theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for March 2020
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- 2020-03-30I have breast milk to bless. In exchange for one piece of storage bag for every pack you take. Lmk if you’re keen. :)
- 2020-03-30I’m about 12 weeks pregnant. My hubby and myself haven’t have sex for more than 3 months and it’s torturing us. Not sure if it’s the pregnancy that’s making my sex drive higher or it’s too long we haven’t have sex.
But my hubby is concerned that he might hurt the baby if we have sex during my pregnancy, so he is a bit reluctant to have sex. Anyone face the same issue as me? I feel bad for not being able to satisfy his needs.
- 2020-03-30Hello mummies! Just wonder if anyone experienced this before - when i sleep on my right side, baby kicks vigorously; when sleeping on my left side, baby doesnt move as much or move more gently (barely can feel baby's movements). Is there a reason why this happens?
- 2020-03-30Negative pregnancy test. What’s wrong with me?
- 2020-03-30If pregnancy test show positive on 28 mar (1 day late), is it too early to see a doctor on 9 Apr? Can the ultrasound detect the baby?
- 2020-03-30Hi all, I am just at my 3rd trimester. Will be going for a scan at Wk 28. Just want to find out how frequent will the appointments be after this as I have to plan out a schedule for work. Thanks in advanced!! (PS I am with KKH subsidised)
- 2020-03-30Have you managed to achieve social distancing when leaving your home?
- 2020-03-30Hey everyone
Do you always remember to wash your hands?
- 2020-03-30Urine n blood positive pregnant..but scan can't find any baby...doc suspect ectopic pregnancy. Should wait for next scan to confirm? As tomorrow doc ask to come down and talk about it
- 2020-03-30Hi mummies. I am currently 16+1 weeks pregnant, before pregnancy i have really bad upper backaches which normally i went to TCM for it. But now, pregnant i am unable to do.
During the night, I am unable to sleep well due to should / neck ache & of course my upper back. What am i supposed to do or apply if possible?
Thanks in advanced!
- 2020-03-30Hi can any mummies who didn’t take up a gynae package share how much you spent for prenatal consultation?
Was just informed by our gynae that she doesn’t offer any packages... so am in a dilemma whether or not to stick to her or look around.
- 2020-03-30Hi mummies, I'm pregnant with my second child and will be due in July. During my first pregnancy I was staying with my parents and had my mum to care for me while I was on my confinement.
Now for my second pregnancy, I already have my own house. My concern now is should I go back and stay with my parents during my confinement period or stay at home and have my mum to come to my house. This is because my husband works at night and during the day he'll be sleeping 4-5 hours. Which means I'll be on my own taking care of myself and the 2 children on top of the house chores need to be done.
My husband approves of me staying over. But I feel bad leaving him alone at the house for 3 months while serving my confinement. Plus he needs to do the house chores by himself. He'll go home first to sleep before coming to my mum's place for lunch or dinner. What should I do? ??
- 2020-03-30My leg is itching and I can’t help but scratching it. Even tho I had moisturise it, it still itch non stop esp during the day. Any suggestion?
- 2020-03-30How's Mt. Elizabeth Novena hospital Maternity facilities? I'm consulting Dr. Dharshini there & wanted to check if anybody has anything to share about her or the hospital? Good or bad, both comments appreciated.
- 2020-03-30Is it "I love you"? Let us know which is your favourite.
- 2020-03-30My baby had bald patches not alot but abit. So we shaved him again yesterday. Any oils to recommend for his hair growth?
- 2020-03-30My husband's birthday is coming. Any suggestions on what to gift him besides perfume, shoes, shirts etc. Anything special?
- 2020-03-30Did anyone tried blackmores CWG and how many boxes to delivered results?
- 2020-03-30is it normal to feel bloated at 15 weeks. really feeling uncomfortable.
- 2020-03-30hello mummies. i received sms about my next few appointments and am wondering if its important to go for the Antenatal appointments? may i know what is it really for, how the procedures done etc. there's like numbers of appointments for both Antenatal monitoring and Antenatal Diagnostic, i dont really want to worry my fiancè having to think of the bills so i might want to skip if its not important.
- 2020-03-30Any mummies out there whose baby is very clingy and only wants the mother to pat him to sleep? I will be returning back to work once my maternity end in one month time and my mum will be taking care of him. But till now he only wants me and keep on crying if my mum were to put him to sleep. Can i know what else can i do?
- 2020-03-30Hi! im in my 6 weeks now. I workout alot before pregnancy (lifting weights and cardio) but when i found out im pregnant, i stop working out and switch to yoga instead. Is it safe?
- 2020-03-30KkH PD gave illiadin & need to discard after 6mth (after opening)
Private PD gave illiadin & need to discard after 4weeks (after opening)
Who should I listen?
- 2020-03-30Hi mommy's, I'm 14 weeks pregnant. expecting my first baby. whenever i empty my bowels i noticed there is a small (2cm long) brown colour discharge coming from my vagina. It appears like a brownish gel. Is this something to worry? This is the 3rd day it happened. My next appointment with doc is in 5 weeks time. Do i need to see a doc urgently?
- 2020-03-30Just to ask all mummies, I had menstruations after 6 mths of giving birth. Does it means that milk supply will starts to deplete? Thanks
- 2020-03-30Hi mums and mums to be, is it safe to eat sumo salad? Have any of you eaten it while you were pregnant? I asked them and they did tell me they wash their veges but wanted to know from others' experiences! Thanks!
- 2020-03-30Hi, my newborn tends to make noises when he sleeps at night... is it normal? How to know when is the cue for the next feeding time?
- 2020-03-30How many months before your baby due date you will buy or get those products that needed ?
- 2020-03-30How long does growth spurt ends?
It's been 3rd day my 10 weeks old taking longer naps and drinking lesser. How long is growth spurt usually?
- 2020-03-30anyone else facing the same issue today 30th March 2020 ?
- 2020-03-30Hello. My LO is 5 months and im planning to start feeding him solid. However will it be okay it feed him on alternate days? Until he's 6 months old. Will he be hungry? Reason because my boy is quite chubby, 5months - 8.5kg, i dont want him to gain alot of weight now.
- 2020-03-30Hi mummies,
Just wanna ask if u all give ur LO a vitamins for appetite? My son is 15 months old but he don't like to eat his food. May i know what vitamins is good?
Thank you
- 2020-03-30Anyone have tramadol able to bless me? Its not for me but for my husband as he’s having a severe back pain due to his previous slip disc. We currently not afford for to go to the hospital due to our financial..
panadol and anarex and such doesnt help for his pain.. ?
- 2020-03-30What age do you send your baby for circumcision? Does your child gets very cranky after that? My girl is turning 3 months.
- 2020-03-30When did the stretch marks start showing?
- 2020-03-30Can you share when you LO STTN (Sleep through the night)? Is LO sleep-trained? If yes, what method did you use? If no, how does LO goes to sleep?
- 2020-03-30Sharing tips ?
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My baby has eczema issue and my pd recommended ceradan barrier cream. It's so good! Even when I brought my baby to Japan her skin didn't act up too. Previously pd gave me physiogel but my baby it didn't help. And I found this alobaby lotion super good. Now her eczema has recover I apply alobaby for her when she has some rash it will go away in 1 to 2 apply.
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What I did after showering I will apply alobaby for her even face. Follow by ceradan recommended by my pd as ceradan is just a barrier cream.
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Hope it can help some mummy solve their baby sensitive issue ?
- 2020-03-30Looking for more questions to answer? Fret not, we have more questions from our parents ?
https://community.theasianparent.com/q/mommies-i-ftm-have-placed-baby-in-infant-care-when-about-4-5-months/1866996?d=mobile&ct=q&share=true
https://community.theasianparent.com/q/mummies-who-didnt-take-gynae-package-share-how-much-spent-prenatal-con/1868101?d=mobile&ct=q&share=true
https://community.theasianparent.com/q/how-mt-elizabeth-novena-hospital-maternity-facilities-im-consulting-dr-dhar/1868448?d=mobile&ct=q&share=true
https://community.theasianparent.com/q/did-anyone-tried-blackmores-cwg-how-many-boxes-delivered-results/1868702?d=mobile&ct=q&share=true
https://community.theasianparent.com/q/mummies-i-received-sms-about-next-few-appointments-wondering-if-important/1869067?d=mobile&ct=q&share=true
https://community.theasianparent.com/q/am_having_a_light_brown_discharge_it_s_like_am_done_with_my_menstruation_is_my_b/1869068?d=mobile&ct=q&share=true
https://community.theasianparent.com/q/mummies-out-there-whose-baby-very-clingy-only-wants-mother-pat-him-sleep/1869095?d=mobile&ct=q&share=true
- 2020-03-30Hi. I'm at 34 weeks pregnant. Recently just had a Brazilian waxing and now I'm feeling the itch down there maybe due to the hair that gona grow. The itch happen at the inter/outer line there. What best solution to reduce the itch or stop the itch?
