theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for January 2020
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- 2020-01-20Abt 18weeks now and I've been trying to sleep on my side as I know that it's better for baby. But every night I spend 2 to 3 hours tossing and turning as I'm really not used to it even with pillows as support etc. Question is shld I keep spending 2 to 3 hrs every night to try get used to it or just sleep on my back and get more rest? TIA!
- 2020-01-20Heard that fever cannot give baby eat rice? Will hard to recover? Is it true?
- 2020-01-20Hi mummies, I’m 16 weeks 5 days long today and for the first time, when i took the bus to work just now, while standing, I felt dizzy at first and slowly, my vision started to reduced and soon i was about to faint. I quickly squat down and started coughing. Has anyone experienced these fainting spells before and how to prevent it from happening again?:(
- 2020-01-20Seems like there’s various baby educational classes available, usually from 6 months onwards. What do you think would be a good time to start bringing baby to such classes? Really wondering if baby will learn anything at all.
- 2020-01-20Hi Mummies, I gave birth to my 2nd born 6 months ago. I have a 2 year old daughter. I am a working mum. I had inserted implanon(birth control) right after my son was born as I had a 2nd C section and doctor did not encourage me to have a 3rd one within 3 years. Recently, I had random mood swings that will trigger and i would be moody and upset with little things. Sometime, i get frustrated with the cries and tantrums from the kids that I would walk away for awhile to compose myself and get back to them.And another moment i would be frantically happy. My kids have been falling sick and it has took a toll on my health and work. Sometime I would get upset with myself, thinking if I had done enough or had done something wrong. I have spoken to my husband and being a man i dont expect him to understand how i feel completely. I have tried to remain positive and planned out schedules to have myself organise etc however, there are those moments that I will be down, tired and run down. I am not as motivated as I was before . How do you even help yourself in this situation?
- 2020-01-20Do you all prepare present for infant care baby and teacher for your LO 1st year old birthday?
- 2020-01-20Does anyone get heartburn and indigestion at night? I tried eating small meals, but the discomfort really only affects me at night
- 2020-01-20How can I cure this itchy patches on my baby face. My baby like to scratch his ear on that side and he is drooling lot these days. I clean the mouth area with wet towel everytime after feeding and when he drool but the red patches just get bigger.
- 2020-01-20Hi mummies,
Im wondering if it’s normal not to have gained any weight at week 19, and tummy doesnt seem to have grown bigger or become harder >.< next appointment with gynae is still 2 wks away so getting abit worried if things are normal!
Appreciate all the sharing and advice :)
- 2020-01-20Any good brand of toothbrush can you recommend for 18 months old?
- 2020-01-20Should I continue to breastfeed after stop for two month due to busy, sick and stress? But I still pump once every night during these two months. Baby is now six month old.
- 2020-01-20Mandatory Vaccinations For New Born While Entering Singapore For The First Time.
I would be delivering my baby in India and bringing my child to Singapore in 4 to 5 months time. Would like to understand what all compulsory vaccinations to be done for my new born while entering Singapore for the first time ???
Kindly advise ASAP.
Thanks in advance.
- 2020-01-20How much breast milk do you all manage to pump out per session? And how long does it take? I seem to be able to pump out only 30ml for both breasts and it takes about ½ hour. It’s so frustrating. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I’m using the Spectra M1. It doesn’t seem to be pumping out much. Most of the milk comes from me compressing my breasts. My baby is 4 weeks old fyi.
- 2020-01-20I prefer to go to TMC but I don’t know which doc.. any recommendations?
- 2020-01-20Any idea can we give goat's milk to baby who has jaundice? Does it really helps?
- 2020-01-20Is this baby kicks? Short twitching feel once a while.
Not sure what this is. After having sex, start to feel this
- 2020-01-20Hi mom to be.. at which month we should be going for the hospital maternity tour? Thank u!
- 2020-01-20Any recommendation of baby body wipes suitable to do a quick wipe down outside when baby perspires too much and become too 'sticky'? Thanks.
- 2020-01-2012 weeks of pregnancy..Start to feel depressed....can't eat well (always vomit)
and cant sleep well at night (always wake up in the middle of night).
No mood to work, superior always give alot of pressure at work place, keep complaining i always take leave + mc and ostracised by all the colleagues. HOD giving unfair treatment, example everyone in the dept/unit entitled for the "special thing", only i don't have, purposely don't give me.... ?
- 2020-01-20till baby is how many months to wear mittens?
- 2020-01-20Hi, im currently 6 weeks pregnant and my nausea is terrible. Whole day and night I can only stay home and lie on the bed :( I worry once I have to go back to work about taking public transport in the morning. How do people cope with morning sickness on the bus?
- 2020-01-20Do you have a colour preference for mouthwash?
- 2020-01-20can 4/5m old baby go genting msia?
- 2020-01-20What do you dislike about your current massage oil, if you are using?
- 2020-01-20what should I pack when bringing baby to genting?
- 2020-01-20Hi am exploring post-natal massage options and came across this place Theraply. Think they were previously known as Nouri Face & Body Concepts but recently rebranded to provide in-home massage services for pre/post pregnancy. Wondering if anyone has used their services? Please share any reviews!
- 2020-01-20Me and my husband are under going divorce now. It's our first cny with our baby. Should I bring baby back to his place during cny even his family hates me alot? Do I need to give my pil Angbao when our situation now like this?
- 2020-01-20When getting a massage, do you prefer using oil or not using oil?
- 2020-01-20Have you switched formula brand for your baby?
- 2020-01-20Do you usually open your massage oil bottle with one or two hands?
- 2020-01-20How long did u wait till u get ur results?
- 2020-01-20Im planning to get a helper to take care of my baby when im back to work. However, i am worried to leave just the helper and baby alone at home. Any suggestion what i could do? I heard about bring helper to in law or parents house in the day but both side also working in the day. :(
- 2020-01-20Hi mummies who bottle feed, I’ve been using Pigeon 0+ months Twin pack (comes with teat SS size) to bottle feed my baby with ebm since birth.
He’s 2mo now and recently been crying and struggling when feeding. Idk why and am wondering if it’s becos the milk flow has become too slow for him and he’s frustrated.
Should I change the teat to S size now? When do youall usually first upsize the teat?
