theAsianparent Site Map - Articles for May 2019
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- 2019-05-06Is this a sign of pregnancy? It’s this odd ache around my breast and nipples on the left
- 2019-05-06My 21 month toddler is bahving like an adult. he has a mind of his own and he wants things to be done his way. I have difficulties managing him whenever he is experiencing a meltdown. He would start biting and beating when he gets frustrated. I am lost and unsure what to do. Is there an expert or course I can attend to manage my child?
- 2019-05-06Hi mummies. Is it true if u have bad morning sickness, means u having a boy, and not having bad morning sickness, means u having a girl?
- 2019-05-06When can I start to wash my hair after deliver?
- 2019-05-06How to wean off bm? My son is 16 months old, he direct latch ever since he was a baby. When he was younger, he still uses the bottles and etc, but not anymore. When he doesnt see me, he doesnt eat or drink anything, on good days he only will eat solids. But his solids intake aint good either. I've tried supplementing with formula : Isomil & Dumex Soy, but he rejected all of them, not even my frozen stash of bm. (He is allergic to cow's milk, so not an option). Any mummy can advise me? Thanks
- 2019-05-06Has your child ever experienced a Toddler's Fracture?
- 2019-05-06NAN or Bellamy Organic for infant 0-6 mths
- 2019-05-06may i knw how long is the processing time for deposit cash in cda acc. Dollar to dollar.
- 2019-05-06Are there enough toys out there for children with special needs?
- 2019-05-06Hi i'm currently 6 mnths pregnant. Been going through an emotional roller coaster ride during my pregnancy journey & I'm always taking leave or mc to rest my mind at home, my husband's always there for me when I need him. I don't have friends who is pregnant currently so I don't talk to them about this because I don't want them to feel awkward.
The problem is that, my other pregnant colleagues are just doing fine, no problems apart from the morning nausea & those typical pregnant symptoms. I feel stupid & weak to have to go through this while they seem so strong. I don't talk to them about this issue because they sound judgemental & I don't need such negativity in my life.
I understand every pregnancy is different but I would expect mine to have bad nausea or extreme weight gain but mine just hormones raging about. Well, makes me feel shitty everyday. Is what I'm going through considered normal or am I just being a weak ass?
- 2019-05-06Any idea if i can bring foldable tent at Labrador Park.
- 2019-05-06Planning my LO's 1st birthday now. Any recommended baker for birthday cakes?
- 2019-05-06Do you prefer to use storage bags or bottles to store your breast milk?
- 2019-05-06Hello mummies,
Will like to check at how many week did you go for down symdrone test.
Am paranoid these few weeks worrying about LO being affected.
do help!
- 2019-05-06Any feedback on KKH private patient ? Like the service wise or which doc to recommend ?
- 2019-05-06GP gave a 500mg paracetamol, chlorpheniramine 4mg and cetirizine 10mg. She said it's safe for pregnancy. I'm on WK20 now. Anyone eaten these medicines during pregnancy before?
- 2019-05-06i have 2 siblings who is autistic. My 31 years old has severe eczema on his leg and hand that skin peels off and bleeding.
My younger sister 28 years old has swollen lip that skin peels off , bleeding and puss coming out.
This is what i going to say, i reach clinic at 8.42pm. Reg counter do all the resgistration just asked to sit down. At 8.59pm, staff told me doctor cannot see because too many patients and doctor is tired.
I just shared my concerns about my two siblings, i did infm the staff, i am going to write in. This is unacceptable excuses to say you are tired.
Doctor came out, saying to me that i can write in, i dont want to see the because i have too many. I even asked, staff can let me know earlier so i dont hv to wait, i just go some where else. imaging bring my 2 sibling who is mentally challenges, and my 3 year child cannot keep still. I am tired, frustrated that as why such things happen like that. Doctor is jus unreasonable.
The same doctor, my daughter has a high fever last year, clinic was still running with no patients, 8.36pm can hav the balls to tell me that i can see your child because its my birthday, i need to rush home.
WTF seriously, i ask my SIL, i shared my concerns and frustration. i told her i want to write in Moh. She say you can feedback abt the staff and system. Not the part that dr is tired. Because its his own Private GP. He has every right.
what every right, you should treat pt liks that seriously, i am really fuming seriously.
what should i do.