- 2020-03-30Which boy group songs did you listened to a lot growing up?
- 2020-03-30Share with us your ideas to other parents, as sharing is always caring ?
- 2020-03-30So what is the very first thing you notice in a person?
- 2020-03-30My husband wants a divorce if I refuse to abort the baby. It was an unplanned pregnancy..this is the second child I will be having.what shall I do? I intend to give up for adoption..even I divorce him, I don't think I can handle 2 kids if I am going to work and take care of them at the same time..the whole household is all on me..now..what shall I do? I do not even have any support network at all..not even my own parents .
- 2020-03-302nd pregnancy after 5 years.. 5 weeks preg now and having bad hair loss. Anything to worry ??
- 2020-03-30Any good hand creams to recommend? As my hands have been really dry from washing and sanitising ☹️
I prefer moisturising ones which doesn’t leave a heavy greasy feeling
- 2020-03-30can i drink bubble tea when BF,will it make my baby alert ?
- 2020-03-30Does anyone knows what these are? He has it on both left and right side of his head. He has it on his face and body too but not as much as the one on photo, only few spots here and there. My baby is 24 days old.
- 2020-03-30Went down to kkh just now, 3cm at 40 weeks now . They suggested mr to go back home. Dr told me to wait till Thursday to induce. Coz I have a bit cough. They isolated me. If really want to give birth today my hubby cannot accompany me inside the room. Now on labour at home. Pain is no joke. I'm scared to be alone at ward. Why they can't consider. Not say my cough is very bad. Took medication from GP already as well. ??
- 2020-03-30Do your gynae inform you on the weight of baby during the ultrasound scan?
I think my gynae only informed me on the size of baby
- 2020-03-30May i know if what is the range for normal CRL measurement at week 16 ultrasound scan?
My CRL is 88mm.
- 2020-03-30Hi, can anyone share latest delivery bill for natural birth at Mt E Novena? Also, is there a goodie bag during discharge?
- 2020-03-30Does anyone know what these are? My baby has it on both sides of his head. He has some on his face and body too but not as bad as the photo. He is 24 days old.
- 2020-03-30Our baby is 2 months+ old. Her back is always warm and hot, is it normal for Baby? We check her temperature daily its well below 37°C, often in the range of 36.5°C plus minus.
Is there any way on how to keep Baby's back cooling / less heaty?
- 2020-03-30Anyone of you wash the breast pump parts after one use when you are in office?
Usually at home I will wash and sterilize the breast pump parts after each use because the steamer is readily at home. But can’t do the same in office without the steamer.
Please advise
- 2020-03-30Reddish rough patch. How to treat this?
- 2020-03-30May I ask how do you take care of newborn's umbilical cord during bath time.
Can umbilical cord touch water during bath time?
How to clean it?
Also, after the umbilical cord drops, how do you take care of the wound?
- 2020-03-30I understand that if you're direct latching baby for breastfeeding, it's on baby's cue when to stop feeding but in cases of formula milk or expressed breast milk feeding, is this guide accurate? Thanks in advance!
- 2020-03-30Anyone encountered wrist pain before giving birth at week 32 onwards? TCM acupuncture will take how long to recover?
- 2020-03-30As I want to say my husband decided to rent a room to his mother best friend whom is a malaysian and is a female plus therefore he became of her, he shake me up in the middle of the night and keep pestering me rent the room out he say as Malaysian lockdown we must help her and I tell him shutup just tomorrow talk after my job but he doesn't want he say he have to talk now mean now plus also he fetch her go out to anywhere without inform me as I'm his legal wife how can he do that because of his mother. Sigh I felt it is too much of him.
- 2020-03-30Any mummy experience this during pregnancy or going through this now?
Im in my 36 weeks, doc told me about this left kidney dilated, and probably need to induce in 38 weeks, theres when the baby is full term so that they can detect early problem about it.
Im quite worried and scared. And ive been crying thinking of it. Google made it worse. I just hope it does not defect the baby or had down syndrome or any other complication.
Im sorry if im not being sensitive about down syndrome as Im totally not ready to accept it.
Worse still, i got pregnant right after I finish my chemo. I dont want my husband to blame me if anything were to happen to the baby. Cause Im the one who wants to keep it, whilst he wants to abort it. ?
Im terrible person. It is all my fault to keep this pregnancy to begin with. I wish i could turn back time and abort it.
- 2020-03-30Any post natal massage I should avoid?
- 2020-03-30How many times do you have bed exercise with ur partner, who initiate and how to start?
- 2020-03-30early 4 weeks: bloated and easily full even i ate abit.. 8-10weeks: tired than usual, hate the smell of fish or taste of it, dry skin and flaky at times. 16 weeks : itchy belly, itchy underarm and became darken and it hsppen inner thigh too .....previous pregnancy no such experience for skin darkening or dryness.. mummies any tips beside rub lotion ?
- 2020-03-30Miss period 1st wk test negative... late 2nd wk tested 4x positive...last menses 4 Feb...can count follow last menses or later? How many wks
- 2020-03-30Glass jar fall onto my baby bump, where the baby's head is at, from a top cabinet. Will it affect the baby even though baby is inside womb cause its quite a big impact? Currently week 33. I'm feeling so guilty right now... :(
- 2020-03-30Anyone face the same problem as me? 28 weeks (3rd trimester).
- 2020-03-31may I ask how many times throughout our pregnancy do we need to take the glucose test?
- 2020-03-31is it safe to eat bananas during ovulation and after that? pls advise
- 2020-03-31I am 13 weeks 4 days pregnant. I have having dull pain on my abdominal and it's making me so uncomfortable every night when I sleep. Is it normal?
- 2020-03-31Which streaming service do you use the most?
- 2020-03-31Would you rather have more money or more time?
- 2020-03-31If you wake up tomorrow as the opposite sex, what would be the first three (3) thing you would do?
- 2020-03-31Hi.. How many months usage after do you change your baby milk bottle and bottle nipple ?
- 2020-03-31Have you heard of World Autism Day?
- 2020-03-31What's for breakfast: Waffles or Pancakes?
- 2020-03-31Anybody experienced this? And how did the Labour go? I'm afraid of needing to csect..
- 2020-03-31Which trimester are you currently in?
- 2020-03-31Can anyone recommend me the best pregnancy milk? And when can i start to drink?
- 2020-03-31When do you find your spouse the sexiest?
- 2020-03-31No Rinse Cleansing Water
- Anyone using this instead of wet wipes after each diaper change?
- Is it OK to use it so often after each diaper change?
Vitamin Barrier Cream
- How often do you use this daily?
- Is it OK to use it so often after each diaper change?
- 2020-03-31Would you rather live in hot climate or cold?
- 2020-03-31My gynae advised herbs are not safe for preggies. Does anyone know if this is safe?
The ingredients are ginseng, chao jiao, spices, flavor, danggui.
- 2020-03-31What's your go-to karaoke song? ?
- 2020-03-31Who usually wins an argument?
- 2020-03-31How do i increase my baby's milk intake?
Baby is 2.5 months old and drinks 60ml every 2 hrs, from 4-7 she will ask every hour. I tried giving her 90ml but she will just stop at 60ml.
How can i slowly get her to drink more so that the rest gap will be longer?
- 2020-03-31What is your favourite skincare brand?
- 2020-03-31Which affordable diapers do u recommend for sensitive skin babies?
- 2020-03-31Mommies do you still swaddle ur baby at 3months old?
- 2020-03-31Hi mummies! I am a FTM and I wanted to know if it is okay for newborns to be in contact with knitwear? I wish to knit my baby a blanket. however, I am not sure if that's a good decision because both my husband and myself has ezcema. ps: baby is coming out in 3 months
- 2020-03-31Anyone has done more survey on cord blood banking in Sg? What is the pros and cons between SCBB private banking vs private companies like Cordlife?
- 2020-03-31I’ve depression before i got pregnant and was still battling it during pregnancy. Having a baby in my tummy made me controlled my thinking and emotions so it got better but occasionally still have attacks.
What I’m scared of is after giving birth. Will my chance of getting post natal depression high?
- 2020-03-31Hi mommies, can someone share with me, is this normal? My LO cheeks have red patches/ rashes and acne. Isit because of milk? He is on FM. How to treat or get rid of this rashes.
- 2020-03-31i need an advice . as my daughter will circumcision on friday
- 2020-03-31I’m 23weeks pregnant, work as an office admin so I sit a lot. Have been feeling really uncomfortable and hard to breath recently after lunch. Was wondering if it’s due to eating too much or sitting too long? I didn’t eat very full though. Any way to help reduce discomfort? Thank you
- 2020-03-31Hi does anyone have any experience with Dr Ben Choey?
Am considering him for my gynae.
Thank you.
