Toddler activities

Hello mga momshies, share nyo naman experiences nyo with your 29months old, I have a 2yr old daughter, my first born. She is unstoppable, very active but I just noticed na hindi sya masyadong nakikinig sa amin ng daddy nya kapag sinasaway namin. She tends to be selective sa mga sinasabi namin. Pansin ko lang na yung mga "gusto" lang nya ang pinapakinggan nya. Is it too early to impose a rule to my daughter? Paano nyo ba nadisiplina ang baby nyo during this age? Thank you