- 2019-05-06Recently I always feel hungry before bed time though I had my dinner around 7-8pm. Couldn’t fall asleep because of the hunger. Other than warm fresh milk, what other healthy food can I eat before bed?
- 2019-05-06Hi, any mums experiencing the same?
I direct latch morning & evening, pump at work. Since a month now my son is on solid so i have reduced my pumping.
Its been almost a week I no longer feel the need to express as my boobs just stay soft and supple the whole day.
The last 2 days i didn’t even pump and i felt ok. I quite enjoy this feeling of not being slaved by full boobs, but also worried that i may drop the supply and can’t really get it back up again.
At the moment my freezer is still full with milk that can last a month. I have not actually decided when to stop breastfeeding. If i continue to just latch morning & night, do you think i can maintain that in the next 5mos? Or will i dry up soon?
- 2019-05-06Hi im 15 weeks pregnant. Last check up im at 14 weeks doc say they cant hear my baby heartbeat..My heart sank hearing this & doc say baby might had already gone?. So doc told me to wait for 1more week to scan again and probably i will start to have miscarriage symstom but the problem is till now there is no bleeding or cramp..So i wonder if my baby still alive & am i still pregnant..Anyone encounter this before?
- 2019-05-06Hi, can anyone advise if I can use UV Steriliser to sterilise baby food bowls, cups that Are made of plastic and/or silicon that state they are microwave friendly even if it didn’t state that we can use UV Sterilizer on them? I realized not many items state we can UV Sterilizer and the retail assistants at the shops are no help at all!
- 2019-05-06why i feel so sad during pregnancy? will it affect baby or miscarriage?
- 2019-05-06Hi i am currently 10 weeks pregnant and it is the fasting month now. Is it okay to fast? Earlier today I tried fasting and vomited after a few hours with severe pain in my tummy. I had a bad headache the whole day and felt better once I consumed some porridge. What are some experiences you mummies had while fasting during pregnancy? I read somewhere that its not recommended to fast during early pregnancy like mine.
- 2019-05-06I gained much weight/fats after delivery and am unable to slim down to pre pregnancy weight/size. Need to buy much bigger sizes now. Where can I find nice and cheap big size t shirts and blouses?
- 2019-05-06my lo is about 3weeks plus and I've yet to bathe her usually my mother does it for me.
but i really want to learn how to bathe my lo. any one can help? or share advices when bathing lo
- 2019-05-06My lo is 1 year plus. And I observed his armpit and thigh skin colour has darkened. Is it normal?
- 2019-05-06Lo is now 17 months old and has been eating porridge with different meat and vegetables for months. Guess he’s getting a little sick of the food. Any recipes for toddlers less than 18 months?
- 2019-05-07Hi all, does anyone have any idea where I can get Frisolac infant formula milk powder in Yishun area? Order from Friso but the delivery was not delivered although it was supposed to be send yesterday (vehicle broke down as claim by logistics company only when I called to check) and no advise on next delivery time.. Just wanna rant on how bad the service is..
- 2019-05-07Hi mummies
Am i the only one who has problems with my MIL?
I'm not sure if it's because I'm very young therefore she thinks I'm incapable of taking care of my lo myself. But I'm having my confinement at my own home and my parents r both working but I'm doing fine handling my lo.
My mil likes to tell me how i should care for my lo and what I should do when i don't need such advices bc I'm rly doing fine!
Currently I'm alternating between my parents home n my in law in months so it's fair to both sides in terms of spending time with my lo and I'm honestly more comfortable at my own home as noone is here to micromanage me.. but my mil isnt happy about that, she is constantly arguing with my husband that i should be living with them instead as the baby is their family surname..
and my mil doesn't respect me when i tell her to not wake my baby up when my lo is sleeping she always carries her n wake her up on purpose and keeps insisting on giving my daughter pacifier when i do not encourage unless really necessary.
Problems about my in law house that makes me uncomfortable also is because they always smoke in their home and definitely 2nd and 3rd hand smoke is NOT good for my lo but mil doesnt respect that! she still smokes in the house and in her room!!!!!
mil also isnt happy that my husband n i r planning to rent a 2room from hdb bc she wants us to stay with her.
What should i do?? i get very depressed whenever I'm at my in law house bc of the things my mil does. and I'm not able to voice up to her.
- 2019-05-07Hi all, if you have a sudden craving during lunch on working days and your clique may not want to eat at the place you have in mind, how do you resolve it? Lunch alone to keep yourself happy or go with the flow and risk your mood going down?