- 2020-03-31Hi mummies! I have completed my pregnancy journey and had my last gynae appt weeks back. However, gynae had mentioned to come back for review 1 yr later for my c sect stitches etc thus the 1 yr later appt has been arranged. Did you encounter this and if the appt is necessary?
- 2020-03-31Which E-commerce site do you use the most?
- 2020-03-31Hi mummies, where do u buy your wet wipes from & what brand do u use?
- 2020-03-31Hi where to get huggie junior size pamper? NB size it's too big for my baby. Thanks.
- 2020-03-31hi mummiess! i just applied for a job and they require me to carry loads up to 20kg, im currently 9wks pregnant. is it okay or harmful for my baby?
- 2020-03-31https://healyeatsreal.com/farmed-salmon-dangers/
Please try not to give your kids farmed salmon
- 2020-03-31Can you place share how you did it (if you have done it) by yourself? I cant seem to position myself and how many weeks have you started. I am also thinking of using vibrator (without turning it on) for the massage. I dont think my husband has energy for sex everyday just for the perineum massage hahaha.
- 2020-03-31Dear all, can anyone recommend to me a good gynae for c section that can deliver at Mount A? I tired looking around and so far found Dr HK Ho.. his reviews are not good.. so was wondering if anyone had anyone else to recommend?
- 2020-03-31Any mummies using perineal massage oil ? Where to buy and what brand is good ?
- 2020-03-31I'm currently week 17 and I quarrel with my husband a lot. I have been showing a crazy side ( which I never knew I had) to him and shout at him whenever we quarrel until no voice. Before pregnancy, I'm a quiet person and seldom flares up . Now I'm like a crazy woman screaming till the whole block can hear. I'm so bothered by my emotions now and I'm afraid it will affect my baby in my tummy. But every small little things spites me and he doesn't seem to understand but instead quarrel with me even more. Please help I cannot control my anger and emotions :( end up shouting lose my voice and crying. *I cry when I get angry*
- 2020-03-31Was it earlier or later than expected?
- 2020-03-31Still having some nausea sometimes. Is this normal?
- 2020-03-31When is ur 1st visit to the gynae? 5 weeks 6 weeks?
- 2020-03-31Hi, did any mummies experience blood clot in their uterus during the first trimester? How did it go from there?
- 2020-03-31I'm excited to get my baby to start on solid food in another 1. 5 to 2 months later. Would love to know what's the first solid food all mummies given to your beloved LO. ?
- 2020-03-31Anyone used Goon or Moony diapers before? Can u share how is it?
- 2020-03-31Is it possible to let my baby use more den 1 bottle brand at the same time? My baby has recently accepted a new bottle brand but I have previously purchased a few other brands when he is still not used to the new bottle yet.
- 2020-03-31Is your child bigger or smaller than average when he/she was born?
- 2020-03-31Do you know what does the omega-3 fat, advertised in some formula milk, do?
- 2020-03-31What do you do for leisure after having a baby?
- 2020-03-31Which ingredient do you actively avoid in baby baths and lotions?
- 2020-03-31Did you have post-pregnancy skin problems?
- 2020-03-31Are enrichment classes necessary for a child's performance in school?
- 2020-03-31Which of the following app features would you be willing to pay a $5 monthly subscription fee for?
- 2020-03-31Which of the following app features would you be willing to pay a $5 monthly subscription fee for?
- 2020-03-31Hi mummies, does your newborn (2 months) sleep through the night? If not how many times normally do she/he wake up for milk?
- 2020-03-31When can I start fish essence after my c sect?
- 2020-03-31anyone have contacts for nanny/babysitter for baby 1month+,around woodlands area? i am a single mum and need to find a job to survive for both of us. hence need someone to take care of her during the day :( if possible, not so expensive monthly ?
- 2020-03-31Hi all, anyone had the risk calculation shown in the first trimester screening? What’s your risk calculation for PE before 34 weeks, before 37 weeks and IUGR before 37 weeks? Any idea what is the risk cutoff?
- 2020-03-31Anyone got an nosebleed at like once or twice a month? At 24 weeks now. And has been experiencing it once twice a month.
- 2020-03-31Which week do u start taking bird's nest when pregnant? How many times do u take in a week?
- 2020-03-31with current situation, anyone knows how is it like after birth? do we still need to stay couple of nights before able to go home?? TYIA
- 2020-03-31Hello all! Question: Can a membrane sweep really kick start labour? How fast is it?
- 2020-03-31Pregnant with a girl like to eat sweet stuff and spicy stuff
Pregnant with a boy like to eat sour stuff?
- 2020-03-31Anyone know what these mosquito like spots are? LO is just a few days old.
- 2020-03-31Can preggy woman still enjoy activities with her husb like prawning , fishing and stuffs ??
- 2020-03-31Hi mummies, do you put ur babies to sleep sideway during night time? My baby is 7 weeks old.
- 2020-03-31hi mummies issit safe to take panadol during pregnancy?? as im having bad headache since morning got no idea how to cure it other than taking panadol.
- 2020-03-31can I eat cup noodles? breastfeeding
- 2020-03-31I've been using nipple shield since my baby was week 2. He's turning 1 month in a few days. My mistake was not weaning him off it earlier as I tried but unable to. May I know if any mothers out there successfully weaned your baby off aft a long use? Thanks.
- 2020-03-31When did you have sex after giving birth to your baby?
How if baby is sleeping with you? Or baby cot is in your room?
Thanks!
- 2020-03-31Hi all... Can I check anyone here is also using Natural Organics Plain wet wipes? I can't seem to find it anywhere in SG now. All OOS. Any advice where to buy or which to switch to? Thanks
- 2020-03-31Has anyone done Amniocentesis test in Singapore?
I would like to know how higher is the risk of miscarriage with this test. How much it cost in Singapore.
Appreciate if anyone can share the experience.
- 2020-03-31Dear parents, what will be the first food to be offered to your infant when he/she may start on solid? Cereal rice oatmeal real food puree? Brands recommendation? TIA??
- 2020-03-31Hi Mummies, my LO is 11 months but still not sleeping through. She only nap once in daytime (3hrs nap). Her last feed will be 12am and she will finish 200-250ml of milk. But she will still wake up 3.30am and ask for milk? And after finishing her milk she will refused to sleep back.
By the time she sleep back, 5.30am, I will have to wake up for work soon.
Can mummies share with on some tips? And shld I feed my baby any supplements? If yes, any recommendations?
- 2020-03-31Hi mummies, ebm can leave out at room temperature optimal within 3 hours? Nowadays my baby sleep longer.. at 2.5 hours I decided to store the ebm in the fridge..den just before 3 hours i took it out (becuz baby seem to wake up) to warm up and I know warmed milk can last 2 hours at room temperature (baby fall asleep again)? So in a way I extend the ebm for another 2 hours is that correct? ?
- 2020-03-31Baby on bottle strike suddenly only want to latch. Currently 1 yo, I gave baby 2 meal a day. So she actually miss both her milk feed while I'm away working. And she only want to be nurse now. Baby yet to sttn and her percentile drop from 75 to now 45. What can I do to make her drink from bottle again? I can't be there for her to nurse all day as I need to work.
- 2020-03-31I donoe how to put it but I think my hubby is a bisexual? Recently he has been really really really close to one of our closest fren back then. We parted ways 11 years ago and now we started chatting. They used to be best friend until I came along. I find it weird now, that they both do videocalling almost every time of the day and night when they are free. (which guy as a fren would see guy faces and chatted almost 24/7 and what the hell are they talking abt almost every day). And the chat is like super long chat can last up to hours.
He at times stayover, and they almost like do things together (go out, send him off downstair, watch TV together late night). Hub even went to 'meet' him after his flight at 7am (when he doesn't even fetch me to work) and the reason: I got nothing to do also at home so just go meet and have breakfast with him.
Am I just being paranoid? Or is he really bi? I started to feel that hes really chatty with the fren and not the wife. We don't even talk for hours or video call each other and nvr had any long chat... Should I be jealous? I've known the fren. Maybe it just them having bro 'moment'? We three go out together like old times. He knows me and I knows him..
- 2020-03-31My period is last month on the 15 feb.. I have not yet get my period...
- 2020-04-01Why do i feel a little bit cramp on my lower abdomen? Is it normal? Or should i be worry?
- 2020-04-01Having stomach discomfort / mild pain in the middle of my stomach. Just 2 fingers above my belly button. Has anyone experienced this before? Been having it for about 2 days now. It’s not that pain, but it’s a constant discomfort. Anything to worry about? I’m in week 17 now. TYIA!
- 2020-04-01Any mummies had lump at one of the underarm after giving birth? Why is there a lump with pus? Mine gets healed and then comes back again
- 2020-04-01I will be going for root canal. Just want to know after the root canal is done, do i have to pump and dump the milk?
- 2020-04-01Can we use the Johnson baby oil for hair?