- 2020-01-20Hi, any cancer patient here who has already ended chemo and got pregnant? Ive question, should i down with fever, sore throat and block nose, do you just see normal gp or went down A&E? I forgot to ask my gynae abt this. But as you know, during chemo times, if fever, has to come back to A&E. I hope someone can help. I wish there is a 24hours hotline to call and ask..?
- 2020-01-20I'm turning week 8 and suddenly morning sickness becomes worse. I now often vomit right after I eat and the nauseous feeling is ever present. I need to work everyday so this is really bothering my work. How to manage this as I still have 4 weeks to go in first trimester?
- 2020-01-20What percentage of your household income do you save every month?
- 2020-01-20Where do you normally go during family dinners?
- 2020-01-20Been having this feeling like want to poop since midnight but noting come out. Having on n off contractions, n got a really pain just now at 5.30, lasted for 5mins, n 5mins gap. Now the contraction not that strong. Still contemplating whether to go hospital or not. This is my 4th baby. 1st 2 baby natural contraction lasted for 12hours, 3rd one induced, contraction 24hours but dilation is 3cm then csect.
- 2020-01-20Is it normal for preggy to have swelling feet and finger? Week 18
- 2020-01-20My last period was on 14 Dec 2019. I've been having regular periods for the last 6 months. I'm supposed to get my period on 13 Jan 2020 according to 2 apps. But I have missed my period for 8 days. I'm having pregnancy symptoms; back pain, lower abdomen pain, light headedness, nausea for the past 5 days. I did HPT about 7 times from the day before my missed period everyday, but it was negative. Today I went to a gynae and he did a scan. He wasn't very helpful in advising but he said there was nothing wrong. But I'm wondering how come I'm experiencing all these pregnancy symptoms that I've never experienced before. Is it still took early to detect or is it some other issue? Feeling really anxious as me and my husband are trying for a child and I don't know anything much about pregnancy other than what I've read online.
Thanks in advance!
- 2020-01-20I am now week 29 and my back started aching. Any remedy?
- 2020-01-20Since 1st and 2nd trimester I've been controlling my intake. Only over eating once in awhile. But ever since 3rd trimester, I eat SO much I'm so scared of my food intake... I try to eat smaller portion meal but I just keep on feeling hungry. As though I never ate at all. I'm gonna gain so much and affect my health. I really want to stop being so ravenous. Any experienced mummies with any similar experience and advice?
- 2020-01-20Hi, is it normal for hubby not to initiate sex even 6 months after pp? Btw we did not hv sex while I was pregnant cos we wan to be very safe.
- 2020-01-20Any Affordable Ovulation Kit that is reliable?
- 2020-01-20Hi, first time mum to be! Was wondering if a portable bottle warmer is needed if I intend to feed with pre stored breastmilk in a bottle when I go out? Like the kind you take out of the fridge. Or is room temperature breastmilk okay? Thanks!
- 2020-01-20been 2 months since i have given birth. did 10 sessions of post-natal massages and binding. but i still can’t fit into my pre-pregnancy clothes and my clothes were not tight-fit kind. :( i also cannot wear my rings. i have lost about 10kg from my last pregnancy weight. i put on more than 15kg for this pregnancy.
how long does it take? how long did u mummies take?
- 2020-01-20My last ultrasound scan was the growth scan and baby weight was 1.2kg. After that was told there wont be anymore ultrasound scan. Then how will i know my baby's updated weight?
- 2020-01-20Baby is 6 month old and i have started solid. The very first time i fed her she did swallow if im not wrong. But the next time i fed her with the same food, she will munch a few times and then spit out. Using it like a teether. How to teach her to swallow?
- 2020-01-20Hello my LO suddenly stop finishing her milk. She is 6 months and I feed her 3 - 4 hourly 180 ml but she will leave 30 - 60 ml and does not wanna drink anymore. Anyone has the same experience? She is taking solid food well tho. Fully on FM.
- 2020-01-20Other days I didn’t vomit at all. Will it get worse from here?
- 2020-01-20Hi mummies, I'm at 24 weeks pregnant now experiencing with backaches and discomfort at pelvic area (maybe due to round ligament). Can't walk much can't seat much. Abit annoyed with it as my underwear (which even I buy xl (from M) seems to be really feel tight. My 2nd pregnancy. Just needed to vent my frustration?
- 2020-01-20Whwre can I get breastmilk
- 2020-01-20My 4 month LO recently learnt to roll over and would sleep on his tummy at night. Heard that it’s dangerous. I have tried correcting him but he always flipped on his own at night. What should I do?
- 2020-01-20hey mummies,
isit ok for first trimester to sleep on thier stomach? will it hv any effects on baby?
- 2020-01-20Hi mommies, may I know when is the earliest you start shaving or trimming your pubic hair after a cesarean section?
- 2020-01-20I am having like white particles in pee. Dont know what is it. 12 weeks+ pregnant now. Is it normal? What is it? TIA.
- 2020-01-20Hi! Whr do i buy pregnancy journal in sg? Hoping to keep ultrasound pics in a nice journal. Where do you keep ur ultrasound pics? :)
- 2020-01-21What is your top criteria for buying diaper rash creams?
- 2020-01-21If given a choice, would you prefer to feed your baby organic food?
- 2020-01-21Any mummies have sent your K2 kid for Math class? Any good recommendation, both private and group class. Prefer it to be fun type.
- 2020-01-21Lately I have headache almost everyday when I wake up, not very bad, bearable. I dont feel it much when I work or do an activity. But when I try to sit and relax or lie down I feel the pain is still on. I mentioned this to my gynae and he asked me to take a Panadol if it worsens. Is it normal? Any suggestions on bringing it down? Thanks.
- 2020-01-21For natural birth how to know is the stitches is good? How to see?
- 2020-01-21Hi mummies, may I know which brand of laundry wash do you use?
- 2020-01-21Can pregnant ladies take bee propolis daily? Thanks
- 2020-01-21Hi mummies
I am a ftm here. Is it normal for mummy to feel detached from newborn. When everbaby gets cranky and cry, i feel like im umable to handle baby and want to detached the baby. Like too scared to handle baby. It was all fine at thehospital but ever since we return home, with my mil's care for the babyand her ability to soothe the baby when he is crying, i cant helo but feel torn btw feeling detached, yet i want to fully take care of baby on my own after confinement ends so that i can bond with baby and form secure attachment with baby. Ifeel like if i continue with the helo of my mil, it cripoles my ability to care of the baby , bond and form attachment.
- 2020-01-21at which week is it okay to go for pre-natal massages?