- 2019-05-07How to reduce pregnancy vomit in early months?
- 2019-05-07Anyone seeing dr. natalie chua too? The receptionist NEVER answers the phone. Getting so frustrated that considering changing to another gynae just because of this. does she has a clinic?
- 2019-05-07hi mommies, any of u have done this test in first trimester to screen for down syndrome? hows your process and the results? pls share! thank u
- 2019-05-07Which first aid skill do you think is most important to learn?
- 2019-05-07Any advice on how to tame occasional breakouts on face? I'm in my 7th month. I do face scrubs, face mask & all the skincare routine you can possibly imagine. Any beauty guru who is as vain as me? Any advice?
- 2019-05-07Hi ladies.. First time mother here.. Im 33 years old and got pregnant after IUI procedure.. Currently 8 weeks pregnant and saw baby and baby's heartbeat in last scan..
However, 2 days ago and today I experienced vaginal bleeding. I rushed to doctor who said baby is safe. Today I am again at the doctor waiting to be examined..
Any of you experienced this before? Should I be worried?
- 2019-05-07Is it safe to sleep on the right side? Im at my last trimester of my pregnancy. I don't feel comfortable sleeping on the left side so I'll rotate to my right side some nights.
- 2019-05-07im still in 1st trimester, can i take any probiotic or yakult drink?
- 2019-05-07single mom, those of you have kids. At what age is appropriate to tell your child about parents are divourceed?
What do you tell them?
Is it the child asked?
My ex husb has left me and my child almost 2 yr. My dau is 3 years plus.
He hasnt been coming to see her.
I am concern how to break the news where she start to ask where is the father.
My ex hus has left us bcoz he wants his freedom, doesnt want any responsibility, affair and staying with mistress.
- 2019-05-07Any good sanitizer to recommend??
I'm currently using mircoshield
- 2019-05-07Currently pregnant six months plus, planning going to kk woman hospital for 2d scan, my friend at kk woman hospital do the scan under private is $100,my friend told mi go polyclinic n ask the doctor there write a letter for mi intro mi go kk woman hospital do 2d scan is cheaper, can anyone tell wat should i do? Thank
- 2019-05-07The past few nights, and sometimes days, I've been having sharp shooting pain through my left breast. It gets pretty intense sometimes. I'm currently 19 weeks pregnant. Anyone had this before?
- 2019-05-07hi all..i'm pregnant no.3 @32wks...have sex with hubby but cnt insert fully..he said can feel like block...all my 2 pregnancy give birth @37wk...should i be prepare in case baby out earlier? anyone experience it?
- 2019-05-07Dear to all mummies,
I am looking for your kind assistance which doctor at kkh is your best recommendation and why? your comments are much needed below. tks for advance
- 2019-05-07Where do you get cheap blankets for helpers who sleeps with baby in aircon room at night?
- 2019-05-07Which is more devastating? Talking about toddlers.
- 2019-05-07Any best recommended doctor at kkh for experience mummies outta there?
- 2019-05-07Hi i'm currently about 28 weeks right now. I've noticed increased in vaginal discharge, white & no smell. Is this normal? I've read somewhere that this is one of the telltale signs of premature labour? I'm worried.
- 2019-05-08whatsapp grp for receipes sharing
- 2019-05-08Anyone give birth or check up @ Kk hospital?
Anyone know the price for gender check scan?
- 2019-05-08Hi, anyone that have good relationship with the in laws? Please share your tips? Thanks.
- 2019-05-08hi has any mummy gone thru very bad nose block and leading to bronchitis for one yr plus toddler.. my boi has alrdy been to hospital 3 times since start of 2019. but everytime when he is abt to recover, his cough n block nose will come back as a package...
any help?
- 2019-05-08anyone has PCF sparketots childcare N1/N2 price list for woodlands area?
- 2019-05-08my child now is in N1. I am i intending to put her in childcare next year.
May i know the childcare class is it they mix all the age grp like 1 year to 6 year old kind. or they separate in the education/age level in during classes.
sorry i am asking, my first time i feel so stressed up as i need to make arrangements.
- 2019-05-08hi mummies, how many months when u all start to give ur LO a solid food ? what fruits and veggie and how u prepare it? thank u
- 2019-05-08do I need to remove my toe nail color before going to delivery?