- 2020-04-01Recently have been noticing I feel very hot even in aircon rooms! I feel so warm that I start sweating, even in the office where I am usually cold enough to wear a jacket! Anyone else experiencing this?
- 2020-04-01Hi mummies, my LO has alot of phlegm and we've been feeding him Similac and I heard Similac causes alot of phlegm. My friend recommend Karihome goat's milk stage 1 as goat milk won't cause as much phlegm? However I read goat milk is not suitable for infant. Does it apply to fresh goat milk or formula goat milk too?
- 2020-04-01If yes, what do you do for minimising the pile? ? can i deliver a baby by natural birth? Thanks moms
- 2020-04-01hi, im looking for a post partum binder. any recommendation? some mums have recommended mamaway. where can i get it in sg?
- 2020-04-01Does anyone know a good paediatric clinic near woodlands area?
- 2020-04-01Hi. Anyone used Cimilre Motif Luna breast pumps? Care to share your review/experience? I am thinking to buy either Cimilre, Pumpables or Spectra. Thanks in advance!
- 2020-04-01Hi, which food can produce more BF milk for baby? I’m post delivery Day 10.
- 2020-04-01How high should the table at the high chair be? The table is at my baby's chest level. Is this normal???
- 2020-04-01Share with us in the comments below.
- 2020-04-01Name one food you refuse to eat/can live without.
- 2020-04-01Isit normal
- 2020-04-01Would you rather be a movie star or a famous musician?
- 2020-04-01supposedly due on November,but god has better plan for me.Just had miscarried week ago, I’m so sad because I really planned for this pregnancy but ended up with miscarriage. Actually, my first visit to my doctor when I was 5 weeks 3 days and dr said he unable to see the yolk and fetus pole,maybe something not right ,from there I was paranoid and always negative with my pregnancy,thinking to much for blighted ovum ,ectopic pregnancy and etc. I experienced panic Attack as well, Sunday morning when I woke up and want to pass urine noticed got blood and turn to heavier bleeding and passing the clot,remind calm and see DR next day only,took 3 days for dr before diagnosed me as miscarriage.Gone thru many procedure within 3 days,blood workout to monitor HCG level, Pap smear and vaginal n abdomen scan. Lesson learned ,Please mama out there if experienced bleeding pls consult your Dr ASAP and always positive with pregnancy,I just realise maybe I think to much and also important for some Dr ,they really need give us positive vibes and not threatening us with other complications ,for me 5 weeks Mybe too early to see anything,same what other Dr said. Hopefully will recover back soon and get pregnant again. Even for few weeks only but I’m very happy to experience some pregnancy symptom .
- 2020-04-01What's the weirdest thing you have ever Googled about?
- 2020-04-01Me and hubby are in our early 20s. Alrdy got 2 kids. 3 year old girl and 6 month old boy. We are contented that we're bless with a pair. If can, I want to stop at 2 and focus on raising my 2 kids and give them the best life that I've never had. I wanna return to the workforce. Hubby also agree tbat we are not ready for #3 yet. How do I go about to take the birth control? Payable thru medisave or no?
- 2020-04-01At week 31 now and I just found out that both my babies are still in breech position. Should i be worried?
- 2020-04-01What's the difference between this two?
Tried to Google for answers, some say Panorama test includes more genetic test than harmony but some say both are the same jus different branding.
My gynae says it's the same, only different branding. When asked what's the price difference he says both the same.
Curious what did your gynae tell you? Wonder if you all were told the same thing
- 2020-04-01Hi, according to my LMP, I'm at 7 weeks this week. However when I went for my ultrasound yesterday, it showed empty Gestational Sac. It broke my heart as I was expecting to see and hear heartbeat. Doc ruled out ectopic. My sac was 1cm in diameter and hcg is at 8000. Doc adv me to come back in 2 weeks again. Any advice and stories to share? I'm preparing for the worst.. :(
- 2020-04-01After giving birth to my first child. I had eating disorder for about 2 months... everyone’s been telling me, “you’re still skinny after having a baby” I don’t know if I shall feel proud about it because deep down I’m not happy with my body. I’ve always wanted to have thick body... before I was pregnant... my weight was 50kg sharp. during pregnancy i gained 10kg = 60kg I’m so happy at that point because my husband told me that I look more attractive with more meats on me. But it didn’t last long and now my weight is back to 50kg. I tried eating but still no sign of gaining... HOW? is there any tips on gaining weight? Please help me.
- 2020-04-01hi mommies, im in my 26th week of pregnancy and i havent been feeling very happy lately. my partner and i we are doing fine, hes been very great actually. supportive, loving, caring and understanding but i cannot stand that im always by myself at home while hes working. ive been feeling so alone, anxious, hopeless and very very sad. i cant turn to my family because i left them for being abusive. i cant turn to friends because i dont have that many friends that i trust. what can i do to make myself feel better? it has gotten so bad that there was once i even thought to myself, "i dont want this baby" and i feel so bad for thinking that. is there anything i can do? im so worried and helpless...
- 2020-04-01What is your spouse’s most-repeated sentence or phrase?
- 2020-04-01Share with us in the comment below.
- 2020-04-01Share your tips and know-hows in the comments.
- 2020-04-01how isit counted? 4 weeks from birth or same date next month?
example,
1) baby born on 8 March, 4 weeks from 8 March is 5 April (28days) = full month/1month old
or
2) baby born on 8 March, 8 April is 4weeks + 3days (31days) = full month/1month
- 2020-04-01Hi mummies, how to know if your little one is cold?
- 2020-04-01Its day 1 of this new measure. Share with us your experience on this.
- 2020-04-01My Lo doesn’t like to eat cereal. What can I add into the cereal to make her eat the cereal?
- 2020-04-01Tell us the truth if you have ever did it before ??
- 2020-04-01Does anyone know where to get the bean sprout pillow for baby?
- 2020-04-01Hi mommies, just want to enquire, what are the alternatives for iron supplement. I am currently 26wks+ and taking Obimin as a daily prenatal vitamin along with fish oil. My blood test result showed that my Hb is low (9.5) and Dr has prescribed iron supplement. I am not in favor of consuming alot of medications. Besides beetroot, spinach and redmeat, are there any other food that I can consume to boost my iron level? TIA :)
- 2020-04-01My LO is 5 months. Can i give him avocado mixed with BM?
- 2020-04-01Where to buy Table and chair set for toddler ? Something like they have in pre Schools
- 2020-04-01Have you ever pulled a prank on April Fools Day?
- 2020-04-01Can recommend me good post natal massage with ganggang and hot pebbles?? Most post natal massage dont come with ganggang nowadays. thanks!
- 2020-04-01Hi everyone. My baby is currently 4.5 months and we went for a vaccine jab last week. The PD said her weight and height does gained but not according to the rate that shes supposed to. She's 6.4kg now. Is it something i should be worried of? Have you encountered this?
- 2020-04-01Hi! Anyone using K-Mom detergent and softener for baby's clothes/towels? Can share your reviews?
- 2020-04-01Im currently 16 weeks 6 days and im so exhausted. All i want to do is lie down, sleep. My appetite has been off as well, i only drink more water than i eat. Im worried actually but is this normal?
- 2020-04-01Pregnant with
round tummy = baby girl
Sharp tummy = baby boy
How true?
- 2020-04-01Hi ladies. Im 7 weeks pregnant (ivf) and this is my first pregnancy. Just wandering is it ok if i ride/or as pillain motorbike during this first trimester? Thank u.
- 2020-04-01Does anybody know if NUH does delayed cord clamping?
- 2020-04-01Today is 8th day of my period.My period bleed is over.But bleeding after orgasm.may i know what is the reason for this?if anybody knows about this pls tell me.
- 2020-04-01My baby is almost 7 months. So far she’s mostly on formula milk. And started on rice cereal and also pumpkin purée. Recently her poop looks like it has “seaweed” in it. Is this normal? Or should visit PD?
- 2020-04-01Just sharing the screening done for pregnant mummies, and the diagnostic criteria:)
- 2020-04-01As of at 6pm, had a sudden sharp pain lasting for less than 5 seconds at the pubic region. Had it again (thrice in total for a few secs each time) for a couple of secs throughout the 2.5 hours.
Can still feel babies moving as of now.
Should I be concerned?
- 2020-04-01Have been vomiting ,can't keep my food or water down @all. Tired but sleepless night, if not keep on having dreams/nightmare. Doctor medicine taken but of no use. Unless injection but only last me a day and back to square one.
Anyone have the same problem as me? I'm into 9 weeks of my pregnancy.
- 2020-04-01I have a dragonfruit which is enough to make 2 cups of smoothies. As I dunno how to store dragonfruit after I have peeled, I make it into 2 cups of smoothie with milk. Can I keep the remaining cup of smoothie in the fridge and store overnight to drink next day?
- 2020-04-01Who ever go through jab for ectopic pregnancy? How do u feel after having the jab?