- 2020-01-21Hi mummies usually after givebirth when u started bathing ur born
- 2020-01-21When can i bring my baby to swim? He is now 5mth old. Public pool? Condo swimming pool?
- 2020-01-21Which is your favourite brand of formula milk?
- 2020-01-21Is this a boy or a girl ?
- 2020-01-21I notice my baby always has constipation, fussy and difficulty to sleep every time after vaccination. Anyone experience the same thing?
- 2020-01-21A FTM here. Just want to know do you prefer everything new for your baby or will you accept hand me downs ie clothes and such?
- 2020-01-21Anyone else having the same problem? Its my third pregnancy and i dont really have this problem with my first 2. I know that every pregnancy is different but what yall do to make this aches go away? Btw i'm only 23 weeks.
- 2020-01-21Hi i just found out last week that I am pregnant. Is it better to get a referral for a Gp OR I can just directly head to the hospital?
- 2020-01-21Cervical length normal but slight funneling cervix . Any mummies experienced this? How did it went?
- 2020-01-21I’m FTM, taking my NB to his first polyclinic visit for the first follow up jab. Is there anything I need to prepare or take note of or ask the doctor / nurse there?
TIA!
- 2020-01-21Hi mummies, my baby is now 2 weeks. Anyone like me as my hubby is back to work so usually the whole day is just me and baby. Do u have a feeling of being lonely, sad?
- 2020-01-21Hello mummies and daddies
My husband and i are in need of a full body massage.. we are so tired from taking care of baby ? but massage in singapore is so expensive.. anyone has affordable recommendations?
- 2020-01-21Im in my 1st trimester & im having a very bad breakout. Im using Eucerin acne series currently- still not helping much. Any tips/ ideas to minimise this breakout?
- 2020-01-21Hi has anyone who is already cnfirmed pregnnt, tried to test at 11DPO? Did you get a clear result or very faint?
- 2020-01-21my son is soon to be 3 years old and he have a mega huge appetite that never stops getting hungry. He is slightly on the heavier side despite all the daily meals being done in a healthy manner. How do i refrain him from eating excessively.?
- 2020-01-21We are contemplating between these 3 names for our baby girl, help us with some comments!
1. Kira (variations: Kira, Kyrra or Kyra)
2. Klarra (variations: Clara, Klara)
3. Myra
Thank you all!
- 2020-01-21hi issit safe to use feminine wash during pregnancy?
- 2020-01-21I supposed to come mensus on the 14th Jan.. Then its delayed till today.. And just I got a blood clot about 2cm out from me. Is this called mensus or I conceive
- 2020-01-21What can I do to help my baby transit to bottle feeding as I am going back to work soon? Any tips from fellow mummies? Thanks.
- 2020-01-21I realised my left breast produced milk easily & more, compared to my right side. I tried pumping & feeding both the same time. Any mummies encounter the same thing?
- 2020-01-21Any mummies here put their baby to infant care? Can share your experience? My baby is 2 weeks old currently but we already started making plans to put her to infant care at about 3.5months old. Reason is because both me & my husband can't get along with both in laws. The thought of putting my baby to infant care makes me start to miss her, worry about her.... * Worry & upset mummy
- 2020-01-21Hi, is it safe to take shark's fin soup during first trimester pregnancy?
- 2020-01-21Been feeling sick. And headaches..
- 2020-01-21Does your husband help to look after baby or do you do everything by yourself?
For example,
1.)Washing milk bottle
2.)Mopping the floor & housechores
3.)Drying & keeping & folding clothes for baby and the two of you
4.)Washing bowls, plates and cutleries?
5.)Help to tuck baby to bed, shower, feed baby.
- 2020-01-21Hi all parents, especially for almost 40 yo parents.
Any opinions for this?
- 2020-01-21My Lo is one month old.How Long is the duration for breastfeed(latch)? 30mins? 1 hr? Or 2hr?
- 2020-01-21Can 2 and half month old baby board the plane ? Just for a short distance? TIA❤️
- 2020-01-21Hi, I m having on and off cramps these days. I m wondering how early do you experience Braxton Hicks?
- 2020-01-21Hi mummies,
I have just bought 2 pair of hard soled shoes for my 17 months old baby. All along, his was wearing soft sole shoes. The sales lady told me that he should wear a hard sole shoe which also can help him for his tip toe walking. After googling, some experts said that soft sole will be better as their feet are growing. I need advice as I am a ftm.
Thank you very much.
- 2020-01-21Hi mummies,
I have just bought 2 pair of hard soled shoes for my 17 months old baby. He was wearing soft sole shoes since 1 year old. The sales lady told me that he should wear a hard sole shoe at his current age and it can help him for his tip toe walking. After googling, some experts said that soft sole will be better as their feet are growing. I need advice as I am a ftm.
Thank you very much.
- 2020-01-21Isit normal to have swollen legs & hands at 34weeks of pregnancy? I didn’t get all these during my first pregnancy and what’s the cause?
- 2020-01-21Anyone took care of baby alone without nanny/helper/family from first day? How was it like, do u really think help is needed?
- 2020-01-21I sometimes feel more comfortable lying down on my front. At wk 16 now. Will it hurt/ squeeze baby? I don't feel any pain/discomfort despite my tummy already showing.
- 2020-01-21I had undiagnosed diabetes (I didn't get diagnosed but I was bringing it down with diet control and exercise and it was coming down). Then I got preg. And I went to check my sugar immediately and it was high. Went to Thomson gynae for first visit and she wasn't too concerned. She said don't need meds. She asked me to exercise and cut down on carb. Then happened to go KK emergency because had some discharge. KK doc was very worried about sugar and now I am going to follow up at KK for the sugar (subsidised). At appt with my Thomson gynae, she said if KK prescribes meds.. Just take. Wondering how she went from no meds to take meds. :/ that means if I didn't go KK I would have been doing a disservice to my baby....
- 2020-01-21Going to go back work soon. The thoughts of not being able to see my daughter every night kills me. Any working mum have any advices?
- 2020-01-21Any mummy experience tis ??? (My cutie loves 2 go out the moment she sees me preparing her pram she gets excitied n I wear the BABY CARRIER tat"s it she will hold my leg & wants me to carry her .. she dun like to sit in pram & after me getting tired I WILL HAVE A HARD TIME GETTING HER TO SIT IN HER PRAM SHE WILL BE CRYING N HOLDING ON TO MY SHIRT when I m outside all around me will be watching me somtimes I will jst keep carrying her till I get bck hm phewwwww DUNO TO TRAIN HER ???? (ANY PERONAL SUGGESTIONS MUMMIES ????)
