The expiry of her vaccinated is approximately 1 month before her due date.
Any kind advice :) thank you
- 2022-04-09Hi ladies, can you all share with me what time you take for breakfast lunch dinner for GDM mummies? #pregnancy #advicepls
- 2022-04-09I'm craving for my all time favourite korean samyang spicy noodle.. I'm in my second trimester, 22 weeks now.. Not sure if I could eat it.. Thought of having it with half sauce and not full sauce as usual.. Will it be okay? #advicepls #1stimemom #pregnancy #firstbaby
- 2022-04-09Hi mummies, do any of you mind to share a pix of your 5 weeks ultrasound?
- 2022-04-09Hi ! Went to gynae yesterday. She told me that baby somehow abit small for 32 weeks of pregnancy.. normal percentile for fetal growth is 10% but i was at the 9% range and had re scheduled me for another scan in 3 weeks time. If no improvement they will arrange an induced labour for me. Is it even neccessary? Im so worried and have been thinking about this till i could not sleep well. Any mummies have experience this? Tips pls.
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- 2022-04-09Can I drink Mr Coconut during first trimester ?#advicepls #1stimemom #pregnancy
- 2022-04-09Hi, I’m currently in a very early pregnancy. I informed my boss about my pregnancy and requested to WFH for 3 days per week, he agreed to let me WFH but instead of 3 days he asked for 2 days.
Actually, i am thinking to quit. Reason being i will inhale chemical & fragrance product which i felt it’s not good. Yes, my boss are quite good to us sometimes. There’s work stress. A lot of deadline to met. I’m working as finance, HR, Admin, IT, Sales. Basically is like “baokaliao”.
Previously they did accept my suggestion of hiring a operation staff which took away a big part of my job.
I have discussed with my husband. He don’t mind me quitting job since previously i miscarriage before and it’s more important for me to take care of myself and baby but I’m still thinking to hold on to this job instead? I’m worry for financial issue (although we still manageable), save save use 😂
Any opinion?
- 2022-04-09I was in a stationary car for about 15mins and I suddenly smelt engine smell… and then I realise I shouldn’t stay in car with engine on for sake of unborn baby… Is it a cause of concern? :(
- 2022-04-09I’m 21 weeks today I started to feel baby movements a week ago but not very strong movements. But this few days movement seems to be lesser. Is this normal? ’m a first time mum.
- 2022-04-09Hi I am 12 weeks 4 days doc say my water is not in enough and baby at 1 corner of the womb what I can do save my baby as gynaecologist at clinic not sure why like that
- 2022-04-09Hello Mummies! I'm a first time mummy and I have a 4 month old baby. For baby carriers, I'll usually use the ones from Konny's (the cloth type) but as my baby weighs 8kg now, I find it hard to place her inside because of her weight and she doesn't wants to sit still as she likes to see around whenever we walk. I am considering to change a baby carrier but I don't know the difference between these 2 designs. Please advise me what's the difference and which is better for my girl? Thank you!
- 2022-04-09Hi moms, #advicepls #pleasehelp #pregnancy I'd like some advice regarding what you've experienced post pregnancy. Please feel free to reply even if the thread becomes old lol.
I'm a second time mom with a toddler and currently carrying twins. In my first pregnancy, I noted some minor stretch marks which appeared at week 37 despite daily stretch mark cream applications. My mother did not get any for both her pregnancies, so it is unfortunate lol.
Although my tummy flattened within 1-2 weeks (I think it was due to breastfeeding) I had noticed since then when I bent forwards, there would be extra lines on my stomach skin suggesting it had stretched before. Otherwise, I don't think it is obvious.
Now with a twin pregnancy, wondering with other moms' experience how much stretch marks did you guys get and did your excess skin from stretching go back post partum? Was yours vaginal or C sect? Singleton moms I would like your input too with post partum changes haha. Did you guys do any preventive measures? #twins