- 2020-04-01Hi mummies, my LO is given formula and breastmilk. He used to poop everyday, only recently started to poop after 2 days. Now, he has not poop for 3 days consecutively. Is this normal?
- 2020-04-01:) see who gets it right!
- 2020-04-01If i stopped pumping breastmilk for 2 months, can i start back? How to make my milk come back as previously my milk flow was too less for baby.
I cant really provide breastmilk that much at most 20ml. But i really want to start pumping back cos i feel that breastmilk makes my baby immune system stronger.
- 2020-04-01Been 2 days I have this severe morning sickness and I cant even take food and liquid down. I'm on the week 7 of pregnancy. I would like to ask, isit normal or should i check with the doct?
- 2020-04-01My baby has rashes on his face for days and sometimes he will rub his face (not sure if it caused by itchiness). May I know what kind of rash is it and is there any treatment for it?
- 2020-04-01Do u all drink milk meant for pregnancy? Which weeks to start consuming and any good brands to recommend? :)
- 2020-04-01Does anyone take probiotics during pregnancy and what brand is recommendable ?
- 2020-04-01i have given birth 4mth ago, my husband want to have sex so i agree but when his D**k enter my vagina i feel pain... tears cming out, is this normal? so we stopped the sex, my hubby angry that i reject unable to continue and then didnt want to slp with me, im very sad
- 2020-04-01Hi mummies! I just started introducing solid to my 5 month old. I fed him Gerbers organic oatmeal cereal.. but he hasn't pooped for 2 days now.. before solids he don't always poop everyday, but i understand that when babies have started solid they have to poop everyday, no?
- 2020-04-01Are there physical stores to browse designs?
- 2020-04-01Currently in week 36, and the joints of my fingers are feeling stiff :/
Anyone feeling the same way as i do?
- 2020-04-01Any mummies can recommend stroller for nb?
Im looking for one that is good and useful at the same time easy to fold as i don't have my own vehicle thus taking taxi most of the time.
What stroller are u using now?
- 2020-04-01I’m at 22 weeks and I Super tired. I just want to sleep. I’m can’t wake up on time to go to work. Anyone else experiencing this too?:(
- 2020-04-01Just to know if mommies(to-be) out there experience the same? #1 and bump is not showing yet at this time. Prefer not to announce until bump is obvious. But this poses frustrations sometimes like feeling that no one takes care/concern/understanding towards me (unlike how we would treat others who are pregnant) eg. Family making comments about fussy eating when needed to avoid certain 'unsafe' food, colleagues/friends making nasty/unnecessary comments which you won't say to an expecting woman. Felt upset at times. What's your experience?
- 2020-04-02Anyone can share where to look for the syllabus?
- 2020-04-02I take psyllium husk supplement once or twice a week to help clear my bowels as I am not the type who can do it everyday naturally.
Anyone with the same experience?
I just got pregnant and was wondering if 8 can continue with the psyllium husk supplement...
- 2020-04-02Can pregnant women take the normal panadol when she has a fever?
- 2020-04-02any idea what to ask or look out for when engaging CL??
- 2020-04-02Had miscarriage a month ago, had preggy symptoms again about few days ago.. But haven't gotten my period yet.. Due to the symptoms I took a test in the morning and it showed preggy 1 - 2week but then started bleeding in the afternoon.. Is this my period?? ??
- 2020-04-02Hi, I'm currently 8 weeks pregnant. Is it safe to have a foot massage? My left leg always very painful at night but strange, only left leg. Haha.
- 2020-04-02Hi mummies my 2months plus boy only drink 90ml - 70ml every 3hrly. His weight now is 5.6kg. He used to drink about 120ml but now keep on decreasing. How long will it last? His nap time also very short in the day time. Is this normal? How do i know that his having enough for his age and weight?
- 2020-04-02any mummies go for prenatal massage? where and how much? :)
- 2020-04-02Any recommendation of high risk doctor in KKH please.
- 2020-04-02Finish the sentence: I never leave the house without my ....
- 2020-04-02Would you rather skydive or bungee jump?
- 2020-04-02Share with us your experience in the comments below.
- 2020-04-02If you get stranded in an island with your kids & can only have three things, what would they be and why?
- 2020-04-02Hi guys, is it normal to bleed a little while you are in the 5th week of your pregnancy?
- 2020-04-02I want to get a good breast pump but im scared i might end up not being able to breastfeed. When’s a good time to buy one? Or should i just invest in a good and normal model?
- 2020-04-02Is it more advisable to get a good brand car seat that is second hand or a less known brand car seat? Our budget is $250-$300
- 2020-04-02Due to the outbreak, any suggestion on nice places for us to go on a date? it's been awhile having `us` time as we are always with LO and with my pregnancy.
- 2020-04-02Anyone knows?
- 2020-04-02Hi, my pd gave my LO iron supplement and Vitamin D, her poo started to become more watery, is that normal?
- 2020-04-02What foods should we avoid while breastfeeding?
- 2020-04-02Can I know how often do they do ultrasound scans at public hospital?
- 2020-04-02Any pregnant mummies when for checkup this few weeks? Do they allow the husband to come in to the scanning room?
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- 2020-04-02Hi, any mommy has extra of this pill? Its for GDM.
- 2020-04-02How should I start my baby on solids. How often and how much should I feed for a start?
- 2020-04-02My father-in-law insisted that I let my newborn drink gripe water because she on formula and breast milk. So he explains that it is easier for her to get constipation if she doesn't drink it. However I feel uneasy about it as almost everywhere mention that she doesn't drink anything other than formula and breast milk. What should I do?
- 2020-04-02Hi, any mommies out there have done FTS before ? How’s the results like? And any false positive?
- 2020-04-02What to do if my 13month Lo like to beat people? What can I do? Sometime when we beat him for doing the wrong thing, he will beat himself. If he beat pl, we will tel him no but he still do that
- 2020-04-02How is home-based learning for you? Is it helping or hindering your daily lives?
- 2020-04-02which one better?
- 2020-04-02any booster seat to recommend?
- 2020-04-02One of the healthy menu!
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While preparing soup for the family. Usually I will take the soup when it's ready and use it to boil baby's Porridge.
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Tasty and nice!
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- 2020-04-02Hi ladies, m currently into my 11 wks.
After confirming my pregnancy at a clinic, I decided to go thru with public hosp (got a referral to NUH) however my nx appt, would only be in early June. NUH advised me to go to private clinics for earlier checkups if I want.
Is it OK to wait? My 1st checkup the doc gave me folic acid and aspirin. My BMi is obese n m in my mid 30s - 1st pregnancy. Any advice?
- 2020-04-02Hi mummies.... everytime night time is near.. I feel very down.. it’s like I am very scared and sad.. coz I have to take care of my newborn... just wondering if this is post partum depression? How do you all manage to cope with this kind of feeling? Dont you feel tired?
- 2020-04-02Hello mummies. My LO is 5months old. It's so hard for me to put him to sleep during nap time in the afternoon.. When i've succeeded, he'll only nap for 10mins or less and then wakes up. After 30mins he will cry wanting to sleep again. I'll cradle him but he won't fall alseep. When i put him down he'll cry again. Usually it'll take me abt 30-60 mins before he eventually fall asleep again. And then wake up after less than 30mins ?And wants to sleep again afterwards
- 2020-04-02Help my baby (15 weeks old) is so hard to put to sleep. Keeps waking up ard 10min after i put her down in cot even after carrying her for 30min or so. So drained.....
- 2020-04-02Hi, is there any baby safe mosquito killer to recommend?
- 2020-04-02Just to ask mummies, do you guys put your LO on walker at 6mths + ? Some web say able to but some don't recommend.
- 2020-04-02Hi, i bought a spectra s1 via q010 and think it looks faulty. Does your spectra look like this picture?
The rechargeable battery is faulty. I am not sure if it should show cycle as C1, C2 etc. I read that it should show 54, 70 etc
- 2020-04-02Anyone use bugaboo stroller? How is it? Lightweight? Comfy?
- 2020-04-02Hello mummies,
I need help!
My baby is 32 days old. I used cetaphil for the past 1-2 wk after birth for bathing her. Then the skin got red. I thought baby Acne was normal. But it got worst. Baby has drooling patches in the mouth area/cheek/below lips and upper lips. I used mustela dry cream today and testing it. . How about the body? Can anyone advise.
- 2020-04-02Hi mommies ?
Can recommend any milk bottle.
No idea what brand should i buy for baby.
- 2020-04-02Check out our article: https://sg.theasianparent.com/when-is-the-best-time-to-buy-a-car-for-your-family
- 2020-04-02Anyone has this headache and head heavy? Not say giddy spinning type. But just feel heavy feeling eye heavy. Just feel no good.
At this 12weeks plus coming soon to 13 I still feel super aversion of smell and sour/weird taste buds.
Terrible feeling.