- 2020-01-21Can I keep leftover breastmilk from a feeding that was freshly pumped? Can I keep for 2hrs? Baby fell asleep when feeding.
- 2020-01-21My 6mths LO was having fever since yesterday 4am. Fed her paracetamol and temp maintained at 37.1-37.-2 then fever went up again after few hours.
Her last dose was yesterday 6pm and temp maintained at 37.
I woke up at 2.30am and measured her temp and it's 37.8.
I fed her paracetamol and after drinking milk, it slowly went down before i dozed off.
530am I measured her temp mad it's 35.4 ?
I quickly make her milk and she finished it and her temp went up to 36.4
Before I head out at 6.15am her temp is 36.3 and sleeping soundly.
I have never experienced it before. It's normal and nothing to worry?
- 2020-01-22I hate my parents in law so much. Im not even sure why.. they take care of my baby on weekdays too. I really dislike it but i have no other choice. My life is miserable. It is making my husband's life miserable too bcos i hate his parents. Anyone also feeling the same way?
- 2020-01-22Hi..is there any product that can be applied on baby's face. My son has dry skin.
- 2020-01-22Hi mummies....
Do u swaddle 1 month old LO in the day..??
- 2020-01-22Hi mommies
Our first one is almost 3 yo now. I really want to try for the second one but my husband is against it. He is only child and he doesn't care if our kid will be lonely. I have sibling so I think it is very important for our girl to have someone to talk to when she is older. How to convince him to have another one?
Ps he is very stubborn and every time I bring up this topic he will get mad.
- 2020-01-22Does your baby prefer formula or breastmilk?
- 2020-01-22Anyone encounter hair loss after pregnancy?
Any tips or advise?!!
Help!cut my hair super short but still alot of hair drop everywhr..pillows..clothes!
- 2020-01-22How to ease heart burn? I am having this issue that causes me to not be able to sleep well at night
- 2020-01-22Hi mummies,
Is there any ways to help bring down the jaundice? My baby went for phototherapy and was discharged last week, today went for follow up checks, the jaundice level seems to go up again. TIA..
- 2020-01-22Can i eat steam egg from chap chye peng stall?
- 2020-01-22Can i eat yole yoghurt during pregnancy week 7?
- 2020-01-22Which Chinese New Year superstition do you still believe in? [If applicable]
- 2020-01-22Hi mummies, can you share with me abt the insurance plans that u got for ur lo? I'm due in Feb and already thinking of getting it after he's born.
- 2020-01-22Hi mummies! Anyone know if it is safe to drink watercress soup during 3rd trimester?
- 2020-01-22Do you still practice 'Shou Ye'? ['Shou Ye' means staying up late or all night on New Year's Eve]
- 2020-01-22Hi.. im currently 7months pregnant.. and just wondering is it safe to watch like action movie like kungfu??
- 2020-01-22Hi mummies... I am currently pregnant 35 weeks. My inner thigh around vagina area is becoming dark. Any remedies to make it white?
- 2020-01-22Is it normal to have cramp at the lower stomach during 5month plus pregnancy?
- 2020-01-22LO 9mth plus yet still cannot stand on her own for more than 5sec ):
- 2020-01-22Is there any recommendations on milk brand safe for pregnancy?
- 2020-01-22Hi mummies, it is safe to consume Dydrogesterone in early pregnancy? Any regrets taking it?
- 2020-01-22I just gave birth a week ago and I had the best birthing experience with the best team... No epidural...Just want to share to all preggy ladies. Opting for Unmedicated normal delivery and remain calm all thoughout is possible. Just do the breathing technique, listen to relaxing music and trust your body. All the best to all?
- 2020-01-22What is your top criteria for buying stretch mark creams?
- 2020-01-22Mummies, when did your normal period cycle start after giving birth ?
- 2020-01-22I'm 8 weeks pregnant. Can I really have kaya toast?
- 2020-01-22My 5 month old baby is coughing with phleghm for the past few days. Went to the doctor. He said his lungs are clear. No fever. Was told to simply monitor him. Anybody’s baby with similar condition? How Long does it take before going away?
- 2020-01-22Is epidural recommended while giving birth?
- 2020-01-22Hey mummies!
Does anyone of you experience postpartum hair loss? Mine is driving me crazy. My hair is dropping like nobody business. Is there any remedies out there to help reduce it or completely stop it? Will my hair grow back? Hellpp!! ????
- 2020-01-22How to make our breast full of milk...my baby was 1 week and my milk still little.
- 2020-01-22My baby girl just turned 9months old yesterday. Recently I’ve just changed milk powder as she was rejecting milk completely. After changing, I have to use a syringe to feed her. For the past few days everything went well until yesterday, she started rejecting milk again. I’ve changed the bottle teat to a faster flow. What’s wrong?!
- 2020-01-22when did your baby start teething?
- 2020-01-22what are the sign of teething?
- 2020-01-22Is it normal for a baby to poop more than once a day when he takes formula? I was previously told that taking formula causes constipation for them so was wondering if this means the formula may not be suitable for my LO?
- 2020-01-22Hi everyone I just wanted to ask wether is it normal to still have pain post c sect?im entering week 5 post operation. The pain is actually just below the belly button the whole stretch of it. Ive read in some articles that the pain will last within 4 to 6 weeks.. Im just concern if I need to see a doctor because of this? Hope to hear from you mommies.. Thank you.
- 2020-01-22Hi mommies wanted to ask if its normal to still feel a pulling pain and gnawing pain 5 weeks post csect? The pain is actually below the belly button and its the whole stretch of it. Im not to sure wether to see a dr or not. Hope you can share your thoughts. Thank you.
- 2020-01-22Anyone know Dr Ong EK charges? Like the first time consultation charges and subsequent consultation charges? Thanx
- 2020-01-22Is it normal to feel so bloated?
- 2020-01-22Help. My 11th mth baby jus recovered from high fever due to 3 of his teeth growing at the same time.
Now all of a sudden he refuses to drink milk. Even when he wakes in the middle of the night thirsty, he still refuses to drink. What can i do..