- 2019-05-08Hi, i am having neck pain, can eat panadol during pregnancy? Use yoko yoko or salon-paste? what ways can help? Thanks.
- 2019-05-08can anyone tell me what is student care
- 2019-05-08may i know on top of working mom subsidies, additional subsidies base on household income. Is there another additional subsidies for single mother.
I m looking for full day childcare.
I would like to know the price.
E.g the fees is $750
- 2019-05-08I do try to flip to my left or right side throughout the night. But naturally I will revert to sleeping on my back again. Any mummies had the same experience of sleeping on the back throughout their pregnancy would be appreciated, thank you! :)
- 2019-05-08hi mommy, is there any remedy for sore throat except for honey lemon n salt water? csn i eat pi pa gao? heard from doc that the blackcurrent lozenges from GP must take with cautious.. need help thanks!
- 2019-05-08very envious seeing mothers who breastfeed well and have plenty of milk supply. I've done whatever I can to increase my milk supply (from eating right and taking fenugreek tablets, latching, pumping) but each time I pump, it's not even enough for one feed. so frustrating. it's been going on for 3 weeks since I delivered on 17 April. I gave up and end up feeding her formula. sigh!
- 2019-05-08do ecda/msf required bank statement to get additional subsidies for single mom to apply childcare.
i dont see the logic there.
sorry i need some advise.
- 2019-05-08Today just got the result from my Oscar and the ratio is 1:561. And I am doing the 2nd test. I am soo worry now.. Is the ratio really that bad?
- 2019-05-08Is it true that if u put the book under your head pillow when you sleep your memory of the studied subject will be better?
- 2019-05-08Do you give massage to your baby? And why?
- 2019-05-08after giving birth, without my big pregnant tummy.. i see all my stretch marks.. on my tummy, my hips my bum my chest.
i feel so depressed...
- 2019-05-08i m going to change my address to my parents house because i am divorced. my child is staying with me. do i need to changed my child's address also at the birth cert. how to go about.
- 2019-05-09hi all...what can i take to boost baby wgt .?.32wks baby 1.3kg.. i dnt take durian btw...thk u ladies
- 2019-05-09Hi, can I go to cinema to watch movie?? I'm 17 week pregnant!
saw from an article that loud noise / music will affect my baby's development ??
- 2019-05-09Hi.. I am not breastfeeding. Do I still latch my baby straight after delivery for colostrum intake?
- 2019-05-09I think i have a shy baby(hope not) ?
Im in my 18th week and when i touch my belly when baby is kicking, She/He stops kicking ?? same goes when his daddy touches my belly. And when we remove our hands, baby kicks again. Hehe how about you mummies? Do you have the same dilemma?
- 2019-05-09Hello Mummies,
I would like to ask for review on PEM confinement agency. Pls feel free to share your inputs.
Many thanks
- 2019-05-09Can please share your daily meal plan for 1 year old?
- 2019-05-09Low supply mom here.
Recently I’m back in the workforce but my job nature only allow me to pump every 8-10hrs. One side of my milk supply has drastically drop from 60ml to 20ml. The other side still manage to hit 50ml. Any idea how to boost? I’ve tried all the lactation stuff. And pump more frequently over the weekends. Any suggestion to increase milk flow?
- 2019-05-09may I know where to buy cheapest jujube diaper bag in Singapore that's trusted? online or direct shop
- 2019-05-09my lo is turning 1mth this Sunday.
she usually drinks 110 - 125ml of ebm.
but sometimes it isnt enough for her, so I'm trying to feed 140ml but she keeps spit up despite burping n sitting her up straight for awhile. is it bc is too much for her? am i over feeding?
she drinks every 2h-3h.
- 2019-05-09This is the 1st time my mens is late for 3 days & I noticed that my pants are kinda tight for me.
At times, I do feel that I'm having mens feel and will check at toilet but on the other hand I wish to hear good news if my mens dont come by next week.
Anyone encounter the same concern as me??
- 2019-05-09Hi any one experienced after periods around 10 days later again I see spotting for 3 to 5days but not much .. i am experiencing since 3 months , am I need to worry for this or is it normal ? .. any one experienced same ? Pls suggest
- 2019-05-09How do you decide you are ready for no. 2? When did you start trying again? How did you feel after having no. 2? Looking back now, any regrets of not sticking to just one?