- 2020-04-02Anyone feel centre below pain on and off? Not sure why today has this feeling. Today more intense.Already week 13. By right pass the 1st trimester. Why still like that?
- 2020-04-02baby is 3w3d old now & jaundice level is still a little high, last week was 190 this week is 180. any way to help bring down the level faster? fully on ebm
- 2020-04-02May I know what supplements does the Gynae prescribe for trimester 2 usually ? Is drinking pregnancy milk necessary ?
- 2020-04-02Can anyone share your experience on Yao Lan?
My baby is superrrrr clingy. Wants me to carry her all the time to sleep. If i place her in rocker, she will sleep at most 15 mins, unless im there to constantly rock her. She is also a very light sleeper. I can't do any house chores and everyday im basically spending my whole time putting her to sleep. Will Yao Lan help?
Also will ur baby cry for Yao Lan if u're out? If yes, how do u deal w it?
- 2020-04-02Any good or suitable pimple gel for pregnant woman? I used to have occasional pimple and oily face before pregnancy though , had been using adapalene gel but now have to stop because is not for used during pregnancy, wonder any of you have similar problems or any recommendations?
- 2020-04-02my bb 4mth is not staying in aircon place but got cold feet sometimes sweaty ... is it normal?
- 2020-04-02I crave for it. Stand at fruit stall and want to eat. In the end buy half from fruit stall. Don't dare buy those from fruit stall as not many patronise. Easily get germs.
But is it pregnant no matter which trimester should not eat watermelon or cooling stuff like Bittergord?
Of course I ask gynea she say everything can except raw.
- 2020-04-02When did you mommies experienced hair fall? Im already three months post partum and every time i shower my hairfall is alot before pregnancy i dont have that amount of hair falling off.. Help any remedy? Thank u
- 2020-04-02Let us know in the comments below
- 2020-04-02Were they shocked or happy? ?
- 2020-04-02Can you UV steriliser a ziplock bag?
- 2020-04-02I do not have the master bedroom. Due to limited space in the bedroom, i am wondering if i can get a co-sleeper or travel cot/playpen instead for my newborn. Any advice?
- 2020-04-02Do you practice any Qing Ming Festival traditions?
- 2020-04-02Let’s start a thread with your ideas
- 2020-04-02I will be delivering soon at Thomson. Will the hosp rush you to discharge the next day? Do you have enough time to learn how to do proper bf from the nurses? Etc.... Mummies, can you pls share your experience with me?....
- 2020-04-02Anyone smack their almost two year old when misbehave
- 2020-04-02First day of my last menses is on 6 Mar. My opk stick shows positive after ovulation but pregnancy kit doesn't show yet. Maybe a v thin line after the kit drys.
I am checking daily morn and night. When is the most accurate time to check? Anxious. ?
- 2020-04-02Hi, with all this virus now is it okay if u go to check up if im having cough?
- 2020-04-02Anyone else annoyed with nosy colleagues who keep gossiping among themselves if you’re pregnant? In my case, they were so ‘concerned’ about my ‘frequent’ medical appointments, when I had just gone for 2 or 3! Irritating max grrr...
- 2020-04-02Hi mummies. My LO is 5MO.. I am currently staying with my in laws. However, i can't bring my son out to the living room to play because there are cats in the house. My son has eczema and the fur could trigger his eczema so i seldom bring him out to play in the living room. I am also allergic to the fur as i'll sneeze non stop.. Will only come out when my FIL has cleaned and vaccuumed the house. So i am always couped up in the room. Can someone suggest some activities i could do with my LO in the room? I have limited space too tho.. I have a play gym but i think my son is bored with it. I need to do some activites that will encourage him to use his physical abilities..
- 2020-04-02My baby will be 3 months next week. How much tummy time should baby be doing? Daily or alternate days? I have not let baby do tummy time that much. When I let her do tummy time, my MIL said I should not force baby to lie on tummy too much as baby will roll to her tummy naturally when time comes. Will less tummy time delay baby motor skills?
- 2020-04-02Does your baby sit quietly and let you feed him/her?? I find it very difficult to feed baby... as they need to be distracted with something and keep moving though they are already strapped down onto a baby chair. How do you manage? Pls share!! :D
- 2020-04-02How do u tell ur firstborn that you are having another baby?
- 2020-04-02Where can I apply for financial help? I lost my job last month, and have applied for temporary relief funds which is only a one time money (not guaranteed) but it still isnt enough to feed me and my toddler. My husband still serving ns $600+ a month. There isnt a job that accepted my application. Milk powder is running out and bank balance is near to empty. Please advice thanks
- 2020-04-02Goon Vs merries Diaper? Anyone tried both? What's your review?
- 2020-04-02Hi mummies do you use a baby food maker?
If so Philips Avent or Beaba baby cook which is better?
Thanks in advance ?
- 2020-04-02Hi mummies, any idea how much is the cost for 3D/4D scanning? Like NUH? Like what’s the price range?
- 2020-04-02I have hardly put on weight since I got pregnant... I keep feeling worried tho doc says baby growing well during appts.. I am at my 36 weeks today and I seem to have lost some weight tho I don't vomit anymore and eat my meals on time... And I have to control carbs and sugar due to GD... But like for baby to grow well, sldnt I be also putting on weight especially the last trimester? Is there anything to be concerned Abt?
- 2020-04-02Any chatgrp to recommend,? I'm a sahm and hubby works oversea with different time zones. Quite lonely and needed to chat with someone. Not looking for anything just for entertainment.
- 2020-04-02Help! My NB always start to make a fuss during his sleep from 5am every single day. Is there anything I can do to make him stop being so fussy?
- 2020-04-02How do i ease pregnancy cramps? Im on my 1st trimester and the cramps are awful!
- 2020-04-03What iron supplements is anyone consuming to correct deficiency after childbirth ?
- 2020-04-03Two married women, who are at their 40s, hid from their husband that they went five days four nights vacation with two young men, who are single and at their 20s. Anything fishy?
- 2020-04-03Found out a colleague's 2 years old baby has Cerebral palsy. Apparently he was unable to walk or do anything since born and cried whenever on the walker. Not eligible for Financial Assistance or subsidies due to the family's income but wife have to resign because Doctor claims an adult needs to be with the son 24/7. Baby was born 4/3 months premature. Anyone going through the same to advice cause colleague is getting very stressed and depressed, it is worrying.
- 2020-04-03Hi ladies. So apparently I have been having this boil/inside pimple near my inner thigh as seen in the image(yellow circle). Nothing is visible except that you can feel a lump there which is uncomfortable when I sit or sleep cause I got thick thighs and no thigh gap. Went to the doctor once and doctor said it was nothing but it keeps appearing once it was gone a few weeks/months later. I am pregnant now and I am worried this will affect my baby. I am only 13 weeks pregnant. Please help.
- 2020-04-03My girl is taken care off by my parents since young. Although i do send my girl to child care since 18 mthsz, my parent (who doesnt approves my sending her to child care) will pick her around noon since they doesnt like her to nap in school.
I dont approve ipad (i even not let my girl see me using phone), but my parent introduced it to her.
I limit sweets and chocolates, but my parent let her have whenever she wants
I tried talking to my parents abt it and even had conflicts because if this.
Anyone had the same issue? How do you manage it?
- 2020-04-03Why is it that my LO is able to his head up when lying tummy down on my chest but will not be able to and scream murder when I do tummy time for him on a pillow? Anyone encounter the same before ?
- 2020-04-03Hello all,
It's been over a month since I have delivered a baby, recently at night I had a double vision it happened twice different nights.
Is it normal after pregnancy or should I get my eyes checked?
- 2020-04-03Hi mummies! Did you ever experience waking up on your back while pregnant? What did you do afterwards? Any tips to prevent this?
- 2020-04-03Im 15weeks preg. Can i eat soft boiled half cook egg?
- 2020-04-03Hi! I have a small issue that I need some advice on. So I have wonderful in laws to begin with, they are nice people and don't carry any I'll intentions. However, sometimes they can be rather naggy and overzealous about our lives. They are always missing us and wanting to meet up for dinner with us. Firstly, my hub and I work, so that puts us out of energy 6 days out of the week. I also drive 20km to work and 20km back from work 6 days a week being pregnant. They also want us to go to their house to eat once a week, their house being 20mins away from ours too. We only have Sundays to rest. My in laws are semi-retired so they're always asking when is the next meet up, asking us what we want to eat and buying fruits to pass to us. In a way, I feel exhausted with them always pressuring us to meet and finding reasons to meet up when our schedules are so tight. Secondly, due to pregnancy hormones I get easily agitated. Sometimes they might make comments that doesn't sit well with me and nag about things during dinner when I just want to faster eat and go home. E.g. "So early go home for what", "when are you coming again". I appreciate that they pass us household items and fruits, but the thing is when I reject some of it, they insist. They also pressure me to finish the food that they prepare (too many dishes for 4 people) even though I repeat many times that I'm full, so every time I go home being overly-full and become very uncomfortable. So the once happy-go-lucky me has become short-tempered and I find myself avoiding them/wanting to avoid them. This is also because I'm afraid I'll lose my temper when I'm with them.