- 2020-01-22Baby is 1 month and 3 days. Initially baby was on similac. Since he had trouble pooping and had phelgm, I changed his milk to karihome goats milk. Everything was ok at the beginning once I changed the FM but recently he started to cry whenever he wants to poop. Stool still soft. He farts alot. Wad mistake am I doing here ? And he also has nappy rash. Wad can I apply besides desitin? Pls help me??
- 2020-01-22Need recommendation to clear baby's ear wax
- 2020-01-22Hi. Is it a must to shave baby’s head at least once? My in-laws have been nagging to shave it since birth. My son is 15m now, and they still wont let go.
They keep telling me shaving is good for the baby. The hair will be even and thicker. Tbh, that doesnt matters to me. And so they changed their statement now. Now they tell me my son cant go into the temple if he doesnt shave. I told them me and my siblings did not shave as well.
Why do they insist on shaving it?
- 2020-01-22My 17 month LO doesn't like to drink milk now. The powdered milk she drank is 100ml 3 times a day and at times doesn't finish all. She only drink what we drink (juices, pokka drinks, ribena). Anythink that is cooling. Can I start giving her normal fridge cold water?
It could be the weather that she may be feeling the heat.
- 2020-01-22Is there any recommendation for activity centre? My baby is going to be 5 month soon and thinking of getting her one . So far considering oribel activity centre
- 2020-01-22Why are there many tiny red spots appearing on my tummy? They are not itchy or painful. Im at week 16. Thanks in advance!
- 2020-01-22Hi, I just started on breastfeeding for my newborn. As my supply is not enough, I was advised to mix feed and only require 30ml of FM per feed.
I am using NAN and the standard guideline is 3 scoops to make 90ml. As I only need 30ml, can I just do 1 scoop each time or need to strictly follow and make 90ml but will waste 60ml?
- 2020-01-22Can i drink cooling water? Im at 5 weeks.
- 2020-01-22Hi,
I am using the above steamer. Every time once done, do you clean out the droplets in the bottle before making milk or straight away make milk with it?
Thanks
- 2020-01-22Is ezpz really worth the cost? Anyone using? So ex..
- 2020-01-22I have no idea why suddenly this happened. My baby simply refused to be fed bottle milk by me. But when dad feeds him, he gulp it down..
Getting depressed. It doesn't help that dad ain't ard every night due to shifts. So how do I do this? Very worried.. (FYI, baby no longer on BM)
- 2020-01-22I am using trust pills .. I drink mistake the numbers of my pill .. instead from 8-14 I start in number 14... It is possible that im gonna be able pregnant?
- 2020-01-22What do u do with ur baby bonus monies? Did u split it with ur husband?
- 2020-01-22Im currently at 26 weeks and my back pain is crazy. Are there anything to soothe or avoid having it?
- 2020-01-22What is the best multivitamins for pregnant? I am a first time mum and had my first pre natal check up and the OB just told me to take folic acid. But is there any more vitamins that I should take? Or folic acid is just enough for now?
- 2020-01-22Am 23 weeks now, when can I start drinking coconut?
- 2020-01-23Do you have the habit of putting on make-up when you are not working?
- 2020-01-23how to start solid food?
- 2020-01-23Hi mummies, recently I am having pain at the right side of my tummy and already few days. Is a on off pain kind. Currently at week25 6days entering wk26. Please advise? FTM.
Thank you.
- 2020-01-23Hi, Any idea where can i purchase maternity jeans and top? Around north east... Nowadays nothing seem nice to fit me.. ☹️
- 2020-01-23Out of sudden my 6 months baby is allergic to cows milk... ??♀️
- 2020-01-23Hi mumsies!
Help!
Any recommendations for safe & effective insect repellent? I have never used insect repellent and never gotten bites. But eversince I'm pregnant, I m more prone.
- 2020-01-23When do you mummies introduce salt to food for lo? I heard recommended is at least after a year
- 2020-01-23Sigh, my supply is getting lesser and lesser each day. It is literally few drops of colostrum on my third day no matter how I pump and manual express. It’s so upsetting :( any tips for me?
- 2020-01-23Hi mummies that put your kids in IFC, what questions do you ask them or look out for during the center visit? I will be sending her to PCF as easy for my in laws to fetch if we late. Any mummies got any feedback on how's pcf?
Generally I just see that the environment is bright, airy and clean. And observe how the teachers handle the kids and ask how's the teacher child ratio and no. of kids now. But there's no way to really know whether the teachers will really attend to the kids when they cry or how long they let them cry for? Quite worried as will be sending my LO when she's only 3 mths ? and she requires fair bit of carrying rocking and patting with pacifier to sleep and awakes from her nap v easily n needs to be put back to bed again. Moreover we always pick her up and don't let her cry for long.
Also I plan to give ebm for feeding with fm topup, any advice? Must I give in form of 1 bottle every feed and just leave a tin of fm there?
- 2020-01-23Hi I’m in week 29 and went for my scan recently. Doctor said the baby has yet to turn (in position ready for labour, head down). She mentioned that other babies might start to turn by now. Is this normal? Or is there anything i can do to make baby turn?
- 2020-01-23Im 37 week, my right leg is in pain with my tight area, should i go kkh a n e coz the doctor i need to induce if the baby too big? but the problem my pain is at my tight area n the baby are moving..
- 2020-01-23Is this bed bug bites? My baby got it after wakeup from sleep. Whole body n face have rashes
- 2020-01-23Any Mummies Craving For Instant Noodles Right Now? I'm First Trimester and is It Safe To Eat Once In Awhile To Curb My Cravings
- 2020-01-23Hi I am very petite and only 8 weeks pregnant but I am damn bloated. My old clothes can't be worn any longer. Anyone has recommendation where to get relax and baggy clothes and at the same nice pretty too?
*not too expensive too*
- 2020-01-23Hi All, my baby is only 4days old and has a jaundice level of 211. Going for another test tomorrow.
As my breastmilk has not kicked in full force, i do mix feed of breast milk and formula , any other advice to improve baby jaundice?
- 2020-01-23Hi. Any preloved bath tub to let go for cheap or to bless? Thanks
- 2020-01-23When should we start taking them? After birth or during pregnancy?
- 2020-01-23Hi , isit good to send enrichment class for 4 years old ? If yes , can recommend any center ?
- 2020-01-23Is it normal to have some light brown color discharge on week 8 pregnancy? It doesn't look like spotting.
- 2020-01-23Hi, I just went for my 1st scan at week 7 but heartbeat not detected, was ask to go back in another 2 weeks time. Has anyone experience similar and miracle continue?