- 2019-05-09Any one attended Huguru? How is the pricing like? Any free trail for our little one?
- 2019-05-09I am wondering when my parents told me that I should not tell anyone about my pregnant until month 3.
- 2019-05-09What are the best pregnancy movies?
- 2019-05-09My daughter is 6.5 months old and still doesn’t know how to fall asleep herself ? before can just hold, swing, to let her fall asleep. But recently is getting harder, she is sleepy but doesn’t let us hold to sleep or anything else... has to use stroller to bring her down walk around then she can fall asleep right away.. (bad habit)
- 2019-05-09Hi ppl, im wondering if 6.1 in ur blood sugar before bed isit consider normal or high?
- 2019-05-09For us Saturday morning we send our daughter to day care, then we pick her for lunch and post that we go visit friends.
Sunday morning we go horse riding, visit the library for story telling session and to pick up new stack of books, maybe to the museum and then lunch followed by family dinner with extended family.
- 2019-05-09I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant, and my 3YO has seemed to regress. We are doing toilet training now and I'm so afraid that she is going to regress back to diapers when the new baby is here...
her current regression includes asking to drink from the milk bottle (we have quit it alr), asking to drink from my boobs?! (even though she wasn't breastfed past 1 month old), and asking to be carried all the time.
and she's always saying that she wanna stay small and be a baby.
will it get better or worse when the baby is here?
- 2019-05-10For parents who just started weaning your baby, do you buy organic produce to prepare purées etc for your baby?
- 2019-05-10I want to be much more healthy as it’s easy to loss the baby during first 3 months. Any survival tips for me?
- 2019-05-10Yesterday I met my doctor for the first time and glad to see my baby is growing up in uterus. It is supposed to be week 6, however doctor said embryo is a week smaller. So he counted as week 5. May I ask do anyone know is the menstrual cycle affect? My menstrual cycle is 32 days
- 2019-05-10How many years did you send your child to preschool for?
- 2019-05-10Do your kids go crazy when it rains?
- 2019-05-10How old can i bring my lo to pool?
- 2019-05-10Hi im currently 12 weeks pregnant.. i just when to the toilet, i saw theres like 1,2 spots on my underwear like a small dot.. but i couldnt figure it out if its a blood spot or not because my underwear is navy blue. isit normal to have spotting at this stage? Or should i go to kkh?
- 2019-05-10hi mummies, anyone here with gestational diabetes? Can it be cured?
- 2019-05-10Ive been craving for alot of hotpot food. Please fill me in with more good location??
- 2019-05-10hi mommies, i have been very acne prone before pregnancy. im close to 2nd trimester now and mt chest, shoulders n backs are having acne..its slowly spreading to my face now as well :(
any remedy or products to.help for pregnant ladies? understand some products are not safe.m
- 2019-05-10When did you announce your pregnancy?
- 2019-05-10does swelling feet during 3rd trimester is common? can it be prevented?
- 2019-05-10Can i check if i can drink Milo and take New Obimin tablets straight after? Or do i have to wait after 2 hours?
- 2019-05-10My lo is rejecting my stash of frozen BM and instead prefers formula milk now. I’m just wondering if her feed is 120ml, will I be able to mix 90ml formula & 30ml frozen but warmed BM to give her a serving of 120ml in order to hide the taste of the frozen BM?
- 2019-05-10Forgot to get Mc from hosp. How? Anyone same as me? What to do
- 2019-05-10Where to buy when finish but appointment next week
- 2019-05-10Any mum here ,got hard time taking blood from nurse and doctor like me... i kena poke 3times for bloodtest.... becos cannot see veins clearly and slow bloodflow ...
- 2019-05-10Mummies, any idea where to get 24mm flange that can fit a Spectra 9+ pump? The given 28mm flange seems too big and it hurts during pumping time..
- 2019-05-10Hi can I know where can I find confinement wine in Singapore ?? Don’t see any shops selling them..
- 2019-05-10Hi mummies, may I know where can we buy family outfit? Hopefully can get big range of size and infant size
- 2019-05-10Hi any recommendations for Epsom salt brands?
- 2019-05-10mummies is it normal to experience some body heat and sometimes heat from your little baby bump? i often felt hot and woke up in the middle of the night...
