9m old feeding schedule

Hi all. I am still trying to get my son to eat 2/3 meals a day. His eating schedule as follows: 6am - milk 10am - breakfast (solid food) 12pm - milk before afternoon nap 3pm - solid food (but not willing to eat) 5pm - milk before nap 8pm - solid food (again not willing to eat) 10pm - milk before bedtime He is only willing to eat his breakfast and have his milk. Am I feeding it wrongly?