My baby is arriving in about 3 months and I'm already dreading their input. Somehow I feel like avoiding them already and after giving birth I heard that your emotions and hormones will be more overwhelming than during pregnancy. I don't want to lose my temper in front of them. My hub and I figured that I should set boundaries and let them know when they should come to our house to help out, if we need their help. As I will be home for at least 3 months and I will have a maid and a confinement nanny. My mother in law even asked me where she could sleep without us mentioning about that. We already have a maid and confinement nanny, we don't have any more space for them, so I turned that down. She always repeated that she don't trust the maid to take care of the baby which I agree, but that's what many couples have arranged and they did fine. Deep inside me, I know it's wrong to feel this way but I'm also afraid they will "snatch" my baby away from me. I want this precious 3 months after birth to be an inteimate time of just me, my hub and my baby. I want to set days that they can come to visit and times that they should let me rest and go home but I have no idea what kind and how much help I would need from them.
Any advice from mummies that experience similar scenarios and how to manage this issue? Thanks in advance!
- 2020-04-03Hi, I've been working from home for almost 2 months and 13 weeks pregnant. I am usually tired and would do my work on my bed with the laptop on my lap or abdominal area. Is the heat or radiation from the laptop would affect the baby? Tried google-ing it but getting mixed response. Appreciate if you ladies can advice or give your input on this.
- 2020-04-03This is my 1st pregnancy.. How do you guys shave in the 3rd trimester? Is it safe to do waxing?
- 2020-04-03How much are you willing to pay for milk bottles?
- 2020-04-03I will be home for the first 3 months after birth, then I'll have to go back to work. So I'm wondering how old should your baby be that u can leave your baby with the maid alone at home? I'm worried if something happens my maid cannot handle it alone of if she wasn't paying attention. My mother in law is retired and I can ask her to help me look after our baby.
Let me know what you guys did! Thanks in advance!
- 2020-04-03Hi, Is this cough syrup safe for pregnancy?
- 2020-04-03Let's share good and bad thing about in law.
What have you got to say about them?
- 2020-04-03My baby is 2 months old and he having difficulties to poo. Please advise what should I do. Help needed. TIA
- 2020-04-03After giving birth is so painful to walk around the house to get things done. So I have my husband and my father in law helping me take care of my newborn. However my husband sometimes is being distracted with his game(state of survival) he is the leader of an alliance and he is an addicted gamer. Sometime I feel like he doesn't give his 100% attention to my little one. For example I am able to feed my little one 2 Oz of milk for each feed but he is only managed to feed 1 Oz claiming that she is full. When I look at him feed her, he took a really long time before burping her because he is busy clicking on his phone. I did mention it to him not to play so much on his phone before giving birth because I have the same issues with him with my first Newborn. He doesn't seems to change. I just have to wait for myself to recover but it is so painful looking at my second newborn not receiving enough care.
My father in law do take care of my newborn as well. However I do not like it when he said that she needs to be fed according to time not because she is hungry than feed her... I don't really want my baby to starve. I really wish I can just recover and take care of my newborn on my own without their help. What should I do now?
- 2020-04-03My daughter is 11 month. Can I put sesame oil on her fish?
- 2020-04-03??????
- 2020-04-03Which would you rather do: Laundry or Dishes?
- 2020-04-03My LO is 10 weeks now and since he was at 6weeks I noticed that he is predominantly using his right hands, such as waving right arm higher than left and using right hands to “touch” things and sucking his right hand more often
Should I be concern of this issue at this stage? Because I read that babies shouldn’t have hand preference this early and if they do it could be a symptom of cerebral palsy. I am worried sick. Any parent notice the same for your LO and they are fine?
- 2020-04-03What is your proudest moment as a mother?
- 2020-04-03To all the mums in Singapore; who was your gynae & which hospital did you give birth at? Were you satisfied with the gynae & hospital that you chose? I’m looking for recommendations. Any answers will be highly appreciated. Thanks a lot.
- 2020-04-03Hi mums out there or pregnant women; what’s the best (preferably safe & natural) cream to use to avoid stretch marks during pregnancy? If you have any particular brand or product that you love, please mention it too if you don’t mind to share. Thanks.
- 2020-04-03What do you wish grew on trees?
- 2020-04-03I have never experienced any morning sickness or nausea on my 7 weeks pregnancy. Is that even normal? Some articles said that it could be a sign of a weak pregnancy or miscarriage. Thanks in advance.
- 2020-04-03Anyone here gave their lo milk baths? If so, when did u start? How do u do it?
- 2020-04-03I taking the powder milk glucerma brand. Is it okay.? Now 1st trimester just finish
- 2020-04-03Was it an easy or difficult one?
- 2020-04-03Office Attire or PJs? Let us know in the comments.
- 2020-04-03Let us know which dish you cook to impress your family ?
- 2020-04-03Which Friday Night Plan do you like best?
- 2020-04-03What do you do when you are pumping your milk but at home/not working? I usually scroll through my phone FB/YouTube etc but finding it boring. Looking for new activities to try!
- 2020-04-03Hi dear moms to be and mummies! Is it safe to consume bird nest during the 1st trimester? My in law said it's good for baby.
- 2020-04-03Are Bumwear cloth diapers any good?
Thanks in advance ?
- 2020-04-03Sorry picture is graphic. I just found a light pink discharge on my panty liner. Once in the morning and another time 5 minutes ago. Google and they say it is normal. Should I wait it out for 48 hours if it is gone completely or should i check with gynae immediately? I am 14 weeks pregnant.
- 2020-04-03Are there masks for babies? Where can I buy them? Need to bring my baby for her vaccination next week
- 2020-04-03Hi, do anyone know if the teats and bottles are interchangeable between different brands? Like Philip Avent teats with pigeon bottles?
- 2020-04-03Any mummy’s or to be mummy’s having light vaginal pain during their 22 weeks ?
(The pain is on and off. For about1-2 mins of light pain)
- 2020-04-03Anyone using this? Would love your review!
- 2020-04-03What’s your Guess?
- 2020-04-03Hello mummies!
Does your baby sweat at night even when air con is on? Not excessive sweating but for my baby, her pillow will be wet... is this common?
Thanks!
- 2020-04-03Apart from konny, tula and ergo, any other recommended carrier brands suitable for 6mo and above?
- 2020-04-03Hi mummies! I am trying to feed my baby bm as frequent as I can, however for night feedings, say I need to use the bm in the fridge as I am pumping at a later timing, however it takes time to warm up the bm as well which is impossible for a crying baby to wait, so in the end prepare formula (which is faster). How do u feed your baby bm during the night?
- 2020-04-03Which baby seat is better? Bumbo or ingenuity?
- 2020-04-03Anyone experience sleeplessness in early part of pregnancy? I am 4 weeks pregnant only and already experience morning sickness and sleeplessness at nite.
- 2020-04-03Any good video on yoga that improve blood flow to baby?
- 2020-04-03Hi mummies, my baby always flip to his tummy at night. Then after awhile, when he realised he is on his tummy.. he will cry. So we have to flip him back. It happens quite a few times at night and we are exhausted cause sometime he may not go back to sleep. Did you have the same experience? Any suggestion on how to improve the current situation?
- 2020-04-03With the cancellation of mid year exams, My worry is 100% is based on end year instead of 40% SA1 and 60% SA2. Parents what do you think? Too stressful for kids too!!!
- 2020-04-04I’ve been hearing a lot about creating a birth plan but how do you even know what you want in your birth plan if you’ve never gone through it before? I just want to deliver my baby safely and I do trust my gynae.
For those mummies who have delivered with a birth plan, how did you get started researching/thinking about your birth plan?
- 2020-04-04After baby enter IFC for 2 days, baby develop diarrhea. Visited polyclinic and doctor issue electrolyte drink cause baby is only 2mo. Her feeding is ok - no reduced, very active, watery eyes, no sunken head, no fever or vomit. But already D4 but still diarrhea after every meal. Anybody know when the diarrhea will go away??
- 2020-04-04Is it normal for baby to keep crying and only stop when being carried, a few days after getting vaccine?
- 2020-04-04Hi mums. Is it true that if my skin (esp face) is becoming more oily during pregnancy, the baby gender might be a girl? Thanks
- 2020-04-04Hi, any tingkat to recommend since need to wfh n school as well. Thanks.
- 2020-04-04Dear all, I just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. Everything was going well and just one day, realized there's spotting, went into A&E, baby heartbeat can't be detected though baby was growing well - doubled in size from last scan.