- 2019-05-10I jus found out that my Wife who is 4 months pregnant has been cheating on me. What should I do? I found out as I stumbled into her email inbox and read all her romantic emails to her Co worker
- 2019-05-10mummies is it healthy to drink coffee maybe a few times often in the morning for the energy stay out through your 9hours working?
- 2019-05-11It is really upset that coworkers do not understand my situation,and always make nasty comments. All I can do is pretend that I do not hear it,but deep down,it really hurts.
- 2019-05-11any whatsapp group for kids program?
- 2019-05-11Have you ever thought of learning how to do CPR or emergency response?
- 2019-05-11Parents, how often do you REALLY clean your kitchen?
- 2019-05-11Please help me on how can i change the language into English? Thanks
- 2019-05-11What are some of the things I should consider?
- 2019-05-11Issit realli not that safe to travel oversea for pregnant mummy? I miss my holiday so much?
- 2019-05-11Y m i only 2 mths going 3 mths..but my tummy looks like 4-5 mths preggy like that?! Is it normal?
- 2019-05-11To me, I like working and packed schedule. Do you?
- 2019-05-11Hi working mummies! Due to space constraints, I’m seriously considering taking care of my baby on my own till I go back to work. Currently we are staying at my in laws and we have a part time helper who does housework. I’m not expecting my in laws to help with taking care of baby. MIL & SIL work and FIL is not so mobile. May I check with mummies who managed to take care of your baby wo any confinement lady or helper for tips? I’m 3 months to my EDD now. Feeling the anxiety kicking in cos I’m really unsure how I can manage as a FTM. :(
I’m wondering if I can just try my best to cope and when I go back to work, i can get a day care nanny to take care of my baby. Cos of the space constraints, I doubt a helper would be an option.
- 2019-05-11pls advicing me
my girl is 27 months just starting school
I am so exhausted doing housework and staying with in law and taking care smaller baby 13 months, my big girl always drives me mad I end up beated her non stop and my heart feels so pain, she is difficult to focus running nonstop and not want to eat, I don't have feeling to do anything I feel I am not human why beated her so much, but I couldn't control, I somehow think I don't care let she does whatever she wants, not eat I don't care any more, too tired, I just want to get out of my house going to work don't care what is going on, my husband always not allow to hire helper, he told he didn't want kids get suffer from maid, but I am the person bully my kids now, I just want to send them to nanny whatever. pls advicing me what I should do?
- 2019-05-11i am week 9. Someone accidentally threw a pillow at my tummy. Slight pain but is it ok?
is it ok?
- 2019-05-11Hi, how do you cope with the 2 weeks wait? I done my IUI last week and i got no sign no implantation etc (today is 7th day after IUI).
I'm worried and and having emotional rollercoaster since I ttc few months back (33yo with PCOS)
- 2019-05-11Lately I totally lost my appetite due to bad morning sickness. Sometimes couldn’t even finish one full meal. Any suggestion what to eat for lunch & dinner?
- 2019-05-11Can I use back my no. 1 baby’s milk bottles or buy completely new milk bottles for my no.2 baby?
- 2019-05-11My lo has turned 6 months old and I’ve just started weaning her. Is it necessary to buy a food maker? I’ve read that a lot of parents buy the Philips Avent 4-in-1 food maker. Are there other food makers that you recommend besides the Philips Avent? I’m confused with the many options out there - any tips will be helpful!
- 2019-05-11I was wondering how old should I swaddle my kid till? currently she is 1.5months.
I see that she will struggle to escape the swaddle.
thank you!
- 2019-05-11My formula milk instructions stated 120ml water to 4 scoops of formula - if I measure the water to exactly 120ml before adding the formula powder, I will end up with about 140ml after preparing - is this correct? Most people I know prepare 4 scoops of formula topped with water to 120ml so the entire mixture is still 120ml, to do that it means the water used is less than 120ml. Which way is correct??
- 2019-05-11Any mummies feel frustrated when hubby brings baby out himself to meet in laws?
- 2019-05-11my wife shunned me, wanted to move away. it's because I hurt emotionally with hurtful and cynical words . emotional abuse. i did not watch her heart. this is the fifth year of marriage. both re-married with kids of former.
we just start to see counselling. and i know it is not an immediate remedy.
i realised my errors and trying to correct. she saw the changes. she said it's now her problem. she cannot forget my abuse to her.
how can i speed up her recovery? i am also suffering and depressed becos of her rejection.
before this we are very loving.
seek yr advice.
thank you