- 2020-01-23is it safe to drink coke? I been wanting to drink it since yesterday.
- 2020-01-23Are baby carriers necessary? Which brand is good and also affordable price? Anyone using the Konny baby carrier? Is it good?
- 2020-01-23Hi mummies,
What soup is support to boost for breast milk supply? Are Chinese herbal soups really help?
- 2020-01-23Hello!
Does anyone know where to find the formula called Neocate or similac alimentum?
Thanks!
- 2020-01-23How much does it cost for detailed scan at sgh?
- 2020-01-23What to feed to a 6 month old baby?
- 2020-01-23What are the questions you hate being asked during Chinese new year (as a parent)?
- 2020-01-23isit better for baby to sleep on foam mattress or spring mattress?
- 2020-01-23I don’t know if I’m worrying excessively but i seem to be having reduced frequency of urination. I have been drinking quite a bit but I don’t find myself visiting the toilet often even though it is expected I should be frequently going to the toilet during my first trimester. My tummy feels bloated and my back aches and I seem to be having some extent of constipation. Can constipation cause reduced urination frequency? I don’t feel the urge to go to the toilet. I also don’t have any signs of UTI like pain when i urinate and fever. Does anybody experience this too?
- 2020-01-23Hi fellow mommies! I’m currently 20weeks pregnant and recently my stomach starts to hurt when I walk. Is this something I have to be concerned with ?
- 2020-01-23I'm currently 37 weeks pregnant. I just went for a check up and doctor said my baby is 2kg. I will be in induce labour next week but I'm really worried. What can I do to gain more weight?
- 2020-01-23Was it easier transitioning from breastmilk to formula milk?
- 2020-01-23hi mummies , im quite curious . after a newborn is born how long must i wait till i cn shower the baby ?
- 2020-01-23Is it normal to vomit thrice in a week and each time gets more at 7 weeks near 8 weeks?
- 2020-01-23Hi Mums!!
I have a question for you guys. If a store were selling montessori materials made from recycled clothing, would you be willing to buy it? What if by donating your own clothes, you get a discount vouchers for these materials, would it encourage you to buy them?
- 2020-01-23What can I do to make my toddler sleep peacefully with cough...?
- 2020-01-23Hi mummies! Anyone of u gone through confinement during cny period? My aunt advises me that I cannot eat any cny goodies while I am doing confinement as it is not good for me. Thoughts?
- 2020-01-23My NB breath heavily sometimes. Is that normal?
- 2020-01-23Does anyone experience sudden appearance of red itchy spots all over the body at week 39 pregnancy?
- 2020-01-23I know that shellfish is generally safe to eat during pregnancy so long it's well cooked, however I came across an article saying shellfish feed with alge, even it's fully cook, bacteria, will still be there. Will you avoid shellfish during pregnancy? E.g. Abalone, scallop, oyster, etc.
- 2020-01-23Hi,
I’m having my postnatal massage and they apply herbs on my tummy for wrapping. Are topical herbs application safe for breastfeeding?
Thanks!
- 2020-01-23Hi mummy where to buy newborn baby hat ?
- 2020-01-23Is It Ok To Snek Out Without Saying Goodbye
- 2020-01-23hi, im on my first trimester. is there any food/drinks i should avoid or taking it with cautious? need help!! cos i looove eating. ?
- 2020-01-23I noticed i have a swallon vein on my vulva area. I also having sore pain down there. Is this normal?
- 2020-01-23Hello mummies,
Is it compulsory to go back to your gynae after giving birth?
I went back a week after then my gynae ask me to go back in another month.
Was wondering is that necessary?
She mentioned something about Pap smear though.
- 2020-01-23My 3 month old LO has been having diarrhoea for 9 days already.
It started last Thursday (16Jan), we brought her to the PD and got Hirasec & Probiotics.PD diagnosed as virus infection. He also said she's if still not well, go back on Monday. PD mentioned to only feed her BM as they're lots of antibodies etc.
Monday (20Jan) came & her condition still didn't improve. Went back to the PD & got the same meds. Today (24Jan) is the 9th day & she's still having the runs.
Poop wise is yellow & watery, she poops about 7-8 times (big poops would be 3 times a day).
She's still very happy & cheerful, smiling as well. She doesn't seem to be in pain.
We're not sure if she might suddenly be lactose intolerance or what. Anyone experience similar issues?
- 2020-01-23hi anybody have pains on their abdomen when you sneeze or cough hard?
- 2020-01-23went to kkh 24hr o&g clinic bc i had bad cramps and jelly blood. I alr knew I had a missed miscarriage at week 6, I was expecting the bleeding to come any time.
after the doctor check and all confirm my body is trying to expel the baby out.. now 4hrs ltr, in bleeding suoer heavy changed (2 pad within 30mins), having extremely painful cramps kind of feels like contractions.
not sure if i went back kkh what help would they be since I wanted to let it pass naturally. not sure what to do as well. I keep staining my undies as the blood is too much.. and it rly sucks bc the "contractions" is feel like taunting me i lost my baby
- 2020-01-23went for my last massage before delivery yesterday, well only manage to secure 2 slots in total bc of finance wise and no time to go.
so basically i went for the first in nov, she massaged very gently. felt not effective but i just brush it off and thgt maybe the next which is the last one session will request someone stronger or something.
and yesterday i managed to bring myself back there bc im having very bad back and calves pain. and a stronger lady this time tho i didnt ask for it. it was ok. at times super strong but handleable. after the whole massage, my body got abit of uncomfortable sensation. brushed it off again bc im in the hurry to leave. waited for partner to fetch me, my whole tummy area felt like a pulling sensation with sharp pain. my back hurts so bad i almost cried being alone there.
reached home in 11/10 pain and uncomfortable, showered and slept thru the pain. i can really feel my whole tummy is getting super uncomfortable and my back pain hurts mad till now. my breast also feels super sensitive after the lady massaged it. its so painful and uncomfortable that i cant continue sleeping ???
im so mad at my condition right now!!
QNS IS!!!
is after massage supposed to feel extra sore? TT went there feeling ok, go back feel more worse?
- 2020-01-24Hi how often will you feel baby’s movement at week 27? I can only feel a few movement sometimes and when I touch my tummy, baby won’t react as well. Kinda worried!