As we are hoping for rainbow baby now, we are wondering if there's anything else we could have done better for the next pregnancy. For the last, the Dr only gave folic acid, so I was only taking that and maternal milk powder. Just wondering if there's any multivitamins or even good TCM physician recommendation that I should go and consult?
Thank you for your kind sharing in advance!
- 2020-04-04I tried lotion but still the same
- 2020-04-04Hi mummies... Im abt 6 weeks pregnant.. I do not have any symptoms which makes me worry. My scanning is next Thursday.. so scared.. no cramps, no bleed .. I feel Soo normal. Anyone same boat as me and everything was fine ?
- 2020-04-04If you think double standards & male privilege do not exist, think again! Let’s hope parenting mindsets evolve faster than the rate it is now. For now, enjoy the video!
https://www.facebook.com/112060638857663/posts/3026448334085531/?vh=e&d=n
- 2020-04-04Hi mummies! Which infant pillow do you recommend to prevent flathead syndrome? Also, would you recommend getting those portable baby beds like thesleepykoala?
- 2020-04-04Hello!
I’m getting some books from nurturingkid.com for my girl.
They have flap books / chinese book / musical books.
Anyone wanna order too?
Any orders above $20 will include a free shipping to your place.
I’m just trying to collate the orders so I can ask the seller for bulk discount!
Let me know! ?
- 2020-04-0430% Pumpables GeniePlus
25% Pumpables SuperGenie
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- 2020-04-04What shampoo you use for lo?
- 2020-04-04Do you prefer to work from home or office
- 2020-04-04What are the two main challenges you face when you work from home?
- 2020-04-04Hi, anyone just gave birth at TMC? Are husbands allowed to accompany you overnight at A1 wards?
- 2020-04-04Hi, I just had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. Baby was growing well but heartbeat stopped.
Hoping for a rainbow baby, and appreciate any good TCM Dr recommendation while we are trying to conceive again, thank you!
- 2020-04-04Hi mommies, may I ask if anyone here experienced this. I’m 19wks pregnant and I’m having acid reflux and sharp pain in my left rib cage esp when deep breathing, sneezing, or lying left side. It started last 1st Apr when I ate maybe too much beef, and plantain banana with green veggies. Since then whenever I eat I’ll be having acid and gas. It’s been 4 days and since I’m not taking any meds, it’s far from getting better :( I went to GP and gave me Anarex and Famotidine which I also informed my OB and waiting for her reply.. My next prenatal checkup is on Thurs 9th April.
Thank you in advance..
- 2020-04-04Anyone here has Low placenta issue? What happens if it doesn’t move up?
- 2020-04-04Is it ok to keep friendship with your ex-lover after marriage? What’s your opinion?
- 2020-04-04Anyone still on maternity leave and workplace needs to close down? Wondering does our maternity leave still counted in?
- 2020-04-04Do any of you mummies to be still go for pregnant appointment? Be it in KK or anywhere else.
- 2020-04-04I really can’t stand my confinement nanny.
She always don’t listen to us and do things her way, keep saying that she has look after many babies before she know. And things that she say she keep changing her words. Few of the incidents such as:
1) baby had jaundice so FM feeding need to be every 2hrs instead of 3hrs. When we told her of feeding more frequently then reduce the intake she say Ok but always still feed the same amount.
2) she told us once jaundice drop can drag back to 3hrs, no problem. Now baby jaundice drop and doc already confirm can change the feeding time to 3hrs she now tell me very hard to change.
3) whenever baby cry she will say baby is hungry need drink FM but that’s not the case, when we carry her she stop crying. But nanny insist feeding her and proceed to prepare the milk.
4) she don’t like it when we are close to our baby, whenever we carry her she would ask to carry.
5) treat baby as alarm clock every night. We caught her a few times not waking up to feed baby, we have to go over to wake her up or baby cry will wake her up. If not she will never feed.
6) this morning baby cry so hard she just ignore, we realise baby pooping so we change the diaper when we are almost done then she come in the room and ask us go wash our hand, she will do (when we are already done, just need to carry baby back to cot).
7) whenever we tell her something, she will always show us black face.
A lot of other stuff but I can’t list down everything. Sorry for the rant but I just don’t like it when she always change her words, and never listen. If she choose not to listen at least tell us the reason, etc instead of agreeing to it but do another behind our back.
- 2020-04-04Hu mummies, where to get Huggies just born diapers?
- 2020-04-04My baby is 5 months old and his first tooth just erupted..can i know how do you guys normally clean your baby's teeth? Do I have to buy tooth paste and baby toothbrush?
- 2020-04-04Couple of them doing the service. But just wondering which is the one you've engaged?
- 2020-04-04can we use hemorrhoid cream. if breastfeeding?
- 2020-04-04Until how Old can Baby Take BioGaia for anti colic? Our baby is 2 months 22 days old.
- 2020-04-04Can a almost two year old drink milo?
- 2020-04-04Hi mummies, I was told by my gynae 3 weeks back that my urine has slight bacterial growth and there isn't a need to treat as I do not have any symptoms.
But this morning, I went to the GP for abdominal pain. GP did urine test for me and was told I am having urine infection which I assumed was the untreated infection. He prescribed me with amoxicillin antibiotic which he mentioned is the safest for pregnancy.
My questions;
1. Should I listen to my gynae? Or
2. Should I just continue taking the antibiotic given by the GP?
- 2020-04-04Does anyone has their maternity leave coincide w their workplace closure? Even the workplace closed, maternity leave will stil be counted am i right?
- 2020-04-04Does any mummy out there get very emotional during pregnancy?
- 2020-04-04Pwede ba oatmeal for pregnant women? Is oatmeal good for pregnant women? Ano po kaya mga benefits ng oatmeal sa pregnancy. I have been having them for breakfast or dinner almost daily especially on days that I have no appetite
- 2020-04-04Any reviews on Lucky Baby Snappi chair? Their price is quite reasonable as compared to popular ones like ingenuity & bumbo etc.
- 2020-04-04Isit normal when have leaking milk in breast during pregnancy week 33?
- 2020-04-04is it normal to be nauseas all the time? im 26 weeks pregnant and i feel sick all the time. its like my morning sickness is back but worst. is this normal? idw to go to doc for nothing
- 2020-04-04Hi all my Lo is 7+ mth old. She starting solids at 6 mth old. Recently she has been drinking very little milk(formula), abt half of her usual volume. She eats solids 2 times a day. Is it due to teething or other reasons?
- 2020-04-04Hi, will you continue to send your kids to nanny place during that period? My kid was with the nanny since 4 months old till now. We will bring my kid to the nanny place before heading to office in the morning and pick up after work around 6pm. Just wondering if it is good to continue to do so as me and husband still need work from home. I hope to keep my kid at home with me, but it will be tough for me to work at home. Please give me some suggestions. Thank you!
- 2020-04-04Hey mamas! Anyone had spotting nearing to their due date? Did call the hospital and the nurse advise to continue monitor and wear pad. So far no contraction but my back is killing me. ? any tips to ease the ache?
- 2020-04-04With the new measurements, will you still visit your in law or parents within the lock down period?
- 2020-04-04My baby kicks her legs at night. Even though her eyes are closed. She’s 7 months old. Will she stop kicking so hard?
- 2020-04-04What do you do with your old breast pump? I have been using for 7 months
- 2020-04-04Im a SAHM. My baby is 3 months old. My husband's job is affected and he have to take 1 month unpaid leave. I'm staying w my In Law but of cos we can't expect them to feed us. What should i do? ? I can eat anything or dont even eat but my baby needs formula as im unable to produce any milk?
- 2020-04-04Isit normal to have small lump at underarm during pregnancy week 33
- 2020-04-04Any recommendation for night clock to put in room where baby sleeps?
- 2020-04-04on my 21 week scan, my doctor told me that my placenta is lying low that I should avoid sexual intercouse and heavy exercise but I masturbated once a month, how much will it affect? I have no bleeding thou...
- 2020-04-04Hi mummies! My baby is due for 5-in-1 injection on 7 April at poly. Previously i went for the first injection in February with my mum, the nurse told us that only one caregiver is allowed to come in but i realised that there are many other people coming in together with another person. Super annoyed as i had a very hard time dealing with a cranky baby alone. So this time i want to check if my husband is allowed to come with me for my baby’s injection?
- 2020-04-04Hi, my son was prescribed azythromycin and the day 1 of taking it after lunch, he didnt really sleep at nap as he puked and cried. At night time was worst, seems like he has hallucinations and just started screaming and very very scared. Day 2 at night the same thing happened. My son is only 2 yr old. Anyone has experienced the same?
- 2020-04-04Any mummies have bought packages on post natal massage? Proceed / refund or ?
- 2020-04-04I just gave birth like a month ago... and my husband keep saying I am a useless wife every single day. Never hear any encouragement words from him at all. Either I got slap at the back very hard or he just twisted my hands whenever baby doesnt want to drink during midnight. He said I hold the baby wrongly and etc. I feel very depressed.