- 2020-01-24Is it normal to keep feeling sleepy during 36 weeks? I'm sleeping more than usual and I get tired and really no mood for anything.
#week36
- 2020-01-24Anyone tried PeeKaPoo or Rascal and Friends diapers? Are they worth it and where do you normally get it?
- 2020-01-24So after last night heavy bleeding and extremely painful cramps. I think it's over, I just passed a white looking tissue, that kind of looks like a heart and has 2 tubes like things. I'm guessing that's either the sac or placenta? but do 6wks even have placenta?
any mummies can share
- 2020-01-24Hi mummy, do you encounter nose blood during 2nd trimester? Needed advise as FTM. Thank you.
- 2020-01-24Hi mums, I was delivering my baby at NUH. Which one is better, vaccine and do monthly check at NUH or at nearby paediatric clinic? The one near me is Thomson Paediatric Centre
- 2020-01-24Hi does anyone sprained their ankle during pregnancy? Do you need to arrange a checkup with doctor if you do not have any abdominal pain or bleeding?
- 2020-01-24I want to know how active is my baby should appear on ultrasound?
- 2020-01-24Hi Mummies!
Can i check with you all those who gave birth at KKH, how is the experience overall?
Gov hospital,
KKH, SGH or NUH is better?
- 2020-01-24Hi mummies, my gal is having fever for 2 days and she’s pooing more frequently. Not diarrhoea but just instant poo after each feeding. Is this common? Thanks
- 2020-01-24Hi guys!
If a well-known company for example, fox kids started selling a toy or game made from recycled clothing, would you buy it for yr child? If you got discounts for these toys by donating yr old clothes, would you do it?
- 2020-01-24Where to pierce babygirl ear? And how much?
- 2020-01-24can i take mother’s horlicks during planning to get pregnant
- 2020-01-24Hi mummies and mummies-to-be. I am a huge lady standing at 164 cm and 123kg and 12 weeks 5 days pregnant. Would love to share experience and hear out mummies queries or frustrations. Can add me on instagram @bigandpregnant
Sending virtual hugs and love for all mummies!
- 2020-01-24Can i drink coriander seeds water while planning to get pregnant?
- 2020-01-24How do I get rid of my 5 month old baby’s phleghm? Visited the doctor but he couldn’t give medication for children under 2 years old.
- 2020-01-24Hi everyone, kindly share any similar experience.
My baby will be staying at my mother in law place for 18mths. Do you think there will be issue moving back to my own place after 18months?
- 2020-01-24does lauging gas works when you give birth naturally? like, does it feel less pain?
- 2020-01-24Hi guys,
If a company were selling a toy made from recycled clothing, would you buy it?
Could you help me fill out this really quick survey regarding this question
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- 2020-01-24Any of you give porridge or cereal during 5months
- 2020-01-24Any moms out here accidentally caught a cold during confinement? If so, any remedies to help to recover?
- 2020-01-24I’ve been to the toilet 3-4 times today and it’s all watery stools. Googled that charcoal pills and lomotil is not safe to eat. Does anyone know what meds can I take to stop this?
- 2020-01-24Hi.. Im at 23 weeks.. Im having a bad cough.. Whenever i cough i will feel my baby move.. Can this cought effect my baby?? Quite worried also.. Mummies come share with me what drink to consume to heal this cough?? Its so irrtitating..
- 2020-01-24Hi, how long do you bleed after vaginal delivery? Does your next period come without a break from the post delivery bleeding?
- 2020-01-24I'm almost at my 32nd week and during last appt, no. 2 was measured as 70% bigger than average, which is smaller than no. 1, who was 97% bigger than average baby. I was determined to do a Vbac this time round since it has been 5yrs after my last c sect but this time round, gynae's opinion is still on elective c sect due to size of no. 2 head and abdomen, and started telling me about the risk involved for Vbac.
I did my research on both and now still 50/50 on which birth to stick to even though my take on c sect is a bit lower.
If I'm adamant on Vbac, I might need to change to a pro vbac gynae but even so, the risk of dystocia or chances of me not dilating might just lead to an emer c sect.
Elective c sect wud mean baby will be safely delivered but that very long painful process of recovery will taunt me again.
In need of other opinions pls.
- 2020-01-24Hi mummies, which breast pump is better? Medela freestyle or Philips Avent?
Thanks
- 2020-01-24Hi my 6 months old LO just got her 6in1 vaccination. She does not cry much probably cried for 5seconds only for each jab. But once we are home and she was having nap I realise she was crying in her nap and when awake she was fussing alot. She has never did that before so I was dumbfounded and did not know what to do. Please advise what should I do? Should I ask her to cry more after jab to let it out? Pretty sure she was quite traumatised by the jab cause even now she is crying a lil in a sleep. She isn't a baby who cries at all. Even hungry she just scream or make a lil noise to get our attention.
- 2020-01-24hey parents! happy cny in adv! just wondering how much money do u give to your own kids? :) it’s my first time so would like to ask for advice,tia!
- 2020-01-24hi all. im a part timer and not married, 38 weeks pregnant. will get married after baby is born instead. ive worked with the company since Sept. can i request for maternity leave?
- 2020-01-24Hi mummies, has anyone gotten ulcers or sores on their genital area during pregnancy?
Seen the doc before and she said the discharge and itchiness was normal during pregnancy and was given medicine but problem came back and was accompanied by sores/ulcers.....
- 2020-01-24How do I manage baby's reflux? I feed him every 2 hourly with FM. He drinks abt 100mls. Burped well. But afta awhile he wants more. sometimes he vomits out the undigested feed.. breastmilk low supply..
- 2020-01-24Here is a heads up with regards to your rewards.
- 2020-01-24I feel to bring my 8 years old Daughter to visit Haw Par villa but I worry she will scare. So parent, at which age you will bring your children there to visit?
- 2020-01-24Hi Mummies!
I’m currently having frisomum as my milk daily. But start to ? when it’s just pure milk, so adding some milk powder in it. Started to ? again after afew days. Any advice what kind of milk to drink or can i drink just once in awhile instead of daily?
- 2020-01-24I'm 5 weeks 4days and I'm a foreigner from Malaysia working here for 7 years. Kindly advice me shall I go NUH
- 2020-01-241st trimester, but irritated by the bloating & pain stomach. Almost 24/7 feel the same feeling. Normal? I feel so suffering ?
- 2020-01-24Hi mummies. Water accidentally when into baby's ear while bathing. Anyone had experience with this? Will the water go away on its own? Many thanks!!
- 2020-01-24Hi mummies after delivery Bleeding was normal for about a mth n then few mths later got a normal mensus then till now NO MENSUS YET & my tummy & body very aches alot ... any1 can recommand any GD MASSAGE AUNTY (Hm visit & Not expensize like package type) thks in advance mummies
- 2020-01-24It's true? Mummy you got read this .. because of this my husband ask me to cancel all my baby appointment and ask me go different hospital .... but soon I going to deliver at kkh all my details in kkh already ..
- 2020-01-25Hello mummies, any of your LO Is Drinking Nan and is 6-7 months old now?
My LO is drinking Nan HA now. What I understand is Nan is less sweet compared to other FM ??♀️
Cause I have been trying giving LO apples and bananas and she seems to dislike it and have a cry face as if I gave her lemons. I also gave her pigeon cracker and food jar pumpkin, beef and potato from Heinz and she is okay with it.
I tasted the cracker and the food jar I gave LO and it's bland.
So I wondered if is it the Nan drinking babies will find sweet stuff too pungent for them to take it or is it just individual baby preference? ??♀️
If you are sharing same experience as me, please share with me what other food that your LO like and dislike.
TIA!
- 2020-01-25Hi everyone.. Have anyone of you experienced where ur month old baby wakes up at the wee hour and having difficulty putting him back to sleep? My one month old will usually wake up between 12MN and still up til 4am. Weve given him his feeding changed diaper as well. He will start crying too.. Any advice on how we can actually help him to sleep? Thank you.
- 2020-01-25Hi all. Which stroller are you using currently? Be it expensive or affordable stroller which one has a big wheels and easy to maneuver and also easy to close with one hand
- 2020-01-25Is there any good infant care around Serangoon MRT?
- 2020-01-25Hey Mums
My wife has just found out she has gestational diabetes and she’s in her third trimester of pregnancy.
Aside from following the dietician’s advice on what to eat and how best to exercise, does anyone have any tips?
- 2020-01-252weeks PP. I try to pump every 3hrs & I get about 70ml of milk. I tried pumping every 2 hours but I realised i will get lesser milk. Baby feeding time is not constant. She wakes up every 2-3hrs. At times I can't pump in time for her. I can't latch her as she fell asleep easily (after 5-10mins) & she end up crying or wakes up very soon-too tiring for me. What can I do to make she get enough?
- 2020-01-25Hello mummies. issit reccomended to eat omega 3 fish supplements? any reccomendations? thanks!
- 2020-01-25suggest any glucose home test kit and where to buy?
- 2020-01-25Currently at 16 weeks. Been feeling the cramps lately but today it felt worse, especially on the lower abdomen and my back. No constipation but already pooped twice this morning. Wondering if it’s normal or it’s just due to the milk (Frisomum) I’m drinking? Felt slightly better after laying in bed but afraid the cramps might come up again later.
- 2020-01-25I am 38 weeks and fell constipation. Now 3 days already. Is it normal?
- 2020-01-25Hello mummies! Im 38 weeks pregnant and today i discovered abit of pinkish red blood in my urine. What does that mean? My gynae does not want to induce me yet as i still do not have bad contractions pain. But today im 38 weeks preggy and discovered pinkish red blood tgt with my urine. Does that mean im gg into labour anytime soon?
- 2020-01-25Let me know if anyone has breast pump to bless. Thank you in advance.
- 2020-01-25During contractions or intervals of each contractions?
- 2020-01-25Hello any one went out on the 2 weeks plus of confinement?
- 2020-01-25Hi, any mummies gave birth at kkh under private A1 class? Dont mind sharing your experience?
- 2020-01-25Hi mummies, ive got 2 pregnancies without vomitting only nausea, both boys, but now im having my 3rd and gender still dont know, but the morning sickness is so terrible, ive been vomitting like almost everyday till im so weak, im at 17 weeks + 5 days, no appetite to eat also, like always want to be in the bed. How long will it take for the vomitting to go away?
- 2020-01-25hi mummies! im having my first check up at KKH, isit better to postpone or change to other hospitals?
- 2020-01-25Where to get maternity clothes? I have not seen any specific shop selling clothes for preggo.
- 2020-01-25Any babies encounter side effect after rotavirus vaccine ?
How long it last ?
What was your baby side effect?
Currently my girl has green watery poop once a day and her vomit milk are sticky and thick like mix with phlemg . She don't feel so hungry after vaccine. Is it normal ?
- 2020-01-25Baby girl is 15days old. She is more awake today compared to usual days. Just curious, when will baby (or your baby) start to sleep lesser & wakes up more?
- 2020-01-25Will your baby be affected if Mummy and Daddy quarrel or argue in front of him? Like shouting, throwing of things...
- 2020-01-25Hi,
I am currently on confinement and I would have to eat fish, dishes cooked with some alcohol and drink herbal soup everyday.
I have a few concerns of the following:
- does the amount of mercury in fish allow me to breastfeed safety?
- if the dish is cooked with 1-2 tablespoon of alcohol, how long should I wait before I pump?
- does the herbs in the soup affect baby?
Thanks
- 2020-01-25Hi
Recently LO has been coughing with phlegm. How can I make it better. She doesn't like water or honey with water. Any alternative?
Mostly during night that the cough happen and that disrupted her sleep.
- 2020-01-25Has anyone have a same issue like me? Dry skin even on the fingertip seems crack. Any recommendation lotion that is works?
- 2020-01-25Should start wearing mask to protect or just be more careful?
- 2020-01-25Hi mummies
I've been coughing (wet and now its getting better become dry but still cough) for a week and I'm 25 weeks preg. The cough causes me to pee bit by bit and thus, making me wear a pad and change it everytime. It's my 2nd preg.
it's my urinal thingy loose that I peed when I cough? Hope it's normal. I don't do kegel but I did some squat here and there (laundry picking up LO stuff-hope these can help). Hoping to get better soon.
- 2020-01-25My son hair all stand.
I heard like curly is stubborn
Stand is naughty. Isit true?
- 2020-01-25Tell me your giving birth experience because this is my first tume giving birth and I'm curious about how different mom go thought labour.
- 2020-01-25Im on my 33 weeks, last 2 days when for checkup doctor told me that the bby breech( the head is at the top & the leg at the bottom not at the right position). Now i feeling some pain but not sure isit just normal pain or the contraction pain.